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Great news! 09-04-08 06:55am CST
As you can read from his blog, we got great news at the doctor's office yesterday! Dan had a cystogram that looked great, his pathology is completely negative (NO CANCER WHATSOEVER!!!!!!) and he got his catheter out.

Although we were told that it was most likely benign and no cancer, until we got the report back there is always a little nagging thought there. But it is such a relief to see that when he heals, he will be healed. No treatments, no radiation, no more trips. When it's done, it will be done. This gives me GREAT relief.

He is improving everyday. He is also becoming more independent. He can move around the house a bit more on his own. (This is especially good because I have to work a full day today.)

Many people have asked me, "So what *is* it?" Good question. It was just a collection of a bunch of random epithelial cells. "Huh?" you may ask. Under the microscope, the path lab said it looked similar to colon tissue. But it was NOT part of his colon. Hank was its own entity... of sorts.


Count your blessing today. There are many to mention! :)
onelittlecandleThat's wonderful news! I'm extremely thankful and glad to hear it! 
ootdaYay for independence!!!! I'm sure you two slept good last night. God is so good to us. 
teelduoPraise the Lord!!! 
whipsmileThat is FANTASTIC! 
belleWonderful news! I pray that he continues to heal quickly! 
bman796Great news! 
be_with_me_lordVery wonderful to hear. 
eehiabehiaThat's great! 
bigmommaGREAT! 
ryguyGreat to hear! It's so good to have doubts like that put away. By the way, I think I may be around Bowling Green on the 19th and 20th...maybe we could meet up! 
bama_momma_prezzDan is indeed a unique man...so wouldn't it make sense that his little friend was its own entity :) So proud of you taking such good care of him. I have so much respect for Elizabeth and she truly loves and respects you sooooooo much. I hope we get to meet in person one day :) Give Dan love from the Pressnells in Alabama...and a woo hoo...and a BIG ROLL TIDE :) 
ktcaseboltYay! I'm so glad to hear the good news!
Hmmm... Hank was... interesting! Glad he's gone! 
jessSuch good news!! 
kamilleVery good news. 
valorieWonderful news! So happy for you to have the great feeling of relief! 
angiebrewerWhatever Dan wants. :) What kind do you guys want? 
beckdobbinsPraise God! I am so glad our prayers were answered and Dan will go in the medical books! 
jeGlad to hear your good news. I've been keeping up through pleo and Kris. I finally joined (obviously), and just wanted to let you know; and also to let you know that you and Dan are in my prayers. 
lindseymarieSo glad to here that! God is a great God! It was was really nice to see you last night. It is always such a pleasure and encouragment to get to talk to you--I wish I could have gotten to spend more time with you before we moved down to TN. 
aj1210I had a great time with you too! You did a great job of making decisions when none of us were really sure what to do...:) I had a lot of fun! 
samngloriaIt was so good to meet you! Dan found a wonderful wife! :) 
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Progress! 09-01-08 01:51pm CST
Today, Daniel walked all the way to the mailbox! I consider this big progress. When I suggested we walk outside for some fresh air, I thought maybe he would go down the front steps and sit on the bench. But no, we watered my flowers and walked all the way to the mailbox. Dan suggested that this could become his daily exercise. I thought that was a fabulous idea. :)

Unfortunately, my body is now playing catch up from when I skipped so much sleep at the hospital. I had some terrible throbbing headaches, muscle weakness and pain, and SLEEPY SLEEPY SLEEPY. I do feel stronger today for which I'm very thankful.

Tomorrow we go back to Nashville. (Will these trips ever end?!) And hopefully, the doctor will remove Dan's catheter. It will be so nice when it's gone. One step closer to normal...

I miss Elizabeth, but I know her family is glad to have her back. I have a great mother-in-law. She has been absolutely fabulous. Not too many people can say that, but I have been extremely blessed.

