Blog address

Please feel free to visit our blog to follow our trip to China.

Here it is and now not passwod protected:
www.trektochinaforjoshua.blogspot.com


You'll have to copy and paste it because I don't know how to make a link on here!! Sorry!

Please feel free to leave comments on our blog. We would love to hear from any of you while we are away. We leave on the 13th and retun very late on the 30th. Please keep us in your prayers.

Sorry to be so short, but much is left to do!!
  • towelhead
    Ill be sure to look at it.
    Have fun, good luck with your sweet baby boy.
    by towelhead at 08/07/07 5:07PM
  • sweetmelissa
    Here ya' go.
    Also, it was wonderful chatting with you the other night! Everytime I get to have a good conversation with you, I always really enjoy it! We'll have to do that more often. Oh wait... you won't have time to do anything for a while since you'll have a 3 year old son in a few weeks!!
    by sweetmelissa at 08/07/07 6:01PM
  • zack
    hope you guys save .. god bless you ... shang di bao yong ni men !
    by zack at 08/16/07 1:31AM
  • ama9312
    hey mrs janice..this is alyssa
    by ama9312 at 08/19/07 2:37PM
  • calebs
    we should talk again sometime on skype! this time ill get the whole family to come and talk! hehe.
    by calebs at 08/20/07 2:30PM
  • squirt10
    hey mrs janice this is jenna
    by squirt10 at 08/23/07 11:02AM
  • elgriff
    hey janice! there are so many times I wanted to call you this week and chat,but i know how busy yall have been, and will continue to be! I love keeping up with how yall are doing on your webpage!! also, dad is doing AMAZINGLY well, he got the all clear from his heart surgeon on friday, he NEVER has to go back and see him!
    by elgriff at 09/08/07 9:47PM
  • tracys
    My mom was born in 1938. Tell Lawrence he needs to be nice to me - he should respect his elders.
    by tracys at 09/09/07 10:27PM
  • ogosh_its_laurabeth
    Mrs. Kelley! hey! didn't kno u had a pleo...
    by ogosh_its_laurabeth at 09/20/07 9:55PM
  • winters_kiss11
    It was really nice seein' Joshua today!! He is really making great progress for sure!!! :) I am so happy he's being raised to love God!!!
    by winters_kiss11 at 10/20/07 12:37AM
  • bah
    Indeed I did. I was going to tell LK a few things...I'll call sometime this week.
    by bah at 11/19/07 8:24AM
  • nikkicw
    Please bring it on Wed...thanks so much for taking time out to talk me about everything. It means a lot! :)
    by nikkicw at 11/19/07 4:09PM
  • elgriff
    HEY! it was so much fun!!!! I might be needed lawrences help in the next few weeks...since he has a truck!
    by elgriff at 11/21/07 2:33PM
  • crazy_bout_theatre
    Happy Thanksgiving!!
    by crazy_bout_theatre at 11/22/07 10:33AM
  • shousinator
    Hey Janice! Happy Holidays! It was great seeing you last week.
    by shousinator at 12/02/07 7:03AM
  • crazy_bout_theatre
    Merry Christmas Mrs. Kelley!
    by crazy_bout_theatre at 12/23/07 10:52AM
  • bah
    Happy Bday!
    by bah at 12/27/07 12:24PM
  • bargain_shopper_mom
    Hey girl I know you're busy but I miss you and would love to hear from you. Yes the Christmas card counts but you know what I mean :) Love ya! Karen
    by bargain_shopper_mom at 02/11/08 5:55AM
  • jenkegley
    Hi Janice - Jennifer Kegley here. You have a beautiful family!
    by jenkegley at 06/03/08 10:11PM

We are bound for China!!

Finally! We have been in the process of adopting Joshua for about 9 months!! We are tentatively traveling to China on August 12th and will return home sometime around August 31st! We are sooooo excited!! I can't wait to bring our son home. He has been our son since Dec. 6th, 2006 but from afar!! It will be great to finally bring him home!! I just found out yesterday and realized that we leave in 10 days (9 now)!! I am in a daze, but also in a whirlwind!! Imagine packing for 6 people - how crazy is that!!

We do covet your prayers!! Please pray for our safe journey, Joshua's transition into our family, and for our health to be good while we are there.

