Anybody there?

Hello friends!

I'm soooooo bad about keeping up with pleo...sorry. I have a quick run-down of what my family is up to. The girls are 4 and 1 now and they are the best of friends!!! Maddie is the biggest helper and growing up way too fast. Mia is miss independent and wants to do everything Maddie does. Steven has 1 more week until summer session is over and then we get him all to ourselves for about 3 or 4 weeks!! Then he'll have 1 year left ...yipp-eee!!! I am truely blessed to be able to stay at home with my sweet girls.

Hope everyone is happy and well!

p.s. Maddie told me I was a genious today! Did I spell that right?
  • kristasfa
    haha.. you updated! Glad to hear Steven will be able to get some time off this summer.

    Okay, did you join rainbowlicious??? :-)
    by kristasfa at 07/16/09 5:25PM
  • ladidodd
    hello friend!!! welcome back :)
    by ladidodd at 07/17/09 10:18AM
  • ladidodd
    thanks!! i cant believe it, either... i get her bows from all different places... the one she is wearing on the invitation is from the mall in college station. i get a lot of them from etsy.com though... its so addicting! :)

    oh i miss you so much... we went to the kleinwood singing and i couldnt beleive how few people i knew! adam and natalies wedding seemed to take everyone away ;)
    by ladidodd at 08/18/09 11:45AM

The Chumbley update!

Hello to all and Happy New Year!!! It's been a while since I gave an update, so here it goes!

My whole family was able to be together over the holidays and we had a blast! There were 8 grandkids running around everywhere. I love my neices and nephews!!!!! Then Steven, the girls and I drove 17 hours to Illinois to see his family. Maddie and Mia slept the whole way, while Steven drenched himself in water to stay awake. We really enjoyed spending time with everyone. Steven, Maddie and I went sledding on the leftover snow and ice. Maddie looked sooo cute all bundled up! The girls loved getting to know their cousins...especially Molly.

So, now that the holidays are over, it's back to reality. Maddie will start her second semester of pre-k on Monday. She loves school and her favorite part is singing and playing on the playground. Her 4th birthday is on Tuesday!!! WHAT??? Where did the time go??? She's having a Minnie Mouse party at this little pottery place. Maddie is the BEST big sister. She's always trying to make Mia laugh and is my big helper. I love listening to them play. My favorite thing that she does lately is telling me that she has a secret and she whispers in my ear, "I love you mommy." Melts my heart every time.

Mia girl will be 1 on the 28th! Yikes!!!! Don't know where time went there either! She is the SWEETEST, most well tempered baby! So easy going and loveable. She's starting to pertend like she's talking on the phone...precious!

Steven started his spring semester of his 3rd year of Dental school. Yea!!! Almost done! He's loving working on patients and just really enjoys Denistry. He's been offered a job with a local Dentist here in Houston, but still not sure what he wants to do. We're just putiing this big dicision in God's hands.

I'm so blessed to be able to stay at home with my sweet girls. My goals this year are to be the best wife and mother that I can. I started going to the gym again and I really want to get in shape so I can keep up with my little munchkins and to feel better about myself. I want to continue to teach Maddie and Mia to love God and love eachother.

I hope and pray all is well with everyone and please drop by and say hi!
  • beckylboyer
    Thanks for the update! You have a precious family. There is nothing sweeter than our babies saying they love us is there? I'm so glad you guys are doing well. May God continue to bless you!
    by beckylboyer at 01/10/09 9:02AM
  • larie
    Four!?! Where does the time go? Sisters are the best, aren't they?
    by larie at 01/10/09 9:59AM
  • larie
    We missed seeing you over the holidays. I think you were IL when we were in Houston. We'll have to have a girls day soon!
    by larie at 01/10/09 10:04AM
  • kristasfa
    wow... time surely does fly!!! I'm glad Steven is liking his dentistry... how much longer does he have?
    by kristasfa at 01/10/09 11:11AM
  • leyvaleyva
    as I read this, all I could say was...awwwww. and whoohoo, I celebrate with you as stephen is finishing his 3rd year. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Mia on the phone? already?
    by leyvaleyva at 01/11/09 11:30PM
  • blesu
    Sounds like LIFE is treating you right. Your girls sound so sweet.
    by blesu at 01/13/09 3:51PM
  • haileym
    I've been thinking about the gym too lately. I'm going to try to do my Wii fit every other night instead.
    by haileym at 01/14/09 7:08PM