Happy Labor Day! Anyone have any plans? After our big exercise adventure, we'll probably just take it easy here. Of course, the sweeper still needs to be run and the kitchen floor needs some attention too. But none of those are really urgent. :) Enjoy the holiday and keep hydrated! Lots of fluids!!
(The nurse in me must come out from time to time.)
be_with_me_lordGlad to hear about your exercise! bbq in the plans for today 
mrs_poochieyay! thats a pretty long walk 
split_rockSounds like good progress! As I'm remembering the location of your mailbox, that's definitely a long walk for the first time out! Glad he could do it! Now's the time for YOU to catch up on some sleep! 
s_laughterMy parents came to see me today on their day off. Dad mowed my yard so I wouldn't have to, yeah! 
tu_madrewahoo for no catheter! 
lovinmarriageI remember being sooo happy to walk to the mailbox after I had Bryce, what a joyeous occasion!! Way to go Daniel! I made 3 trips to Lowes, 2 loads of laundry, finished painting my room, a load of dishes and fed the family a few times;o) 
lovinmarriageI need to be reminded to stay hydrated!! Thanks! :o) 
teelduoTerrific news!!!!!!!! 
whipsmileglad to hear! 
psemmusaGo Dan :) Go Shawnee :) 
mjintexasHooray! Happy to hear it! 
ktcaseboltGlad for Dan's progress! Hope you're feeling too!
Our Labor Day was very nice! Your mom and dad were a huge help to us! The "nursery" is almost done! :) 
whipsmileyeah, i knew i didn't spell sequoia right. :-) 
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We have reached a new milestone.... 08-28-08 08:44pm CST
Dan is playing Guitar Hero III.

Oh yes. Healing is definitely happening.
carabooif he can raise the guitar to get star power you know he's feeling better ;) 
ootdaOh yay!!!!! This is a good sign. 
eehiabehiaI never thought that could be considered a good thing. 
neeneeWe're not to star power yet... But we're getting there! 
teelduowhooohooooo 
mrs_poochieyay for guitar hero! 
jessWhoa!! He must have a really great nurse or something. :) So glad things are going so well!! 
ktcaseboltHaha! :) Glad he's feeling a little better! 
whipsmilesweeeet 
be_with_me_lordNice! 
mister_cThe healing power of rock. 
kiss_the_rain:) 
ninja_penguinGuitar Hero has miraculous healing powers?! AWESOME! 
ryguyYou know, you can sometimes hit a button on the guitar for star power (at least you can on the Wii). But that totally doesn't have the same effect as actually raising it up ;) 
frogkisserCould you send me your mailing address? You can leave me a private message or email me (email addy on my blog). Thanks! 
tu_madreyou rock, honey (-: 
ootdaHow was today? 
beckdobbinsyeah! 
lindseymarie:) 
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Home Sweet Home again! 08-25-08 07:26pm CST
Today we took Dan to his follow-up appt in Nashville to see the Plastic Surgeon. He removed Dan's drain tube! :) It was a long hard trip for Daniel, but he took it like a pro and now is resting happily on the couch.

RANT:

I don't like mean people. I think there is no good reason to be mean. Especially when you work in the healthcare field and your job is to provide care and COMFORT for patients.

With that said, we had an IV therapy nurse who was AWFUL to Dan. She was rude, condescending, unnecessarily rough, and even pushed on his abdomen! (Hello! He had Abdominal surgery!!) She kept complaining about having to start a new IV in him. (Again, hello! You're an IV therapy nurse. Your job is to start IVs!) By the time the whole thing was done, we were both in tears. (She had to stick him twice anyway, which we were trying to avoid. That's why we called the IV team!) Once Dan was resting comfortably again, I went out and sat in my Daddy's lap and just cried. The nurse who was taking care of us was so nice and hugged me and said she was so sorry. (Turns out the nasty lady argued with her, too!)

Daddy was so upset, he asked to speak to her manager. So we gave a report of what happened and he assured us that he would take it up with her director.

MORAL OF THE STORY:
If you are in a field where you are to help people and you don't like it, then get out of it!! Nobody wants you to be grouchy and mean about doing what you're supposed to do.

/RANT

Really, though, that was a small drop in the bucket. We had many many many good nurses. They went beyond and above what they just "had" to do to make sure we were comfortable and at ease. (-Which can be hard in a hospital!) I'm so thankful for the kind people we had. I think their skills and kindness were a blessing from God.

