We were discussing this at lunch today. How do you respond when the service at a restaurant leaves something to be desired?
Personally, one of my biggest pet peeves is when I hear people complaining about things they really shouldn't complain about. I hear people in restaurants complain because their dinner isn't a big enough portion or their waiter doesn't stop by to hold their hand every 2 minutes. Nothing will fire me up like ingratitude. We live in a country that thrives on having "more" while there are innocent starving children who don't have the privilege of a bad waiter.
Please note that I'm not talking extremes here. If someone serving you is rude or impolite, that's a personality thing and I think it's totally fine to say something, it is there job afterall. But it is a VERY hard job and griping because they make a mistake is very far from the "golden rule" we learned about this morning at Benchley. Give them the benefit of the doubt, they may be having the worst day of their life. Chances are, their problem is bigger than your getting ripped off a few french fries. Be grateful for what you have cuz seriously, the fact that you're sitting at a computer right now, means you have more than most people in this world.
The next time you feel you are jipped on the size of your entree think about the children with no food, no shelter, and no option concerning the circumstances they are living in. The next time you have bad service at a restaurant, consider leaving a nice tip and a note inviting your waiter/waitress to church services. And don't forget to treat others as you would have them treat you. |
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