Have a great day and help someone along the way!
Janice


  • sweett
    YAY!! So exciting!!
    by sweett at 08/03/07 7:31AM
  • jake28
    Exciting times! I hope and pray all goes well with this transition period and your trip to china.
    by jake28 at 08/03/07 7:56AM
  • purdyinpink818
    That's exciting!! Hope you have a safe trip!!!!
    by purdyinpink818 at 08/03/07 9:24AM
  • towelhead
    Yay, I want to see pictures when yall come back! :-)
    by towelhead at 08/03/07 10:20AM
  • elgriff
    PRAYING! I cannot WAIT to meet him!!
    by elgriff at 08/03/07 10:45AM
  • beccas
    that's so exciting!! I saw your post below and I would love to see pics of Joshua- my email is becca90@suddenlink.net :)
    by beccas at 08/03/07 11:42AM
  • bargain_shopper_mom
    How exciting for you! Add me to your trip blog you know my email already.
    by bargain_shopper_mom at 08/03/07 11:45AM
  • jess
    Wow, so soon - How exciting!! We'll be praying!
    by jess at 08/03/07 12:32PM
  • bah
    i'm super excited for ya'll! now even more reason to come up. MAKE sure LK don't eat that stuff he ate the one time in China...lol.
    by bah at 08/03/07 3:43PM
  • siscokids
    We will be keeping you guys in our prayers!!! Good luck!!
    by siscokids at 08/03/07 5:50PM
  • siscokids
    I would also love to be kept in the know about your adventures. My email is esisco@timbresoft.com
    by siscokids at 08/03/07 5:51PM
  • SaraJones
    I am so excited for you. You are continually in our prayers. We are anxious to meet the newest member of your family!
    by SaraJones at 08/04/07 12:00AM
  • SaraJones
    Janice, I would love to have the route to your blog for Joshua
    by SaraJones at 08/04/07 12:01AM
  • tracys
    can't wait to meet him!
    by tracys at 08/04/07 11:00AM
  • elgriff
    janice, thanks for listening to me all week! love!
    by elgriff at 08/04/07 1:48PM
  • bah
    hah...no. the first numbers are baseball records that have been attained this year and the last is how many people were at the Kleinwood singing friday night.
    by bah at 08/05/07 8:29AM
  • tracys
    me, too! miss you.
    by tracys at 08/05/07 1:08PM
  • jennking
    You will definitely be in our prayers. What an exciting time!!
    by jennking at 08/06/07 9:49AM

Hodge Podge

We (our family reads the Harry Potter books aloud together) finished the book Wednesday right before bible study! The book was great!! I have loved reading the aloud. The kids like for me to read them, except when I get really excited I start reading so fast that nobody can understand what I am saying!! She is a gifted author and I am really sad that the books have come to an end!

Lawrence will be gone for two weeks. We will miss him. He is in a meeting in Longview this week and in Little Rock the next week. It seems like something out of the ordinary always happens when he is out of town. I wonder what it will be this time??

We will start some school this week. I know that seems early, but we will be leaving to go to China sometime in late August and we will be gone for 3 weeks. So, we need to get a head start on the school year.

I have enjoyed the summer! Family time, visits with people who have come from other places, cousins and sisters and other relatives visiting, games, sleeping in (till at least 6:30 or 7:00 - ha!), lecures @ Florence, taking the kids to camp, sleepovers, reading books, working in the garden, lots of heated games of Settlers & Cities & Knights, and just plain old having fun are just a few of the things we have done this summer.

Please pray for our family right now as we are preparing to adopt Joshua. Pray that Joshua will have a smooth transition into our family. He will have a lot of adjustments to make including food, language, difference in appearance and culture shock! We will be leaving for China in the next month or so. We don't have firm plans yet as we are waiting on the Chinese government to give us the OK to travel. Having a toddler around will definitely add a new dimension to our life and we are looking forward to getting him home. If you would like to follow our journey in China or just to see photos of Joshua, let me know and I will invite you to take a peek at our blog for Joshua. I will need your email address to invite you. For safety reasons our agency would like it done this way instead of just leaving it open for public view.

