Chicago Church

Howdy, everyone! Jeremy and I are going to be in Chicago the weekend of January 1-4. I looked up churches in the area, but I wanted to see if anyone knew of any in the downtown area. We'll be staying near the Magnificent Mile, and we won't have a car, so we'll probably be taking a cab to services. Anyone know of congregations in the area? Thanks!
  • jerzgirl
    We lived iin the Chicagoland area for four years but never worshiped downtown. I could give you some suburb congregations but that won't help much. You might look up the church of Christ online directory...
    by jerzgirl at 12/21/09 3:30PM
  • preacherdavetx
    I know someone that can help. I will get back with you.
    by preacherdavetx at 12/21/09 4:11PM
  • lizzyb
    You might try www.findthechurch.com - it seems to have a lot of sound churches listed. Have fun on your trip - I love Chicago!!
    by lizzyb at 12/23/09 12:05AM
  • gracie03
    Thanks, y'all! I'm continuing my investigation! :)
    by gracie03 at 12/23/09 7:45AM
  • preacherdavetx
    Hey Val Gal, talked to someone from Elgin (which is like a suburb of Chicago), and they didn't know of any close to the magnificent mile. However, the good thing about Chicago is mass transit. If ya'll took the train there were a few reccommendations they had for you.

    Also, Steve Rudd's site is now updated and does a really good job of finding conservative works close to a given address. www.bible.ca just in case you didn't have it.

    Hope you guys have fun. Say Hi to Oprah for me.

    Happy Holidays and God Bless,

    Dave
    by preacherdavetx at 12/23/09 1:38PM
  • emersonk78
    Poor preachers... can't afford to fork out the dough for a weekend monkey suit! :-) Will do.
    by emersonk78 at 01/15/10 9:53AM
  • bonnyswan
    thanks...we need it. hope to see you tonight!
    by bonnyswan at 01/29/10 9:57AM

My God is so BIG!!

"My God is so BIG,
So strong and so mighty,
There's nothing my God cannot do!"

We sing this song with the kids in Bible class and at Vacation Bible School. I now kinda have this running joke with a few of the girls about this song because one day when little Abby was in the car with us and I was driving, I started to launch into a tirade about another driver but Tracy reminded me there were kids in the car. So, instead I launched into singing Abby's favorite song..."My God is so big..." I now use it all the time to try to help me control my road rage issues. It's really, really hard to be mad at another driver when singing this song. Not to mention picturing all the little ones singing it.

Anyway, this song has run through my head all day. Not because I've been driving all day, but because the words ring true and deep in my heart today. My dad, who's not been faithful for the past year, went before our brethren at Humble and confessed his sins and asked for forgiveness. I know this was a truly difficult step for him to take, but he did it! I knew he couldn't ignore God's power and grace forever. He has a long way to go and a lot of questions and things to work through, but our God truly is BIG and mighty. He softened my daddy's heart, and answered many, many prayers. Please continue to remember my dad and us as we try to encourage him.

Today is my dad's birthday. I know it's silly and it has nothing to do with his actual birthday, but he truly is a brand new person today. Praise God for washing our sins for us!

I love you all!

EDIT: I forgot to let you all know the other good news (though not near as important as the above). :) We have a new son! He and Windy are already best of friends. Hehe.







  • kimhazelrigg
    I've been thinking about y'all all day today. Will certainly continue praying.
    by kimhazelrigg at 11/05/09 5:00PM
  • sharbyheart
    YEAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!! The tears were everywhere last night. Praying for all of you...
    by sharbyheart at 11/05/09 5:19PM
  • kirbyj2
    So glad to hear that he has taken this step. I continue to pray.
    by kirbyj2 at 11/05/09 5:40PM
  • emily
    That just made my day. I'm so happy to hear this. You have been in my prayers for so long and I will continue to pray for him and you. Love you! And that's a great idea about the song..i might try that. :)
    by emily at 11/05/09 6:02PM
  • AlanL
    Great news!
    by AlanL at 11/05/09 6:23PM
  • ladidodd
    yea!! what wonderful news, thank you so much for sharing :D ill continue to pray for your whole family!
    by ladidodd at 11/05/09 9:15PM
  • tangsoodotpm
    I'm so very happy that this has happened, and I know what a relief this is for all of you. I rejoice with all of you.
    by tangsoodotpm at 11/05/09 11:44PM
  • aleta
    This is such great news! May he continue to trust and obey.

