Coming Soon in July 2009...

Baby Becker!

Yes, Jeff and I are expecting a BABY in mid-July!!!

Thanks for all your prayers/concerns/good thoughts for us over the past few years with all of my health issues. We are feeling very blessed & excited!

Jeff graduates from law school in May and takes the Bar Exam only 10 days after my due date -- so we're already hoping the baby comes sooner rather than later! ;)

I've recently been experiencing the joys of morning sickness/general queasiness & I'm starting my 2nd trimester next week.

Hope this first week of 2009 is going well for everyone!
  • sunnytab
    Congrats! Hope your pregnancy goes well!
    by sunnytab at 01/08/09 7:34AM
  • yost
    Hooray! I'm gonna be an Aunt AGAIN! I can't wait to meet Baby B! You're going to me a WONDERFUL and LOVING MOM!
    by yost at 01/08/09 9:38AM
  • dianna
    Just heard about your news through the grapevine and wanted to come to your page to congratulate you guys! How exciting. I'm due in mid-June, so you won't be far behind! :)
    by dianna at 01/08/09 9:59AM
  • gracie03
    That is so exciting, Deban! I know Charlie has to be on Cloud 9. :) Congratulations to you both! Keep the updates coming, and I hope you get past the queasiness soon!
    by gracie03 at 01/08/09 10:27AM
  • spike427
    so excited for y'all!! yay more babies!
    by spike427 at 01/08/09 10:34AM
  • texastina
    Awesome!! I'm so happy for you!
    by texastina at 01/08/09 12:43PM
  • larie
    YAY!!! That's so exciting! I'm so happy for y'all.
    by larie at 01/08/09 2:13PM
  • sharon
    So excited for you guys.
    by sharon at 01/08/09 3:37PM
  • lois
    I'm so happy and excited for you. I'll continue to keep you in my prayers.
    by lois at 01/08/09 4:24PM
  • sar
    How exciting! Congratulations!!!!
    by sar at 01/08/09 10:18PM
  • ryanandnancy
    That's awesome! Yeah!!! We're excited for y'all. I can't wait to meet baby!
    by ryanandnancy at 01/10/09 11:45AM
  • emilyp
    yay deban!!! that's so great, i'll be praying for you xoxo
    by emilyp at 01/10/09 7:20PM
  • lauraroseborough
    What a blessing for you and your hubby. I am so excited for you both. I hope the morning sickness goes away soon. *hugs*
    by lauraroseborough at 01/12/09 3:36AM
  • windham4life
    wow, congrats!!! How exciting!
    by windham4life at 01/20/09 10:33PM
  • bekahv
    Wonderful news! Congratulations!
    by bekahv at 01/22/09 5:33PM
  • kaceyatthebat
    Congrats!
    by kaceyatthebat at 02/21/09 9:01PM
  • wifelet
    Hey, Deban! I don't know if you remember me or not ... we went to camp together way back in the day. Anyway, congrats on your little expected one! :)
    by wifelet at 02/21/09 9:36PM
  • sharon
    Let's see that baby bump.
    by sharon at 03/05/09 2:01PM
  • cabinmommajuju
    Deban!!! hi sweetie, congrats on your pregnancy! you should be about ready to pop by now! love you!
    by cabinmommajuju at 07/02/09 4:08PM
  • blueeyes
    How are you all doing?
    by blueeyes at 08/20/09 1:27PM

autumn leaves are falling down

I traveled to Nashville for a conference this past weekend. It was great to see the leaves actually change color!

I was able to enjoy a great cup of (Starbucks signature) hot chocolate and have it warm my hands as I walked outside in the crisp autumn weather.

oh yeah, & I got lots 'o FREE books -- score! :)





  • sheshe
    free books rock!!
    by sheshe at 11/12/08 10:52PM
  • marla
    I'm sorry I missed you but glad you had a good trip!! (And I wish you could have seen the trees in Knoxville...even better than here :)
    by marla at 11/12/08 11:03PM
  • kristasfa
    I told Jay that before our kids go off to Kindergarten, we're taking a "fall" trip to see actual leaves changing colors...
    by kristasfa at 11/13/08 12:24AM
  • yost
    Our Conversations are NEVER boring! Love you!
    by yost at 11/13/08 9:01AM
  • gracie03
    Sounds like a fabulous trip! :)
    by gracie03 at 11/13/08 9:55AM
  • theparks
    hi deban!! how are you?
    by theparks at 11/13/08 11:41AM
  • yost
    Donie is near Teague.
    by yost at 11/13/08 12:03PM
  • gingerspice
    Cool! He's a pretty cool guy, I think. :)
    by gingerspice at 11/13/08 12:47PM
  • gingerspice
    P.S. Your trip to Nashville sounds fabulous! There's nothing like autumn air, hot chocolate and books! :)
    by gingerspice at 11/13/08 12:48PM
  • angela
    Hi Deban!
    by angela at 11/16/08 9:39PM
  • ryanandnancy
    Sounds awesome! When are we gonna see you guys!? :)
    by ryanandnancy at 11/18/08 10:09PM
  • yost
    Thanks! Love you!
    by yost at 12/11/08 12:21PM

dressing up

This week we performed "The Big Pumpkin" puppet show during
pre-school storytime(based on the children's book of the same name by Erica Silverman). We have 4 preschool storytimes at my library so needless to say I am a lil' tired :) It was great fun though-- I got to be the mummy and the bat (the bat's the best cuz he saves the day!). All the kids came in costume (the cutest was a little UPS guy and a cowgirl with her horse).