I hope you all have a great week! Take care and live for Him today!
  • elgriff
    ellen.griffin@wku.edu that is GREAT that you did that to mary, i wondered if lawrence would do anything! thats hillarious! Dad got a good report in a way from the doctor today because he was told that he had no disease in his heart or blockage! The problem is that one of the 3 arteries coming from the top of his heart is being sqeezed and clamped by the other two, restricting the blood flow. This is the reason needed for the open heart surgery, i'm just glad that his heart is starting off in good shape! I can call you tomorrow to explain it better.
    by elgriff at 07/28/07 9:54PM
  • jake28
    sounds like exciting times for y'all! i'm glad we got to see you in florence.
    by jake28 at 07/29/07 8:06AM
  • sarahs
    hey, it sounds like y'all are doing good! i would love to see pictures of Joshua, my e-mail is bandnerd09@suddenlink.net thanks! :)
    by sarahs at 07/29/07 2:38PM
  • phoenixfire
    our family will definitely want to see pictures...my mom's email is tktgwaggoner88@yahoo.com
    by phoenixfire at 07/29/07 2:43PM
  • siscokids
    We will be sure to say your name to God. We started school this last week and have actually enjoyed it.
    by siscokids at 07/29/07 5:10PM
  • ilovefootball
    ya i had just a few texts! haha ya its bad isnt it... and im paying for the damage! =(
    by ilovefootball at 07/29/07 8:08PM
  • natscarboro
    we would love to be part of the update on joshua. I think you have my insight email address...if you don't mind using that! We are praying for you all and a safe trip soon!! when do you all leave?
    by natscarboro at 07/29/07 8:49PM
  • jess
    I would love to see that blog! jshumake@insightbb.com Thanks!
    by jess at 07/29/07 9:00PM
  • jennking
    I would love to see the blog too! jhinely@bbandt.com He is already a blessed little boy. :)
    by jennking at 07/30/07 7:47AM
  • bah
    i'm sure mom knows the website but if not send it her way! I finally finished the book as well and I did enjoy it. Now onto stage two of our discussion the other day...moving! hehe.
    by bah at 07/30/07 11:31AM
  • tracys
    I still use your Hodge Podge recipe - - that was the first thing I thought of when I read your title!
    by tracys at 07/31/07 7:58AM
  • jennking
    BTW, I laughed out loud when I read your hint on setting up the crib. You wouldn't BELIEVE the "discussion" Mark and I had over where to set the crib up. He kept wanting to set it up in the living room so he could watch TV while he put it together and I kept telling him it wasn't going to fit through the door once it was all put together. We ended up putting it together IN the nursery. :)
    by jennking at 07/31/07 9:04AM
  • bah
    oh yes i liked the book! there was so much i wasn't expecting and all good!
    by bah at 07/31/07 9:15PM
  • sweett
    This is Tonya. It was great seeing you guys at Moes the other day. I would love to see Joshua's blog too. My email is tonya.robison AT gmail.com
    by sweett at 08/01/07 7:28AM
  • tracys
    We were very sad we didn't get to hear our favorite preacher this week . . . and it had NOTHING to do with Harry Potter!
    by tracys at 08/01/07 7:30AM
  • elgriff
    hey janice, i somehow lost your email address, i wanted to give you an update on dad! i guess i could just call you though...
    by elgriff at 08/01/07 3:22PM
  • sweett
    He is adorable!! I can't wait to meet him!!
    by sweett at 08/01/07 10:23PM
  • bah
    aight DEAL! I think you should break this news to mom. And it will have to be after the end of this year.
    by bah at 08/01/07 11:47PM
  • a_starr
    Hi Janice. I'd love to know more about Joshua's adventure. My e-mail is amyjstarr@gmail.com.
    Thanks!!

    I love the idea of reading out loud. A friend of mine always read out loud to her kids and they really loved it. :) Nice family activity.
    by a_starr at 08/02/07 10:28AM
  • tracys
    thanks for your call today - - we continue to keep you all in our prayers daily!
    by tracys at 08/02/07 10:57PM

Thoughts about swimming in public places

I understand in writing this I may fall into considerable criticism by some, but I firmly believe the topic of immodest apparel needs to be addressed and our hearts need to be softened. I don't understand why we loose all sense of what to wear and not to wear when it comes to swimming pools! We would not wear our underwear to the grocery store or the mall. Why when you add water to a hole in the ground do people loose all sense of what is and is not appropriate. Why do some christians think because you are in a swimming pool it is ok to wear what we would normally consider underwear in front of people of the opposite sex?

