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I have to write it on Pleo because if I tell the story face to face I will probably start crying! 09-20-08 02:07pm EST
We had a great week at camp this past week and we found out some amazing things!

Some of you might remember that Alan and I went through fostering classes in the hopes of adopting a baby girl about 3 years ago. We were leaving to go to Disney World when we got the call to foster a baby girl but that it would only be for 2 weeks - we thought that we could handle 2 weeks even though I had just found out that I was pregnant with Grace. During the next week we discovered that 2 weeks would most likely turn into 18 years. Alan and I thought about it and decided that we would. When we came home from Disney World it got crazy! We still had paper work, had to set up a nursery, and get ready for the case worker to inspect the house (we still had not gotten the house fixed from the flood) in 1 day! And Alan was at work! I couldn't handle it and was starting to have problems with my pregnancy so Alan called the agency and told them that we were going to have to back out. I was devestated - and it just so happened that we were going to get her on Mothers Day. I haven't liked mothers day since then. I have always wanted to know if we had made the right decision and if she was okay.

Fast forward to homeschool camp last week.

I was talking to one of the Dads that was at camp who had fostered to adopt a little girl. We started talking about his situation with his adoption process. We soon realized that we had been using the same agency! As we talked I started seeing many similarities. I asked him if her real name was _________ and he said yes! I couldn't believe that she was right there!! Out of all of the families in Texas that could have adopted her God put her with a family that was at the same camp! We talked a long time about all of the difficulties that they had in fostering her and adopting her and I realized that there was no way that I could have been pregnant and gone through all that they went through. God knew that we couldn't handle the stress but also knew that I needed to know that we had made the right decision. We will be able to see her grow up because we both go to camp twice a year. She is in a wonderful family and she is beautiful!

How amazing is that?? God has a plan for everything. Even if we don't see it right away.
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tjmeadowsI'm glad that you found her, Deb, because if she can't have you for a mother, at least you will be there to counsel and be a mentor for her. 
wacaseyWhat a wonderful story! 
smallville24WOW that is absolutely amazing! How wonderful to know that you will be able to keep in touch with her anyway! 
littlebitty624that is such a cool story, i was just talking about it to joe this morning! (weird) ... and i never see you cry :o)
*HUG* 
littlebitcabNow I see why you couldn't tell it! God is truly amazing. 
shauna_leewow...that's incredible! God knows what's best... 
ewalkerThat is amazing! 
gingerspiceWow, thats making me cry! That is so awesome! 
graceThat gave me chill bumps! 
wildpeachemHow wonderful that you both have beautiful little girls now. 
nicoleDebbie, that story is amazing. Wow. Thank you so much for sharing with us! 
littlebitty624good point!!! 
paulawThat is so cool! How are you guys? 
ajutI tagged you. 
allierebaWere they that bad? haha 
gingerspiceYeah, why didn't you know that? ;) 
wgdwhenwecome4uthat is SO true and your story is amazing! God definitely has a plan and reason for everything. We may not see it right away/ 
missyaggieHey, Debbie. I have added the brochures and price list to one of my galleries. We are not real concerned about meeting the goal because band is just driving us nuts right now; so, don't feel you have to order something.