    Great story about the song, too!
    by aleta at 11/06/09 7:08AM
  • kurlz
    I got the call. I thanked God for his confession, for you, and for his future. You are truly one of the reasons he questioned his disbelief.
    by kurlz at 11/06/09 8:20AM
  • bonnyswan
    that is such wonderful news! we will be praying for him and your whole family.
    by bonnyswan at 11/06/09 8:34AM
  • jennifermy
    You just wanted to make me cry again today. I am so happy for all of you. I hope he continues to search God's word to find the answers that he needs.
    by jennifermy at 11/06/09 10:28AM
  • lizzyb
    Many prayers have been answered! I know things will be difficult, but this is a huge step! Give him my love!
    by lizzyb at 11/06/09 9:51PM
  • sherry_everett
    That is such wonderful news Val!! I am so happy for your family. I know that it still won't be an easy road, but together and with the Lord, you all can make it!
    by sherry_everett at 11/06/09 10:42PM
  • nick_katie
    This is great news about your dad! Our God is SO big!
    by nick_katie at 11/14/09 8:40PM
  • the_brookester
    Your puppy is so cute! Glad that things are looking up for your family. I will continue to pray for you all!
    by the_brookester at 11/14/09 11:31PM
  • serenity
    Yes, thankyou for thinking of us! We are hopefully going to be in by the 18th of Dec!!! A home for Christmas!! Wooo!
    by serenity at 11/28/09 11:31AM
  • aleta
    Thank you!
    by aleta at 12/14/09 4:47PM

Less Stressed!!...at home

I never realized how much less stressed I would be about my "home life" just by planning to not eat out during the week and cleaning. I know, I know. It's sad. However, since Jeremy and I have started the daily cleaning schedule I put together for us, I never have to worry about "when am I going to find the time to clean the house". Since we've pretty much stopped eating out during the week, I never have to decide what we're going to do for dinner on my way home. I already know!

For anyone struggling with finding the time to do silly things like clean your house (hehe), I highly recommend doing a little each day. I realize everyone does not have a husband who is necessarily eager to help out with these things, but even if I did it by myself, I think each day I could probably be done in less than an hour. There's no ambiguity on what needs to be done (the schedule is posted on the refrigerator), so Jeremy even does some things before I get home. It's great! We have company coming this weekend, and I know that all I have to do "extra" is dust and vacuum the guest room and the game room and clean the guest bath (which I could do in about 45 minutes by myself). Yea! The best part about the schedule is that we don't have to do anything on Wednesday, Saturday or Sunday. :)

So, Wednesday is our new taco night. We've had them the last two weeks, and I'm looking forward to having them tonight, too. We don't really get tired of them (at least not so far), and it's an easy thing to fix before church services, especially when I'm teaching and trying to get there even earlier. I've also tried to plan ahead with dinners for other nights, without putting the pressure on myself to do a meal list every week. I like to plan ahead that much, but if I only give myself that way to plan out my week, I end up getting discouraged if I don't find the time to get it all together and buy everything on my grocery list. So, I've tried to just make sure we're stocked up with several kinds of meat (and everything else, of course) and take it a day or two at a time. It's great! So, for tomorrow, I'm thinking I'll thaw a couple of chicken breasts, and make some sort of pasta dish with the chicken and have the broccoli I got at the Farmers' Market. Yum. :)

Okay, that's all happy, so I don't want to talk about anything else. Yea for singing night tonight! I hope everyone is having a great week!

P.S. Tomorrow is Jeremy's birthday. He'll be 29. We're going to celebrate his last year of youth (hehe) by going roller skating on Monday. Yea!!!
  • AlanL
    Good idea about the schedule. I'm not sure we're disciplined enough to stick to one, but we should probably give it a shot.
    by AlanL at 09/02/09 3:49PM
  • lindsey
    Good luck with the schedule. I'm a very list oriented person... If I have time to do anything I usually tackle my list.