I for one do not want to put my sons in a position purposely that could cause them to lust. I also don't want to put my daughter's body on for display for someone to lust after. Some seem to want their kids to have fun no matter what the cost. We should not sacrifice our values and morals for an afternoon of fun.

There are so many things we can do with our children that are much more valuable then swimming in a public place. I fear that we are so consumed with not wanting our kids to miss out on anything that they miss out on some of the most important things - like learning to stand for something.

We need to teach our children a sense of modesty and shame. One of the problems with the world today is there is no sense of shame. I see it everywhere I go. Women are dressed horribly just about everywhere you go (meaning breasts and thighs are exposed everywhere you turn). I know you can't shelter your children from all immodest women, but we don't have to immerse them with them. In our sex saturated culture we as christians need to examine ourselves and make sure that we have not been too influenced by the world around us.

I just want to remind us of a few passages from the Bible:
II Tim. 2:22 "Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart."

James 2:15-17 "Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever."

Matt. 5:28 - "but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

This is all a matter of where your heart is and who you are trying to please. Do we just want to be like the world and everyone in it or do we want to heed the scriptures and try to please God?
  • wberk
    Lawrence, aka Leakey Kernwell, my good friend is a good man, but does need help. I think you are the help he needs!
    by wberk at 06/26/07 7:22AM
  • jake28
    excellent thoughts janice! it sounds as if maybe you should write the sermons and let lawrence preach them. or have you been doing that already? :)
    by jake28 at 06/26/07 7:34AM
  • tracys
    Good post, Janice. And yes, we DO need a good visit - it's been much too long. What shall we do about that?
    by tracys at 06/26/07 9:30AM
  • sweetmelissa
    Amen all around Janice. Such an encouraging read. Thank for saying what you think! It's really encouraging to know that there are still some people who think this way.
    by sweetmelissa at 06/26/07 11:40AM
  • zack
    hi..janice..where are you now? came back home already? or? i think you all very busy recently right? man... i miss your foods,..hehe.. the chicken. the bread . the every thing ... man .. and i am sure you all can't wait to go to china,right? me either... i can't wait either.. i can't wait to see joshua.. is that 1 more month? ok ..i am gonna count it from now on.. i will talk to you later... love you
    by zack at 06/27/07 1:38AM
  • sweetmelissa
    Thanks! I'm excited about starting there. Yeah, I'm teaching 2 classes of Computer Applications and 1 class of Economics. But, the Computer class is standardized throughout the department, so I only have to plan for one class a day! How awesome, huh?
    by sweetmelissa at 06/27/07 4:08PM
  • frances
    I don't know you, but I so appreciate what you wrote about Modesty. May your family continue to be blessed. We have a darling little granddaughter from China. Alan & Julie flew over to get her 7 years ago.
    by frances at 06/27/07 9:59PM
  • zack
    oh..really? late july? it's coming soon ... one more month ... man .. i am so excited.. my parants they are still in utah now ... but ,, i think they might go back in the july . but .. i have seen them already,that will be ok if they go back .. but i do want to spend more time with them.. hehe .. because if they go back this time .. i am not sure when they could come back again .. hehe ...
    by zack at 06/27/07 11:17PM
  • elgriff
    hey janice! sorry i didn't get to talk to you very long last night, orientation is over, i start work TOMORROW! kinda nervous..YIKES!
    by elgriff at 06/28/07 9:51AM
  • luv2fish
    Good Post!
    by luv2fish at 07/01/07 6:02AM
  • zack
    yeah ... my parants they are doing very well .. and we booked ticket for them yesterday ... it's in the 23rd of july .. so ,, it's coming soon . and i don't want them go ...hehe, but anyway .. it is enough that i have seen them in the u.s . ... and how about you guys doing in ky ? every thing ok ? i am sure you guys were busy those days ... but .. you guys need to take care .. ok?
    by zack at 07/04/07 12:15AM
  • ilovefootball
    ya srry, my mom said we r packed so i believed it... guess not huh, lol
    by ilovefootball at 07/05/07 11:40PM
  • mom2reese
    hi Janice, this is Traci (Wilson) Turner, Lisa's niece. I jsut wanted to say Hi! I agree with your post too, btw. Very appropriate for summmer!
    by mom2reese at 07/06/07 10:07PM
  • zack
    hey, janice, i went to see the fireworks on the independence day. there were thousands of people at that place.. that was my first time see that many people in america....and the fireworks were awesome ... how was your independence day/?
    by zack at 07/08/07 10:36AM
  • bah
    Yep...we had stopped at Saltgrass Steakhouse in Houston before the lockin thing we had.
    by bah at 07/09/07 7:45AM
  • carabear
    thank you for this post. very good points.
    by carabear at 07/11/07 9:44PM
  • bargain_shopper_mom
    Amen sister. One time when talking about this in the Junior High class Phillip was getting opposition and so he said OK whoever is for wearing a bikini in public come right up here and stand in your bra and panties. Thankfully we didn't have any takers but they got the point!
    by bargain_shopper_mom at 07/13/07 12:08PM
  • a_starr
    I really appreciate this post. I'm not sure I understand why people make exceptions in the definition of "modest" dress either! Weddings are another example. Wedding dresses in particular. Then again, I think the definition of "modest" as a whole is slipping!
    by a_starr at 07/14/07 11:50PM
  • elgriff
    hi janice!!! long time, no...talk? yeah, we havent had a good talk in awhile! i hope we can get together soon!
    by elgriff at 07/24/07 6:52PM
  • sherbear
    couldn't agree more. I have always wondered why water makes undies ok to wear in public.
    by sherbear at 07/25/07 1:49AM