If you want to, though, you can send me a check or paypal me. 
littlebitcabYes, a coard would be great. I'll get the address and let you know. 
littlebitcabMissed you and Grace Sunday. Hope she is feeling better! 
borgprotocolThat is way cool! God is so good! 
debsherbsHi Debbie, I am Debbie Griffin (Deb) My hubby preaches in KS. I had to tell you that the story above is so touching. We tried to adopt 2 times and had 2 miscarriages and our baby girl Kendra died right before birth. I love kids and wanted 5 or 6! God does have His reasons, When my son's were teens, my house was full of teens. We took several of them in and they lived with us. And we were there for a lot of kids over the years. If we had a big family, we would not have been able to touch so many kids life. Now they are married, with children and they bring them to see us & we see them. Loss is so difficult at the time, but years down the road we can see there are so many blessings even with losses. 
gsloverGreat story! 
shauna_leeI think that is a great idea--maybe next year October?!?! :) 
rachaeltill the 30th 
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We are off to the beach - AGAIN 08-13-08 07:31am EST
We are leaving to go to Mustang Island again. The third time is a charm, right?? I think that I have figured out that it is not I who is the hurricane magnet, but Grace. The past two times that we have gone to the beach we have had to evacuate due to a hurricane. These are the only two times that Grace has gone to the beach, therefore, it is her fault and not mine. Blame it on the kid! :)
wildpeachemWhy not? Eventually she will blame everything on you:) 
wacaseyThat sweet little baby? I can't believe a mom could even THINK about blaming something like a big, awful hurricane on a baby. Shame, shame all over you! 
gsloverShould I pray for a hurricane? 
coffee_girllol. 
graceWell, I just got back from Corpus and the coast was clear for me! Have a good time! 
swood1124Hope y'all had fun! 
gingerspiceSure, blame it on the kid! Missed ya'll on Sunday! Tell Cole I missed having him in bible class. I only have 2 more weeks with the kids. :*( 
paulawHow was your trip? 
borgprotocolIt's bad enough to blame bodily functions on kids, but the weather too? You have no shame! 
runswithscissorsWow. I am glad you already went to Mustang Island. One of my first thoughts when I heard about Gustav was, "okay, WHERE is Debbie Meadows?" 
borgprotocolYes, Monterey Bay Aquarium has successfully kept two Great Whites (young ones) for 4 to 5 months each. They couldn't keep them much longer because they start to eat the other fish in the tank. Great White doesn't want to be fed, Great White wants to hunt! So then both were released. The aquarium is the first one in history to successfully keep a Great White in captivity. Both sharks had been rescued. 
ewalkerdid you change your mind yet...? ;0) 
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07-08-08 07:31pm EST
AJ is A smart smart kid smarter than me.
debbieGee, I wonder who wrote that!^^^^^ Okay, he did figure out how to put a picture up when I couldn't! By the way, he picked out that picture - I would have picked one with all 3 kids in it! 
wacaseyWHAT!?! 
smallville24AJ is a smart kid! lol 
tjmeadowsDeb, you need to work on your punctuation. By the way, A.J. I also don't know how to put a picture on Pleo. Could you show me sometime? 
gingerspicelol! I like the picture! The caption makes it look like you're holding AJ, wearing a dress and saying he's a smart kid! 
wildpeachemAJ needs some serious work on self-esteem issues:) I like his taste in photos. 
littlebitty624heh??? 
borgprotocolIt's sweet that he would pick a picture of his mom and sister. 
scrapbookerMaybe we could meet for dinner or something. That would be cool!! 
gingerspiceYou still need to teach me to swim if I'm going to do that! 
paulawCute picture. I don't know how to add a picture, either. 
paulawWe are going to Galveston and NASA - as long as the storm out in the gulf cooperates. 
shauna_leeThank you!!! We're excited too! :) 
mb1020The museum has a lot of information and things to read. We got there like at 9:15 and left at 5:15, and there were times I was just skimming. Who knew texas was so awesome??!? Also, right now, they have an exhibit dedicated to Dallas, the TV show. 
paulawHi - can you tell me the name of the hotel and give me the dates, again? Should have written all that down! 
gingerspiceThanks! 
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you need to change my password. cause I found it 05-11-08 06:46pm EST
ajuthahahahaha. Happy mothers day. 
ajutthat was me 
20gagekicknice 
gingerspiceSneaky kids... 
borgprotocolDebbie, do you ever check what's going on here? 
gsloverCHECK OUT MY BLOG AND LAUGH!!! 
runswithscissorsWelcome to my world! I had to change my password to keep her from commandeering my blog! I mean how can I attain the record for having the best post:comment ratio if she keeps posting for me? 
swood1124It was probably the best one ever. And to top if off (not sure if you heard yet), but we had an Oprah-like giveaway... everyone in the audience got brand new cars! :) 
ewalkerIt took too long, with frequent TV breaks :) Are you guys going to the Reeves on Thurs? 
paulawProbably next weekend - after we take a loan out for the gas! So, how do you keep boys from picking on each other and hitting each other? 
blondie_boylol A.J.................... 
wildpeachemAlan is so generous with his dog, but what would AJ and Cole say? 
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Movie Reviews? 04-26-08 02:16pm EST
Has anyone seen the movie Cloverfield? I think that it is rated PG-13. I was wondering if it was O.K. for A.J. to watch (he's 12). I can't trust the reviews online, so I thought that I could get some opinions from Christians! We have unfortunately been to a few movies that we thought would be o.k. but really were not too great!
missyaggieWow, you must be desperate for a review! ;)

Have you seen what Screenit.com has to say? I think I looked at that and determined the boys could not see it until it came out on DVD and we could filter it. Do you want me to look it up for you there? 
wacaseyI've heard good things about screenit.com also. 
nicoleScreenit.com is good, and there's also kids-in-mind.com. Both give very detailed descriptions of the movies. Very good to use when deciding if a movie is okay to watch. Hope that helps! 
missyaggieLanguage was the main thing I objected to in it. 
rachaelIt was a combination of mildew and allergies (to the extreme!) and really terrible doctors. But I am finally over it I think as of last week. 
aletaIt was so good to see you at J and E's house! 'Twas lots of fun! 
paulawZ is fine. Insisted on going to preschool today and he has not complained of hurting at all. I am just hoping he does not get the pink eye from Josh. 
missyaggieA super family from church is moving to Austin. Meet Sarah here. (I may stowaway) 
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