Grasping

My grandmamma passed away a little over a week ago. Who is gramamma? It's what we all called my grandmother. The most wonderful woman I know. She was 91 and died very peacefully in her home of Sinton,TX. She is without a doubt resting gloriously in heaven with our Majestic Creator. I still can not grasp the fact that she is gone from this earth. Sometimes I feel like she's just in the hospital again...she'll be back soon. How selfish of me. How could we ever really want her back in this realm when she is in the one place she has longed to be for her whole wonderful life? She was a faithful christian that raised 5 beautiful faithful daughters. Maddie referred to them as "the girls". :) They were all sitting in one pew together at the funeral service and Maddie kept calling them that. "Mommy, I want to sit with the girls...are they gonna cry?" I'm so happy that my girls were able to meet their gramamma. I will never let them forget the stories of this woman who left behind a legacy.

She LOVED. It's that simple. She loved everyone unconditionly and with all of her heart. She spoke mostly spanish but she could speak, read and write english. I'm telling you, she was an amazing woman. She would go to church any chance she could. She would read her bible constantly and pray without ceasing. I loved to listen and watch her pray. The day I found out, Steven and the girls and I went to stay at my uncle's beach house. My dad told us to enjoy the day as much as we could and just come back in the morning. Well, it rained all morning...good thing, because I needed that time to process and call family. Then around noon the sky turned blue and the sun peeked out. So we loaded up and went to the beach. It was perfect. I think it was only like 85 degrees out and the girls were little angels. Mia sat in her little bouncey seat under the big umbrella for almost an hour and a half! She drank her bottle and just looked super relaxed. Maddie enjoyed all that the beach could offer...making sand castles, running away from the waves, and finding shells. I took this opportunity to go in the water by myself and think about my gramamma. She absolutely loved tha beach! I went out as far as I could without getting knocked over by the waves. I looked at the beauty all around me and started to sing gramamma's favorite song, "How Great Thou Art ."( I didn't know that it was her favorite song that day, but at her funeral we sang it in spanish.) I sang and cried and felt like she was right there with me. I needed that moment and I'll never forget it as long as I live. To be half of the christian, mother, wife, sister, friend, aunt, cousin that she was...that is my quest and in turn, it's being Christ-like. I already know that my mother is just like her. The loss that we have makes me realize how preciouse every moment is with our family. I have never had to go through this before and boy does it do somehting to you. I especially appreciated being with all of my aunts, uncles and cousins. We all just kept telling eachother how much we loved one another. We are stronger and more united...just what Gramamma wanted.Please pray for my family as we grieve.