Recent Events

Our family is constantly going through changes it seems. We moved here to Bowling Green 5 years ago. Since then we have had Lawrence's Cousin - Sara Ledbetter Spears - live with us, Jeanie Wilsford Smith - live with us and the latest was Zach - Li Zhi Quiang. We enjoyed everyone of them and our kids enjoyed them as well. We miss Zach and look forward to seeing him again soon!

This year our family will add a permanent addition! Our 3 year old son will come to live with us probably in August!! We are all really excited about that! We have spent our time since last Thanksgiving preparing for this new addition!! We are so excited about his arrival! We have decided that the whole family will travel to China to receive him. We are all a little apprehensive about the flight to China and being in a country where we can't understand anyone, but are looking forward to going none the less!!

Our oldest son, Chase is 15. He has a mowing business right now. I am so proud that he has taken on this responsibility! He makes me proud a lot and I am grateful that God has blessed us with him!

Our only daughter, Olivia is 13! She just got her 2nd phase of braces yesterday and is suffering!! She is making me proud lately as well! She has accomplished some really cool things recently! She sewed a bluejean jacket and it really looks like one bought in a store! If I knew how to upload photos I would add it in! She is also training a horse for a horse show!! She is loving that and doing a great job with Grace (the beautiful Quarter Paint)!

Our third child, William, is 10 as of May 9th!! I can't believe his is so old already! I am very proud of him as well. He is playing baseball this year and training a young calf to show in 4-H. Sometimes I am not sure who is training who!! I looked over at him the other day and saw him laying on the ground in front of her and she had butted him down to the ground 3 times!! She has figured out he is only 55 pounds!!

Children are a blessing from God! I love mine and love to play with them, teach them about God and His world, and just spend time with them!! Time passes too fast so enjoy every minute you have with your children for soon they grow up and leave to make their own families!!

