I always knew that God takes care of us, and that he has a plan, but it is always so encouraging when you see Him working in your life. The last year has been a roller coaster, but I have finally (I hope!) gotten off the ride.
Most of you don't know this, but my husband left me and my boys last October. He adamantly denied that he was seeing anyone else, and would come and go, leaving me and the boys in a constant state of limbo. He came home in June, and I thought that he really wanted to work on things, but he was only home for about 2 months before he was ready to leave again. Only this time, he finally admitted that he had been having an affair for the last "year or two"???!!!!??? The only thing that kept me sane at that point was knowing that at least I wasn't in the dark anymore, and that if there was a divorce, it would be scriptural. I want my boys to know that God hates divorce--He always has, and He always will. It should not be so easy for people to just give up on the promises that they make to each other and to God.
Anyway, I had been subbing some at the school, and I was contemplating getting my teaching certificate so that I will not have to depend on him living up to his responsibilities since that doesn't seem to be his strong suit. About 2 weeks ago, I was subbing at the elementary school when I got a call on my cell phone (while the kids were at PE) from the high school wondering if I would be interested in a long-term subbing job. Since I am not certified, I didn't even think that that was a possibility, but the principal pulled some strings for me, and since it is a critical-needs area, so was given a little more leeway from the school district. (I didn't mention that she was my principal when I graduated around 13 years ago.) Long story short, I am now teaching biology and physical science at the high school (only 8 miles or so from home), and it seems that the permanent job is mine for the taking. I signed up last weekend to start the program to get my certificate.
So, the next several months will be very hectic, I'm sure, but just look at the plan God had in mind for me. I know I never would have imagined that I would be a HS science teacher, but God knew otherwise. He is so good! And, even when it seems like the situation is bad, there is ALWAYS a silver lining if you are on the Lord's side, because He is always on your side!
Thanks for letting me vent. I would appreciate prayers for my strength, patience (with 3 classes a day of hormonal, attitudinal adolescents I need that most!), and courage to follow this new path that God has lead me to.
Deanna :)
Joshua 1:9--"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."
I am so sorry that you have been through so much, but am so happy that you see your "silver lining"! I'll be keeping you & your family in my prayers that God's will be done in all things! Stay focused on your blessings & keep the positive attitude!
Deanna, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you were going through all this. I'm willing to help you out whenever with your boys if you ever need help...I'm in charlotte this weekend but I'll be back at church eventually, we've been gone a lot:) I'll definitely be praying for you!
I'm serious about the offer, When we lived in Charlotte a little over a year ago I was a nanny, I'm use to having kids around and enjoy them quite a bit:) Let me know if you need anything.
I'm so glad the teaching situation is working out. I know you'll do a great job! But realistically, I know it's all going to try your patience big time. You have a lot on your plate! I'll keep you in my prayers. I really appreciate your positive attitude!
Hey, we've been out of town like every weekend, it's been crazy. We were up in Brevard with Fred's parents this past weekend and the one before that we were in Charlotte. I didn't realize the airport church was having a gospel meeting, when is it through?
I know, I know. I go for months without a post, and now 3 in a matter of days? I just wanted to post that I took Jacob to school this morning, so the school year has officially begun. He was holding on to my shirt for dear life and being soooo silly and "shy" (yeah, right) until his friend Caleb showed up and then it was "Bye, Mom." That quick. I hope and pray that this will be another great school year. Too bad Tanner wants to go to school now, he has 2 more years to go...
Hope he has a great year! Tanner's time will come soon enough. Amanda always wanted to sit at a desk and do her "work" when I subbed for the boys classes.
I downloaded the teacher's manual -- well, part of it. It wouldn't all download. It is just the student workbook with answer written in in red. It will probably be helpful but not essential.
Here's your chance to let the media know where the people stand on our faith in God, as a nation. NBC is taking a poll on 'In God We Trust' to stay on our American currency. Please send this to every Christian you know so they can vote on this important subject.
Please do it right away, before NBC takes this off the web page.
MSNBC poll is still open so you can vote.
Just click on OR copy and paste this address:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/10103521/
Right now it is 64% for keeping 'In God We Trust' and 36% against. It's nice to know that for once I'm in the majority!
School starts here on Wednesday. Jacob doesn't seem to be super-excited about starting 1st grade, but he is happy that his best friend, Caleb, is going to be in his class again. I was wondering how much subbing I would be doing at the beginning of the year...I didn't think many teachers would be missing the first couple weeks of school. Well, like I said, school starts Wednesday, and I am already subbing on Friday (for Jacob's aide from last year who is moving her daughter into college that day), and they called me this morning to see if I could come next Monday and Tuesday to help in the classroom while the 1st grade teachers do observations with all of their new students. So, I guess they do need subs year-round.
Also, I am excited that my sister and I are going to see Dave Ramsey in Charleston on Saturday. This is part of my Christmas present from my mom. I am looking forward to listening to what he's got to say and I'm excited about getting some financial peace in this house! Anyway, looks like a couple of busy weeks ahead, I'm sure they will fly by...Seems like every week flies by these days.
Things are going well. Just keeping busy. We are planning on visiting again in October when Dean's dad is there for the meeting. Not sure if we'll be down before then. I would really like to go to the zoo. I really miss that zoo!!
No, they are not all dome-shaped. Just that one. :) The rest of the houses are "normal." lol We finally decided we "had" to stay in the "Dome" and we LOVED it! It has been our favorite so far!
No, I haven't heard anything about Kathy. Is there a problem? I emailed her and heard back a few days ago. She said she was still having therapy for her knee.
Hi:) My husband and I are moving to Columbia on the 29th of this month, I haven't actually been to Columbia yet but we're going there this weekend to find an apartment for now. My husband is going to be working for Colonial Life and he's wanting to live somewhere close, do you know where that area is and is the airport church close to it?
Thank you for all the information:) We were actually in Columbia today and we got an apartment. The apartment is called Broad River Trace Apartments and it's off of River Hill Cirlce. The area isn't the greatest but it's not bad, the actual apartment complex is really nice though and it feels like you're secluded from everything, there's huge trees all over and it's right next to the river. Fred and I will definitely be visiting the airport church once we get there so we'll have to look for you:) Thanks again for your help.