I know my Gramamma is watching over us...I love you.
  • beckylboyer
    That was beautiful! She sounds amazing and I'm so glad your girls got to meet her. Keep telling them stories and talking about her your whole life. I can tell her legacy will always be around! Sorry for your loss. We'll pray for you!
    by beckylboyer at 08/22/08 12:40PM
  • kristasfa
    Becca, I'm sorry for your loss, she sounded like such a wonderful lady!
    by kristasfa at 08/22/08 12:53PM
  • mommyx3
    Becca, I am very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. Give Mandy a hug for me please.
    by mommyx3 at 08/22/08 2:00PM
  • crazy_mama
    What a sweet post. This is what every woman prayers that her family will say about her. I wish I could of met such a woman. What a blessing. My grandmothers weren't Christians. In fact one of them is very against God. I love them for being my grandmothers and for raising my wonderful parents but there is a barrier between us and I wish there wasn't. They just don't understand what makes me who I am. Count your blessings that you know that your grandmother is with God. It's hard to know the fate of family memebers that weren't followers of Jesus. I will be praying for you and your family.
    by crazy_mama at 08/22/08 2:30PM
  • larie
    I was really sorry to hear about your grandmother's passing. It sounds like she was a great woman and had such a wonderful influence on her family. Love you. :)
    by larie at 08/22/08 3:43PM
  • sweetisthesong
    You and Steven and all the family are in our prayers!
    by sweetisthesong at 08/22/08 5:07PM
  • ktembry
    I'm so sorry Becca. I'll pray for your family. Is Mia okay? How much weight had she lost? Anyway, keep me posted on that...I'll pray for you all around. Love you.
    by ktembry at 08/22/08 8:21PM
  • jeans
    I'm thinking of you and your family, beeker... I know this is such a difficult time and unfortunately will be for a while. I will continue praying for you!
    by jeans at 08/23/08 10:45AM
  • haileym
    Bec. I am so sorry to hear this. I will be thinking and praying for you and your family. Love you.
    by haileym at 08/23/08 11:08AM
  • purpleiris
    Your love, great memories and hope of the future will get you thru. Luv ya!
    by purpleiris at 08/23/08 11:53AM
  • haileym
    I've been meaning to tell you that I loved the picture of the girls! So sweet! Thanks!!!
    by haileym at 08/26/08 3:19PM
  • chandralea22
    Becca, I'm so sorry about your grandma. I wish I could have talked to you today. I didn't realize you were on pleonast again, but I am going to link this to my blog now so I can check up on you more often. I miss you and I wish there was something I could do for you. I hate being so far away.
    by chandralea22 at 08/27/08 7:59PM
  • amyclanton
    thank you for your prayers and I hope to see you soon!
    by amyclanton at 09/04/08 8:29PM
  • leyvaleyva
    still thinking about ya'll.
    by leyvaleyva at 09/05/08 12:10AM
  • astro
    I love you stinker.
    by astro at 09/05/08 11:57AM
  • ktembry
    Hey Becca! How is the weight gaining going with Mia? I was just thinking about you and I thought I would check. Let me know!
    by ktembry at 09/09/08 8:16PM
  • blesu
    Becca. I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. But, I love your attitude about her being with our Maker.
    by blesu at 09/10/08 6:04PM
  • leyvaleyva
    hope you are well 12/7/08
    by leyvaleyva at 12/07/08 7:44PM
  • leyvaleyva
    hey tanx
    by leyvaleyva at 12/08/08 5:18PM
  • potatoprincess
    Just happened onto your blog, so sorry for your loss.
    by potatoprincess at 01/04/09 12:14AM

06/22/08 1:14AM

Steven was doing Maddie's bible lesson with her tonight and they're talking about Genesis. Steven asked her who the first man and woman were and she said, "Adam and Eve". Then he asked if she knew the names of their sons and she said, "yes I do. John and Michael."
  • leyvaleyva
    :)
    by leyvaleyva at 06/22/08 8:44AM
  • jeans
    That si so funny! Don't you wonder where kids get their ideas from?
    by jeans at 06/23/08 2:34AM
  • mommyx3
    Cute.
    by mommyx3 at 06/23/08 8:09AM
  • haileym
    that's so funny!
    by haileym at 06/23/08 6:16PM
  • larie
    Ha! It was really good to see you and hang out this weekend. Love ya!
    by larie at 06/23/08 8:07PM
  • beckylboyer
    So funny! Where did she get that? :)
    by beckylboyer at 06/24/08 2:06PM
  • beckylboyer
    Luke loves Peter Pan too! For awhile he played Peter Pan every day and Lily was either Tinker Bell or Wendy. Of course she didn't really play along but it was still cute!
    by beckylboyer at 06/25/08 2:13PM
  • wifelet
    CUTE!! :)
    by wifelet at 06/25/08 6:04PM
  • shawnsgirl1
    Sweet babies. Remember us? (Shawn & Teresa Oleinik). Is Mandy on here?
    by shawnsgirl1 at 07/01/08 10:02PM
  • astro
    Oh Madeline...
    by astro at 07/05/08 12:17AM
  • blesu
    I'm glad Maddie likes the book! BTW did you get that picture that I pasted on your MYSPACE of Greta and Maddie (the photographer sent it to me)
    by blesu at 07/07/08 5:12PM
  • ktembry
    That is sad. It would have been nice to see you and your new little one. It is terribly expensive to fly and drive. We just got home from a spendy trip. I did have fun shopping. I went to Opry Mills with my sister in law Molly and shopped all day. We had a big time. That is a great place if you ever get a chance to go. They are indeed 6 months now. I took Kent to the Dr. this morning. He is crazy big. He weighs 19.3 and is 29 inches long. He is in the 95% for his head, 85% for his weight and his height is off the charts. I'm still trying to figure that one out. Anyway, we are enjoying him and staying busy. We just bought a house, so that is keeping me very busy. And I go back to work next week. I'm actually excited about it. But, thats a good thing, much better than dreading it. I'll miss Kent, but I know he'll be in good hands. Anyway, so glad to hear from you, and sorry for the long message. I could go on and on!
    by ktembry at 07/30/08 12:08PM