    A group of friends and I started doing Taco Tuesday every week since about... October. After a few weeks we changed it to Tortilla Tuesday so it could be anything we wanted, just so long as it had a Tortilla with it (enchiladas, tacos, taco soup, mexican lasagna...). I'm going to miss that :)
    by lindsey at 09/02/09 4:32PM
  • preacherdavetx
    Cool.
    by preacherdavetx at 09/02/09 10:17PM
  • jennifermy
    I love lists and being organized it makes the day and week flow more smoothly. I went to Target after church tonight. I spent .31 and saved $15!!! hotcouponworld.com go check out the Target coupons. The cereal ones that I showed you last night expire on the 5th.
    by jennifermy at 09/02/09 11:11PM
  • kimhazelrigg
    Awesome! You need to share your fridge list :) I need someone to come over and go through my "stuff" and get rid of things! Sometimes I just get in the mood to get rid of stuff...not sure what starts it, but I wish it would happen again. HA!!!

    Glad Ethan gave you a laugh. He's a big HAM!
    by kimhazelrigg at 09/03/09 11:56AM
  • anutty
    Happy Birthday to Jeremy! I'm so impressed with you two! Good job! Our Saturday nights were hamburgers, usually grilled, if the weather helped up!
    by anutty at 09/03/09 7:56PM
  • spike427
    we eat tacos a lot on wed too! and it's true - just 30 min a day is great for chores!
    by spike427 at 09/11/09 5:18PM
  • ladidodd
    thanks!! :)
    by ladidodd at 09/28/09 10:33AM
  • preacherdavetx
    We love you Val Gal, and keep praying for you guys. I hope all is well. God Bless.
    by preacherdavetx at 11/05/09 10:32AM

It's Been Ages...

I'm sorry I haven't posted much lately. Most of you who I'm in contact with outside of pleo know that my surgery went well. The recovery was a little more than I was expecting, but I made it. My scar is not too noticeable, and the swelling has gone down dramatically. It's still not quite down to what it was, but I've been told to give it time.

Since my surgery, Jeremy and I celebrated our first anniversary as husband and wife. I don't really even know how to express what he means to me. Just for kicks, here are some of the "little" (although I don't believe any of them are little) things I've learned to cherish about my husband:

- He helps me with housework, and by "helping" I mean does more than I do sometimes. I know that doesn't sound like such a big deal, but it means so much to me. I can't wait for the time when I'm not working and I can handle all those things on my own, but in the meantime, it's important to him for me to enjoy my time at home, too, so he helps in any way I ask (and many ways before I can ask).

- He opens my car door. Every time. I know this seems silly, but it means a lot to me. A couple of weeks ago we went to the grocery store. After we loaded up the groceries, I took the cart up to one of the cart returns. When I got back to the car, he was standing by my door in the heat waiting on me. He's so sweet.

- He takes care of me and is patient with my health issues, long past when I probably would have been patient. If you've never experienced hormone issues to where the thought of moving off the couch makes you want to sob, I hope you never do. Not every day is like that, but there are some. I know he doesn't fully understand how I'm feeling all the time, but he has never once asked the question I sometimes want to ask myself, "What is your problem, and when are you going to get up and do something?"

- He thanks me multiple times every single time I cook a meal. He never expects it (which might be a whole different problem, if my hubby doesn't ever expect me to cook - that means I'm not doing it enough!). :) He always, always appreciates it, though (even when I force him to try a new veggie). :)

- He reminds me over and over when I don't feel up to going to do something "fun" that he's happy as long as he's with me.

- He does laundry. This one is definitely NOT a little thing because I HATE laundry. :) I do it sometimes, but he handles it more often than not.

- When I want to try a new project or hobby or schedule or whatever, he always is willing and encourages me in whatever I want to attempt.