Now, we are enjoying the blessing of our generous brothers and sisters who are bringing in meals for us. Mmmm.... chicken spaghetti....

[Sorry my blogs are rather self-focused (or maybe Dan-focused). Right now, recovery is consuming our lives. One of these days, other topics will start peaking through... :) ]
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kerriganman i hate nurses.
aieeeke. just kidding. ;-) 
cyber_space_cadetDon't apologize for telling us what is going on in your lives. That's why we come OVER here. ♥

Glad to know that things are coming along, and sorry about that big ol' meanie Dan had to deal with. 
jessSO sorry you had to deal with someone like that! Thankful you made it home safe. :) 
s_laughterI never did understand why people would enter a career that they don't like or can't handle properly. Hope you guys don't have to deal with another terrible nurse. Still thinking of you both! 
be_with_me_lordDon't apologize for making your blogs self/Dan centered. That is your life right now and why I come to your blog all the time, to hear about you and Daniel. I think anyone who has to work with the public in any field either needs to be nice or get out. Drives me crazy when you go to a store, find a salesclerk and ask for help, and they act like you are bothering them. Excuse me, if I buy something doesn't it pay your salary? I love thinking of your Daddy being there for you! What a blessing. 
lindseymarieThat's awful! There's an amazing number of doctors and nurses out there that really don't seem to like taking care of people. How long will he have to continue keeping an i.v. in? 
lovinmarriageI noticed you have been around my mom...you said Daniel;-) Thank you for your post! I was very happy to ready it and I like reading what is really going on and not just the fluff! I love you! 
split_rockAbsolutely no apologies necessary -- we want to share this with you guys even if only from a distance! Sorry about the nurse trauma! Glad you guys spoke up! Hopefully, she'll turn her attitude around or else get out of the profession! Hang in there! 
valorieSorry you went through that. I had a similar problem with an IV nurse when I had to be in the hospital to stop early labor with Brianna. I came home with a bruise the diameter of a softball. She was a complainer, too. I agree...if they don't like their job, perhaps they should find another. Again, so sorry you all went through that. Hope Dan is feeling better! 
ktcaseboltSorry it didn't go so well! It also reminded me of Cherri's nurse. I'm glad your dad was there with you!
I totally agree, though! Why be in a field like that if you don't like helping people??? Anyway, glad it's over with! Hope Dan's feeling better now! 
ootdaG'mornin' Sunshine!! I hope you were able to get some much needed sleep last night. I hope I can stand all day today!!!! Hope your day is good. 
ootdaAnd Tell Elizabeth hi too!! 
belleI'm sorry you had such a terrible experience with that nurse! So sad that someone would want to be rude like that...always makes me wonder what her life must be like to want to treat others like that. Hope Dan continues to improve and heal! 
beckdobbinsThere are few things more ugly than a mean nurse or a mean kindergarten teacher... I mean, come on! 
marcusvonWhat the nurses name and address? I'll have my people take care of it. :) 
snugglebugwe all want to know about how you guys are doing so we'd rather you be "self and dan-focused" right now. :) 
raifhausI don't think I've ever met you, but was at FC with Dan. I don't know the history that led up to this surgery, or exactly what the surgery was. Just want to tell you I've read your last few posts, and your love and unselfishness and focus impresses me. Hope to meet you someday! My best wishes to you and Dan in this recovery time. 
whipsmileyou rant rang true to me after dealing witha hospital stay with Alex last month.
For the most part the nurses were AMAZING. But there is always someone who makes the stay worse than it has to be.

