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Thanks for the birthday wishes! 11-20-08 10:10pm EST
Another year. It's funny how we don't always think so much about birthdays once we aren't children anymore..or maybe we do. I have been surprised that is hasn't bothered me to be middle aged as much as I thought it might. My life is full of blessings, and I need to take time to count them everyday.


Each season of life has its joys. Savor each one.
snickers63Somehow it IS bothering me. Love having my kids older, coming home and talking, adult to adult, but I don't like being 'middle-aged.' Not ready to fill the shoes of those who are ahead of me??? Idk... [x] 
w3jlHappy birthday and many more to come!! 
sirtorinHappy Birthday! =) 
snoopyHappy Birthday!! 
bama_momma_prezzYou are my birthday buddy....I turned 40...how bout you??? 
enyekA BIG Happy Birthday to you!!!! 
textiletHappy birthday! 
snickers63Amen about little ones making you feel younger... sometimes.... older sometimes. 
goatherdessHappy birthday, aunt Bertina! Hope to see you soon! 
tanjaDidn't know it was your birthday.

Happy Birthday! 
mother_henHappy Birthday! 
krazyqwiltusing the Bible lesson series Our Spirital Heritage here and none of us know the songs. Do you have a cd or something for us to learn them off? Like the looks of it, we got our stuff copied and set up the class materials today. Now to prepare the "props" as Charlie calls them that I use with the pre school and kinder. age to help them remember the lessons. 
aletaThank you for welcoming the Stowers!! They really enjoyed their visit there. 
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Ragnar Update! 11-15-08 04:50pm EST
If I had realized all the details before I went to bed last night, I probably wouldn't have slept very much. Adam called me back this morning around 10:30 a.m. saying the race was still going on! They ran all through the night! Turns out the race was from around noon yesterday until around noon today.

Adam's team came in first in its division! It took them 22 hours 50 minutes! Here is a website to check out more if you are interested. The course was from Clearwater to Daytona. Adam's team was Legends Plus. They came in second overall and first in their division. On the website it describes the length of the course and other details:

http://www.ragnarrelay.com/florida/index.php

Congratulations guys!

I am looking forward to a detailed report from him!
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mr_and_mrs_berryoh, I thought they'd come in second, but first is even better! I'm impressed. Lukas wanted to "race" me today; I think we should encourage him to race Adam! 
mr_and_mrs_berryI checked out that website and they don't have any info about this year's race yet; I'm going to check FC's website. 
mr_and_mrs_berryno updates on the site - maybe because it is the weekend still; I'll check back tomorrow ... 
mamaladyHey, I had checked the site over the weekend and the results were up then. I just rechecked and they are there. You have to click on Teams and results on the page I gave you then from there click on 2008 results. Adam's team is Legends Plus. [ 
aurocksThat is really great! I KNOW you're looking forward to seeing him soon :) 
belizemamaHi, could you send me your current email address? The people from HELLP needed to send you something 
jrosieGood job Adam! 
lromanicHey, I just noticed on Scott's blog that your b-day is tomorrow 
lromanicHope it's Happy :) 
crysnrobHappy birthday! 
schmidtkinsIt is officially tomorrow, so Happy Birthday, Bertina! I hope that it is extremely special for you! You are a great example of godly mother-hood, a loving and godly wife, and a wonderful sister in Christ! I really appreciate you! 
august28roseHappy Birthday, Mrs. S! I love you! :) 
lori_in_paMany happy returns of the day, my friend. Your beauty grows with your years -- how DO you manage that? 
kreadHappy Birthday! 
laurar209Happy birthday, Mrs. Smelser! You are one special lady, and I'm so thankful to know you -- you've made my life more special. :) 
jaydon
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emmylouHappy Birthday! Love you! :) 
blessings_of_a_momHappy Birthday, Bertina. I hope you have a wonderful day. 
split_rockHappy Birthday! 
snickers63Happy Birthday!! 
technologicalsophomoreHappy Birthday, B! 
motherofallHappy Birthday, Bertina! You are a great woman who is making a real difference in the world. I have praised you in crowds and thanked God for you in secret many times. Thank you! 
video_nanaHappy Birthday! Hope you've enjoyed your day. 
sirtarinHappy Birthday! =) 
aurocksHappy Birthday, Bertina! 
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Ragnar Relay 11-14-08 08:09pm EST
Tonight I got a call from my oldest son. Today is the day of the Ragnar relay! A group of his running friends are participating in a relay race from one coast of FL to the other! Crazy! When he called they were in first place! Not sure how it is progressing. Adam had already run one of his legs in the race and he called me while he was being transported by van to his next starting place. Cool idea. Can't wait to hear how it turns out!