I dressed up like a "50's girl" & wore a poodle skirt -- one of my regulars (a little girl named Peyton) came up to me and said, "Ms. Deban, I like your sheep. Can I touch it?" hehehe

What are you or your kiddos dressing up like this year?
  • marla
    I'll be in Denver from Nov 7-9, but maybe lunch on the 6th? I'll have to check my work calendar, but I *think* I'm free... :)
    by marla at 10/30/08 9:22PM
  • gracie03
    What a fun job! I can imagine that must have been SUPER tiring! :)
    by gracie03 at 10/30/08 10:49PM
  • kristasfa
    Johnny is a skunk... because he's my little stinker!
    by kristasfa at 10/30/08 10:56PM
  • blueeyes
    Robbie is Curious George, and Kalli is a bumble bee! Our library is closed for renovations, and should be opening this week. I can not wait to head back to storytime!
    by blueeyes at 10/31/08 3:26AM
  • haileym
    Tylers going to be a monkey. We wished that we had the man in the yellow hat costume for matt so he could be George.
    by haileym at 10/31/08 9:03AM
  • yost
    a UPS guy? How cute!!
    by yost at 10/31/08 9:06AM
  • nina
    I thought of you when we were at storytime yesterday. Miss Bobby is good...but I think she lives in La La land. Tyler is going to be a cowboy this year.
    by nina at 10/31/08 9:13AM
  • larie
    Hailey's going as Cinderella and Kate is going to be a pumpkin. I can't remember the last time I dressed up for Halloween!
    by larie at 10/31/08 2:37PM
  • larie
    Oh and yes I loved all the books. I just thought the last one was a little anticlimatic at the end. i was ready for a big fight!
    by larie at 10/31/08 2:52PM
  • blueeyes
    Yes, it is RR PL.
    by blueeyes at 10/31/08 3:27PM
  • marla
    :( I actually have class that night...Oh well. Hope you have fun here!!
    by marla at 11/01/08 12:48PM
  • dcmoeme
    Charley was a cheerleader, the costume said EHS....Maddy was a vampire witch with dyed dark hair
    by dcmoeme at 11/02/08 3:28PM
  • ryanandnancy
    Me and Ryan were a 50s couple, Kaylee was a mermaid, and Coltong was a pirate! It was soooo cute! Wish we could have come for storytime. I think Kaylee is going to be big on reading too. Yeah! :)
    by ryanandnancy at 11/02/08 11:22PM
  • lois
    I can't wait to see you next Sunday.
    by lois at 11/04/08 11:36AM
  • kristasfa
    thanks Deban!
    by kristasfa at 11/05/08 5:07PM
  • nina
    Thanks!
    by nina at 11/05/08 11:45PM

I've got to remember to update...

In August, my mom and I were able to take a trip to Colorado Springs together. It was great! Since I was 8 years old, I have listened to the morals-based radio drama "Adventures in Odyssey" produced by Focus on the Family. It had been 20 years since it started & we attended the 20th anniversary birthday bash - which included meeting the actors and being a part of a live recording of one of the shows. It was an experience I will never forget. I am so blessed that I was able to share this experience with my mom-- I will always treasure our trip together.

In September, Jeff & I went to the Texas State Fair for the first time. It was fun to see the "sights & smells", but I don't think I'll ever have to go again -- haha! We did ride the Pharris Wheel, uh, I mean Ferris Wheel :)

This October has been uber-busy! Every October is national "Teen Read Week" for libraries, which makes my life as a "Teen Librarian" extremely eventful. We hosted 2 performances of our "Teen Mystery Night" play - teens watch the play, guess who the culprit is & try to solve the case. I acted in it again this year...and I was the killer! But it was an accident, Really!! We also hosted a teen band from Arlington whose lyrics are based on the "Twilight" series -- "The Bella Cullen Project". They were great!