06/09/08 1:35AM

We had a garage sale on Saturday and got rid of all of our big stuff!!! Yea!!! We have trees hanging over our driveway, so we had perfect shade and a nice breeze.

Maddie had a lemonade stand and did a great job. She started off by yelling, "Customers, customers." At one point this lady walked by and instead of saying anything, Maddie just shook the coffee can of change. That's one way to get their business :).

Maddie and I started kneeling by her bed to pray and this was her prayer.
"Dear God, thank you for Annalyssa, Joel, Mathew, Uncle Scott and Aunt Mandy. Thank you for Jesus dying on the cross so that we can go to heaven. Thank you for heaven. Please help me to stay in my bed, so Mommy will be happy. Thank you for the trees and the flowers. Thank you for Jesus and amen."

I started to tear up, because it was sooo sweet and she asked me while I was crying. I told her I was so proud that she said such a good prayer. She then wanted one of my tears because that's pwhat we do. So, the past couple of night when she kneels and prays, she starts to act like shes crying. After she says amen or the end. She says, " Mommy are you crying too?"

  • leahsparks
    awww...she is sooo precious! What a sweet little girl y'all are raising!
    by leahsparks at 06/09/08 6:58AM
  • spike427
    too cute!
    by spike427 at 06/09/08 7:47AM
  • lala
    she is too cute. yeah for garage sales. they are so much work though.
    by lala at 06/09/08 7:49AM
  • ladidodd
    yea for garage sales :) maddie is so sweet!!
    by ladidodd at 06/09/08 7:51AM
  • kristasfa
    Help Maddie stay in bed... AWESOME!!! She's so cute!
    by kristasfa at 06/09/08 8:09AM
  • beckylboyer
    Those stories are precious! What a sweet girl you've got there!
    by beckylboyer at 06/09/08 9:58AM
  • wifelet
    Sweet girl! :) Glad your garage sale went well! :)
    by wifelet at 06/09/08 10:13AM
  • aggiemeg
    so sweet!
    by aggiemeg at 06/09/08 10:46AM
  • haileym
    That is so funny about her acting like she's crying. Camp was fun but coming to your house was funner..if thats a word. Remember when we would take food to the park and have a picnic or pretend we were ballarinas in the pool..did we really do that? I think we watched Ghost at your house? That was so fun!
    by haileym at 06/09/08 12:09PM
  • browngirl22
    She is hillarious! That makes me teary eyed.
    by browngirl22 at 06/10/08 9:52AM
  • juliewho
    oh my goodness! that is the sweetest thing ever!
    by juliewho at 06/10/08 1:04PM
  • larie
    That's so sweet. I love the part in Maddie's prayer about staying in her bed.
    by larie at 06/11/08 11:16AM
  • jeans
    That is so sweet- you should write it down somewhere for her later on.
    by jeans at 06/12/08 7:20AM
  • sweetisthesong
    Check out our pics of our trip to Orlando!!!
    by sweetisthesong at 06/12/08 10:28PM
  • sweetisthesong
    Mia is a doll!!
    by sweetisthesong at 06/12/08 10:29PM