I'm praying for his and his teammates' safety, as I believe the run is over a 24 hour period. Wow.

Enjoy yourselves all cozy inside, not running across the state of FL!
daddio6I wonder who's going to run the final leg. And do they run right into the water? Hope so. Go Adam go. 
7laughinghardmansI wish my family and I could be there cheering for him! 
snickers63Let us hear the final results!!! 
mr_and_mrs_berryWhen is the 24 hours up? I'm excited for all of them. 
blessings_of_a_momThat sounds like a lot of fun. 
lori_in_paI'm with you on the last line, but if I was 20 and tall and fit I might LOVE to help run across an entire state! Go, team!! 
video_nanaIs it over yet?? Sounds like a fun thing to do. 
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Son of mine 11-03-08 06:40pm EST
Tomorrow my oldest son will leave his teenage years behind. He was born on Nov. 4, 1988. We lived in Providence RI, and were living in the first house we ever owned. April was a four year old little cutie at the time. Her first words about Adam were, "He's not very pretty, is he?"

Congratulations to Adam for making Nationals in cross country, and for the opportunity to run the Florida coast to coast relay! How amazing! I'm glad he is enjoying FC, and I'm also glad he got to enjoy some Fall weather at the Nationals competition in VA.


I am very proud of my big boy. I have been thinking a lot about kids, and how we prepare them for the future. There are so many things to think of..academics, social skills, experience, balance in various aspects of life. However, the most important way we prepare our children is to be children of God. What we do when they are children determines so much about what they will be in the future. As they grow older, the clay starts to harden. Our influence must compete with all the other influences around them. It so vital to make those impressions while they are still soft and able to be molded. Not that adults can't change if they need to, but it is much more difficult and takes much self discipline and determination.

Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. It is easy to get caught up in the day to day pressures, schedules and obligations. We must make sure we aren't only focusing on the things that are pressing, but the things that are vital. Spiritual things. We must train in things like choosing a spouse, how to choose an occupation or a place to live which will help them get to heaven, not to hinder. How to put God first. Much of this we do with our examples. We must have a clear vision of what really matters.

Adam, I love you very much, and pray that you will be making right decisions during this extremely pivotal time in your life. Run like the wind..as you love to do. Run with God.