In November, I'll be traveling a lot for work-related events... I'll be in Nashville one weekend & Austin the weekend after that... I hope I can see some of you soon!!!
  • kristasfa
    whoa... Bella Cullen Project is popular!
    by kristasfa at 10/23/08 1:22PM
  • lois
    It was so great to see you in CS. I'll let you know when we plan to come to Dallas for the exhibit.
    by lois at 10/23/08 1:45PM
  • larie
    Sounds like you've been busy! Have you read the Twilight series? I loved it!
    by larie at 10/23/08 3:06PM
  • kristasfa
    yea!!! actually, can you mail me TWO? My sister-in-law is a bigger fan than me! Krista Everett- 8850 Creek Willow Dr. - Tomball, TX 77375... Thanks Deban!
    by kristasfa at 10/23/08 4:05PM
  • sunnytab
    What weekend will you be in Nashville?
    by sunnytab at 10/23/08 5:15PM
  • marla
    I was about to ditto Tab's question... :) AND do you have pictures with the AIO cast???? That's so awesome :)
    by marla at 10/23/08 6:26PM
  • sabrinaruckel
    When will you be in Austin!! You have to see my sweet baby!! :-)
    by sabrinaruckel at 10/23/08 6:53PM
  • ryanandnancy
    Sounds awesome! When can you come visit us in San Antonio? Ryan's 30th b-day is coming up in December! :)
    by ryanandnancy at 10/23/08 10:39PM
  • sharon
    I just started reading those books.

    I didn't even realized Adventures in Odyssey was still on. I remember listening to that as a kid, too. KSBJ I think?
    by sharon at 10/23/08 10:42PM
  • nina
    I hate that I missed when you came to CS:-(! Do your travel plans come this way anytime soon?
    by nina at 10/27/08 5:23PM
  • gracie03
    Sounds like a lot going on! Good to hear what is happening with you!
    by gracie03 at 10/28/08 9:55AM

he has read of enchanted woods...

A children's book author read this C.S. Lewis quote at the library conference I attended:

"In a sense a child does not long for fairy land...Does anyone suppose that he really and prosaically longs for all the dangers and discomforts of a fairy tale?—really wants dragons in contemporary England? It is not so. It would be much truer to say that fairy land arouses a longing for he knows not what. It stirs and troubles him (to his life-long enrichment) with the dim sense of something beyond his reach and, far from dulling or emptying the actual world, gives it a new dimension of depth. He does not despise real woods because he has read of enchanted woods: the reading makes all real woods a little enchanted. This is a special kind of longing."

I love the thought that reading can make something ordinary become "enchanted".

Nearly every day at work I am asked by a child or a teen for a "fantasy" book...I read a study that said kids who read fantasy are usually well-adjusted, have a stable home-life, and are generally happy with life. Kids that read books that deal with real-life issues (realistic fiction) are generally troubled and trying to figure out how to fix their problems. In suburban Plano, life is pretty good for kids so maybe that is why they are reading fantasy... When I worked in East Austin, most of the kids wanted real-life books (if they read anything at all). It's only a study but it has me pondering...
  • blueeyes
    Did ya know that Phil and I have decided to homeschool our chickens. Is there anything you felt you missed out on by being homeschooled or anything you would have done different?
    by blueeyes at 08/07/08 9:00PM
  • kristasfa
    so you've read it??? I loved it so much!
    by kristasfa at 08/07/08 11:04PM
  • sabrinaruckel
    If Dr. Suess is fantasy than I guess Clara is well-adjusted. My mom recently let me go through boxes and boxes of children's books she kept from the Daycare days. Now Clara has a nice selection and chooses mostly Dr. Seauss.
    by sabrinaruckel at 08/07/08 11:20PM
  • nina
    did you get my message?
    by nina at 08/07/08 11:23PM
  • gingerspice
    Interesting...I never was much of a fanasty reader...yet I consider my childhood home life to be pretty good. :) Recently I have discovered fantasy as a way to escape problems. Maybe I'm just the exception to the rule. I knew I was never normal any way. :)
    by gingerspice at 08/07/08 11:31PM
  • windham4life
    That's an interesting study. I had never heard that before! Are you working at a library?
    by windham4life at 08/08/08 1:02AM
  • ryanandnancy
    Interesting, and true I think. Fantasy has always been my favorite. By the way, have you seen that we are moving back to Texas? We'll be in San Antonio! Maybe we can get together later! And Ms. Librarian, I will need some book recommendations after we get there. Ryan is going to be working a lot away from home. :(
    by ryanandnancy at 08/15/08 3:47PM
  • purplerox
    good thoughts.
    how was your trip with your mom?
    I miss you. I really need to talk to you soon.
    by purplerox at 09/03/08 3:25PM
  • yost
    Happy Birthday!
    by yost at 09/20/08 11:22PM
  • ryanandnancy
    hey deban! Ryan and I and the kids are in San Antonio now. We're still unpacking, but the end is in sight. :) I was wondering if you could offer any homeschooling advice, materials, etc. Ryan and I are thinking about homeschooling Kaylee beginning next year. Thanks! Hope all is well in Dallas! You're in Dallas right?
    by ryanandnancy at 09/24/08 12:14PM
  • gracie03
    Hey, Deban! I'm not sure if you remember me, but I went to A&M at the same time you did (I was Valerie Hutson then). :) I go to church with Charlie, now! Good to "see" you on here!
    by gracie03 at 09/24/08 5:31PM
  • janarrod
    tag! see my blog.
    by janarrod at 09/25/08 12:55AM