I hope everyone has a great summer with their children! Make this life with your children count for eternity!!
  • bah
    what a nice post! i agree with Jacob (Jake) about feelin old. and I am so glad Olivia has overcome her days of doing interesting things to animals, mainly cats! mom told me about chase and the Gravely...that's awesome! i think mom wants to come visit soon, maybe she can make it up there sometime after august.
    by bah at 05/26/07 11:08PM
  • bargain_shopper_mom
    Wow you have been busy as usual. I'm guessing Olivia got her sewing skills from you :) I cannot believe William is 10! Man are we getting old or what? Kelli just turned 5 on May 23. I'm hoping she has a very creative and patient Kindergarten teacher. It's going to be very interesting to see Kelli in school. She's a lot like me - no comments please...
    by bargain_shopper_mom at 05/27/07 9:37PM
  • bah
    chase flying here? awesome! i plan to be there that thursday night for sure if not more times. i'll have to call him when he is here.
    by bah at 05/27/07 11:13PM
  • bah
    oh and i would LOVE to come visit again.
    by bah at 05/27/07 11:13PM
  • jennking
    Thanks Janice. Mark and I pray that our family will be the Godly influence yours has been on us. Miss you!
    by jennking at 05/28/07 7:47AM
  • jennking
    and WOW, can't believe the kids are that old!!
    by jennking at 05/28/07 7:47AM
  • zack
    hey .. what's up janice .. i am sorry that i didn't call you recently .. i think it's about 1 week .. right ? i miss you all so much .. and whenever i miss you all .. i see your pictures .. so ,, i feel much better .. hehe .. and i am trying to book the ticket to KY now .. hehe .. is that too early ? hey .. how is chase's mowing work going on ? is olivia , willianm and lawrence doing good too? i really miss them .. and miss the people who is in lost river church ... tell hi to them for me ... ok ? thanks ... hey .. i miss that you wake me up in 5 45 in the morning .. hehe ... but i can't wake up that early in UT.. hehe... i always wake up about 9 o'clock .. ( so nice /) hehe, ,, ok .. i will try to call you in this thirsday ... and i will talk to you later .. bye , love you !
    by zack at 05/29/07 12:43AM
  • jake28
    hey janice! things are going fairly well for us. will you be coming to the college view lectures with lawrence? we plan to be there at least one day. hopefully, we'll get to see you and the kids!
    by jake28 at 05/29/07 9:42AM
  • zack
    hey .. what's up . how are you doing today..
    by zack at 05/30/07 1:41AM
  • jenkegley
    Hi Janice!! This is Jennifer Kegley. I found you on Karen's blog and Evie's blog. It sounds like you have a beautiful family! Congratulations on your new addition!
    by jenkegley at 06/01/07 7:47AM
  • bargain_shopper_mom
    Ha-Ha I am getting old but you'll always be older :)
    by bargain_shopper_mom at 06/01/07 8:57AM
  • jess
    I was just thinking about your new little boy the other day and wondering when you would get him - how exciting that you all get to go!
    by jess at 06/02/07 1:19AM
  • trolleem
    Hi Janice! It's great to hear from you. We are in Zunyi, in the province of Guizhou. I have never heard of anyone we know traveling here for adoption purposes...we are a bit in the boondocks of China you could say. :) Lord willing, we are actually headed back in a about 4 weeks! We fly back to KY on July 14! It would be great to meet with you guys and give you some tips on China. It is like a different planet at first...amazing that it seems like our home now...only because God is so good.
    by trolleem at 06/12/07 8:01AM
  • tnerbydoom
    Its good to hear about your family. I know your children will really appreciate their parents when they get older (as I'm sure they already do). Y'all are awesome. We need to take a parenting class as a sequal to our marriage class. Your kids are constantly learning helpful "life lessons." They will be very prepared when they become adults. Your new 3 year old will be so blessed.
    by tnerbydoom at 06/13/07 4:52PM
  • trolleem
    We will be in KY for about 2-3 weeks before the move to NC. :)
    by trolleem at 06/16/07 9:32PM
  • tnerbydoom
    Our moving day is July 10th. Our first Sunday is on July 15th.
    by tnerbydoom at 06/16/07 10:50PM
  • shousinator
    Hey Janice! How's life? I hope it's not going too quickly for you! I miss you guys. Lots of love!
    by shousinator at 06/18/07 2:41AM
  • wberk
    What beauty, dignity and joy I see in your description of your family. I'm a friend of Lawrence. Didn't know all of this about your family. Very encouraging.
    by wberk at 06/19/07 11:12AM
  • naturesensei
    Do you know how to make a chicken soup?
    by naturesensei at 06/21/07 9:26AM
  • xi_xi
    I heart your family !
    by xi_xi at 06/25/07 10:06AM