lori_in_paWell, I'm crying, which I'm sure will please Adam inordinately, since he loves nothing more than to see people cry, right? Nice picture, nicer reminder and tribute. 
snickers63Yay for the Nationals!! 
7laughinghardmansKramer is excited that he's in the picture!! 
w3jlWonderful picture and comments about your "baby". 
blessings_of_a_momHappy Birthday Adam. 
sallyanneBeautiful thoughts from a very lovely mom...:) 
aletaWonderful tribute and thoughts from a mother's heart. I think he's plenty pretty! 
schmidtkinsVery sweet! He is a fine young man! 
sarahphimI love your birthday tributes to your family. 
motherofallGood post, Mom. He's a great young man. Happy birthday to you, too! 
mother_henHe does look like a Smelser, doesn't he? I hope he's having a good year at FC. My son, Daniel, is going next week to Falcon Days. 
video_nanaCongratulation on the very fine young man Adam has become. Your family is a good example for many families. 
jaydonI really like what you had to say "It so vital to make those impressions while they are still soft and able to be molded", so true! I love the great example your whole family has been to us. 
harbermamaHappy Birthday to Adam, and to his wonderful parents, who birthed, trained and taught him! 
laurar209Your thoughts in the 3 and 4 paragraphs have been on my mind a lot lately -- the thought of raising children who fear the Lord is such a heavy weight of responsibility. But when I get scared about it, I think of your family... and pray that I will have the strength and wisdom to follow your example. 
laurar209(and I took that picture of Adam!) 
kreadHa! I bet that made in one piece. Look forward to tonight! 
enyekI remember when Adam was born! Jerry and I were dating at the time. Very lovely - cutting, but lovely - post! I agree with Donna - your family has been a wonderful example to us as well - even separated by the miles. 
mr_and_mrs_berryMe too - tearing up. And oh yes! to all who have been blessed to watch your's and Scott's parenting skills B; we are blessed immeasurably. And I thank you both for your examples to my daughters, and I thank God for bring all you Smelsers - near and extended - into our lives. I treasure my times with you. 
mr_and_mrs_berryAnd Happy Birthday Adam!!!! I do hope your stomach is better today. 
benbthat's my chapel buddy! :) 
jrosieHappy birthday to Adam. It is important to train up a child in the way he should go. 
a_starrI remember when Adam was born. We went to your house... I think maybe to pick up the bikes Tim and I got for our birthdays? or maybe that was a different occasion since our birthdays are in Oct.... either way. I remember that he was lying on the floor on a blanket and I, in my 8 year old mind, thought he was being neglected.... or maybe I just wanted to get to hold him.... :) 
didowHe's a handsome guy. Happy Birthday Adam!! 
praguerHappy belated B'day to Adam, and thanks for the thoughts on child raising. I currently think we have the most stubborn child on the planet. (And I think my father agrees with me!) We are enjoying time with the g'parents. Wish we could have made it up there, but maybe next time! 
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10-16-08 12:10pm EST
Two special guys I know are celebrating birthdays on Oct. 16 and 17. The funny and embarrassing thing is that for a while I couldn't keep straight which birthday was when! Tim came into our family's life not terribly long after Luke was born, but that isn't a particularly good excuse. I finally figured out how to remember Tim's birthday. I do always remember that Tim's favorite number is 17, so that reminds me which birthday is his!

My Lukas is going to be 4! This will be the first time in my life to have a four year old when I as not expecting another baby. I occasionally feel a little sad not to be planning on having more children, but usually I just realize that my motherly ways can also be fulfilled by being a grandmother:) I'd love more Leila time: ) Besides, I've still got plenty of mothering to do with my four still at home, Lord willing. Besides, it's not as if I have an empty nest or anything! My nest is nicely full: )

I am thankful for my son-in-law, Tim, for the wonderful Christian man that he is. My heart safely trusts in him to lead my daughter in good and godly paths, along with whatever children they may have. Thanks for being a good daddy and hubby, Tim.

My little Luke is my unique little guy. He's my energetic little tiger that makes our family complete. He's such a good helper and loves to be a part of whatever we do. He really surprises me with some of the things he understands. He has his moments of challenge and things we need to continue to help him work on, but that is true of us all. I love my little guy.

Happy birthday, guys!!

aurocksAwe, sweet post. Happy Birthday Lukas and Tim! 
kreadHappy birthday Luke-a-duke! 
blessings_of_a_momHappy Birthday Luke. 
jaydonAwww~ Happy Birthday Luke!!!! 
w3jlHappy birthday to Luke and Tim! I appreciate the thoughtful and loving comments about Tim. Luke is a cutie!! 
7laughinghardmansHappy Birthday Luke! Your friend, Bryce 
7laughinghardmansThe Hardman's want to wish the BIG guy and the little guy Happy Birthday!! 
laurar209awwww... happy birthday to both Luke and Tim! 
mr_and_mrs_berryYou and yours are special special people :) 
august28roseHappy belated birthday, Luke! I love you! :) 
harbermamaHappy birthday to your boys! I hear your man is with my boy and his wife this weekend. So glad they get to have him and get to know him. 
jrosieHappy birthday to your boys! You are truly blessed with your wonderful family. 
aurocksIt was nice seeing Clint. It went by quickly. Sorry you didn't get to see Adam. 
didowDo you listen to the FC chapel podcasts? If not, listen to this one
aletaMy husband and I look forward to meeting you and your husband and many more tomorrow! 
aletaI just realize that I wrote on your blog without realizing your blog name. In other words, I must have sounded *dumb* when we spoke yesterday and I acted ignorant of your blog name.

My head is all awhirl with the many we've met and come to know. I love it! 
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