this has not been my best week yet
my best friend and boyfriend have been spending so much time together it makes me so mad. i admit im jealous of her. shes almost absolutely perfect. he seems to be all happy around her and never stops to give me the time i think he should. I get mad at him when he tries to give me attention afterwards because i think he should go out of his way more then he does.
my best friend and i aren't speaking to each other. i jumped her the other day because i felt she should know how i feel. i should have trusted her with my boyfriend. i call her my best friend and i didn't show it at all and was quick to judge her around my boyfriend. i need to work on that. she exploded on me but i do not think i wouldn't have done the same thing. i told her she was my best friend then turned around to tell her i felt she should stop talking to my boyfriend cause something just might happen.
yesterday a friend of mine wrote me and asked me to stop talking to her boyfriend too. i felt the hurt. we only talk through instant message and she said that we were talking way too much that something could happen. Over the internet? Why was I so quick to judge my best friend now that I've been put in the same situation?
And it started off with jealousy and it started off with not trusting people around me when of course i was covering it up saying i wanted us all to be cautious.
Hey Lindsay. I know I said forever ago that I wouldnt come on your blog anymore, but I came across your name and thought I'd see how you were doing. I hope you dont still feel bad towards me. At the time that the drama -or whatever- happened, I was an emotional teenage bride and I probably went overboard, so I hope that you dont feel bad towards me. But I read your blog and just had to comment :)
I just read your blog, and I really hope that things get worked out. I dated this guy, and a friend of mine persuaded him that she was better for him than me... That relationship between my ex and ex friend didnt work out (to which, I have to admit I was quite glad about). That might have been another reason why I had been upset forever ago, because I had this great fear that the same would happen with Tim, and that I wouldnt survive it... because I had mental breakdowns and everything with the ex. So, you're right in wanting to be cautious. And keep it up, because of the guy doesnt show interest in you and can't give you the attention you want/need/deserve, then he *might* not be worth it. Because if he doesnt give you attention now, he wont when/if you marry. ... But again, I hope it works out between you and your boyfriend :) I know it'll all work out. Hang in there!
Wow, yeah its been hard keeping up with all my friends.. sometimes I get depressed because i get blamed if I dont go out of my way to contact a big majority of my friends first. With one of me and so many friends its just very hard to live my life and keep everyone updated with what is going on (especially over the moving deal), pack and still try to be a good housekeeper , wife and spend time to my husband..
about your situation, I don't know what to say, just be cautious but be open minded. Sometimes ppl find ppl they click with as friends better then others.. if your best friend can open more with your b/f and they both say nothing is going on, all you can do right now is trust them until they can prove different. Although your best friend may not be getting from you don't take it personal. Try to be understanding and in time I'm sure things will settle. Sometimes as woman we over react some situations-- my best friend always told me "brandy choose your battles wisely". ITs true if you nitpick or make a deal over something that shouldnt be you may end up losing your bf and bf in the long run. Be patient and understanding and like I said before, until they give you more reason to not trust them just leave it in Gods hands..
Many times we try to take God's job into our hands and it over welms and stresses us out... it doesnt have to be this way ;)