I am not confrontational, but I am pretty sure I would have given her a piece of my mind. And I KNOW Alex would have... 
ktcaseboltI wish you could too! And if you guys end up feeling up to it, please do! :) 
psemmusaThank you for keeping us up to date with yours & Dan's journeys through this time; in sickness and in health, indeed. 
mrs_poochiewe'll have to come visit you all again when I'm not at work. Glad you enjoyed them stopping by though. Caitlyn is generally pretty good in church, but she does have her moments on occassion. She pretty much spoils us all around -- good behavior, sleeps through the night, very happy most of the time, etc.. :) 
ootdaProbably not this time...resting is best I figure! We will miss you!! 
millertimewe are living over in stonehenge now a couple doors down from his sister. How is dan doing?? Work is def. not the same without him here! 
trishieI am so sorry to hear about the bad experience. We had a similiar situation at Vanderbilt with my dad this summer, but only one. Everyone else was incredibly nice and extremely helpful. It's just not what you need when someone you dearly love is in so much pain. 
sarahpetI am sorry. That nurse was terrible and I hope she gets in trouble. She did it to herself.

My mom is a nurse in charge of an Alzheimer neighborhood and I have seen the patience needed for some of those people. I volunteer there every week and I am hoping to be a nurse.
As a matter of fact I will be going to Western and your brother Paul has ben helping me. It seems that the college had me listed as deceased and he brought me back to life. I am going to Western on Sept 20th for an Open House. maybe I will meet your brother there. I want to eventually get into the nursing program there.

Tell Dan I am sorry that he had Nurse Ratchet ( I think that is the name of the One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest nurse). 
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We made it! 08-22-08 05:43pm CST
We are home!!!

Thursday was rough. Lots of exhaustion and nausea/vomiting. We are very much taking two steps forward and one step back. By the end of the evening, he was finally able to start walking around.

This morning they said we could start preparing to go home. I got him cleaned up and ready. We wheeled him out and hauled him home! The trip was exhausting, but he did VERY well. He slept really really hard when we got home, but is now alert and oriented. :)

And happily on pain medication.

He still has a couple more tubes that will need to be taken out, but the doctors will do that in due time. Next appt: Monday.


It feels soooooooooo good to be home. Praise be to God for all the blessings and provisions that He has provided.
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kerriganit's not often that I read "alert and oriented" on someone's blog. but very often that i hear it. 
jessOh, I'm so happy for you guys!! PLEASE, let us know what you need! Justin and I can run to the store for you or do whatever! 
lovinmarriageHank did not come home with you I presume? :o) I'm so glad ya'll are home! Nick and I prayed very hard for Daniel, last night. We were very upset with the expert nurse! I picked up the phone right when Daniel went to voice mail and I tried to call him back but he never answered. It was still wonderful to hear his voice!! 
carabooglad you are back in your own home! i think that helps the recovery :) 
be_with_me_lordYay for being home, I'm so thankful. Ching Chang Chen still makes me laugh... 
kamilleGlad he's at home now. 
coultersmomnow he can really rest with no one interupting to poke and prod every couple of hours. I know too that he has a great nurse at home with him. Glad you are there now. 
slordrevanI still need to talk to yeh. 
teelsideGlad you're safely home!!! ♥♥ 
split_rockGlad you're home -- without Hank! 
ktcaseboltGlad you're home! Hope you both can get some rest! Love you! :) 
beckdobbinsAnd how is Shawnee doing? :) 
ootdaYou are most welcome!!!!! We love you. 
elgriffSo glad everything is going well, glad he has a good nurse to take care of him!!! :) 
teelduoI glad you liked it. OXOX 
elgriffOh i LOVE LOVE my girls i work with on nights, lots nicer than dayshift, my body is just fighting me a little, lol. 
be_with_me_lordYou really aren't and most of us here wouldn't mind if we didn't have to hear any of this. It is like a 3-ring circus. Reminds me of living in Los Angeles with all the celebrities and all the hoopla that would surround every little thing. 
ootdaYou are doing a great job!!!! 
ootdadid you look at my pics on my camera from Aunt Kim's? Whenever I thought of them, it wasn't a good time. 
nickomundoHooray! There's no place like home. 
sarahpetpain meds stronger than Nyquil are probably good for him.
:-)
Glad to hear that he is doing well. 
jan2004so glad to hear and to see that he is now home and doing ok 
whipsmile:-) 
lindseymarieI'm sure Dan is so very thankful for having you as a wife. I can tell you take tremendously good care of him. Will continue to pray that recovery goes quickly! 
mrs_poochieglad you all made it home & glad he's doing so well. 
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