Anyway, I could go on and on about this endlessly, but those are just a few. I'd love to hear from anyone reading this one (or more) of those "little" things you love about your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend/or whomever. :)

In other news, we went to San Antonio to celebrate our anniversary (and my birthday, since it happens to fall 3 days later). It was a fabulous trip, and I have several pictures of fire escapes from it, if you'd like to see them. Hehe. I know, it's weird. I just have a strange fascination with fire escapes, so I took a bunch of pictures of them while we were there. I have some other pics, too. :) We went to Fiesta Texas, the Alamo, Ripley's museum, the wax museum, on a nighttime "ghost hunt", the market, Riverwalk, and Seaworld. I'm sure I missed some other things in there, too. It was fabulous to have the time away and just get to focus on Jeremy. When we were at Seaworld, I did an animal interaction thing with the Belugas, and it was so much fun! I got to get in the water with them in a wetsuit and give them commands, play with them, hug them, and get pictures made with them! I recommend it to anyone who goes. It's kinda expensive, but what an experience! :)

I'm back at work now, and I'd just like to ask for continued prayers for my family. I don't know why I thought things would get any easier, but I just feel like some things have been a slap in the face lately. I'm struggling with a lot of different things. I'm struggling with making sure I'm truly grateful for the job I have and content in my circumstances. I'm struggling with maintaining a loving spirit with my dad and my sister. I'm struggling with the fact that I don't feel as close to God or my brethren as I have in months previous. I think a lot of it probably has to do with hormones, but I don't want to use that as an excuse. I'm trying to improve my prayer and study life because I know that will help. I'm really struggling to place my full faith in God. I don't really feel like I've ever been where I need to be in this area. I've always tried to fix my own problems, and I have a huge problem accepting that I can't do it all by myself. I'm working on this, and I hope you'll pray for me.

Thanks everyone for keeping in touch, even though I've been a little absent from pleo lately. I pray for so many of you. Thank you for praying for us!
  • ladidodd
    ill be praying for you, valerie!!! and your husband sounds really wonderful.. what a blessing :D
    by ladidodd at 08/27/09 10:01AM
  • sharbyheart
    Happy belated anniversary...you two have weathered a very rough first year--the strength you've developed will serve you well in years to come. Keep helping each other!
    by sharbyheart at 08/27/09 10:24AM
  • preacherdavetx
    I think everyone should be required to make a "what my spouse does for me" (positively) every year... if not every month! It's a great exercise.

    - She loves to cook for me. And she cooks AWESOME. I'm not exaggerating either. People literally stand in awe of how good her food is.

    - She still tells me I am smart; which is always appreciated, especially when I feel like a moron.

    - She supports me in just about everything.

    - The way she cares for our children is amazing to me as well. She gets up and cooks Joshua grilled tilapia and pasta to take to lunch at kindergarten. Seriously?!?!?!? Yes!

    These are a few things that amaze me about my wife. Thanks Val Gal, and God bless.
    by preacherdavetx at 08/27/09 11:39AM
  • bonnyswan
    val, your husband is awesome, and so are you. you are a constant source of encouragement, and that is definitely not little!
    - my husband puts up with me
    that's pretty much a lump statement of how great he is!
    by bonnyswan at 08/27/09 12:54PM
  • amyclanton
    good to finally hear from you on the pleo world! As far as bragging on Brad, the best thing lately is that he still wants to marry me! The last few weeks have been hard and very stressful but he is always there and listens to me when I need to rant!
    by amyclanton at 08/27/09 6:14PM
  • kimhazelrigg
    Scott does his laundry and sometimes Ethans too. He also washes dishes since I do the coooking. He has no interest in cooking whatsoever and I really don't like doing the dishes anyway :)

    He also keeps the living room straight and Ethan's toys organized whic is nice.

    He's a really good guy...in case you haven't noticed :)
    by kimhazelrigg at 08/27/09 8:53PM
  • kimhazelrigg
    I meant to also say I felt very much the same after breaking my leg. After less than 2 years of marriage poor Scott had to completely take care of most things after work. I felt really bad about it. By the time we got to S years we had taken 2 ambulance rides (me in the back both times), been through 4 surgeries and at least 2 serious emergency room visits (me again). He's been a good helper through all of it.

    Just hang in there. It will get better and you have a great helper to get you through. Will be praying for you girl.
    by kimhazelrigg at 08/27/09 9:06PM
  • amandarenee
    Those are all BIG things...wonderful things. You truly are blessed, and SO IS JEREMY!
    After I had Travis I had horrible hormonal issues that were attributed to my thryoid. Not fun and somedays it seemed like it would never end...but it did and I am thankful for that.
    Thanks for your sweet message on my page. I will post more details as soon as Im able to.
    by amandarenee at 08/27/09 10:00PM
  • aleta
    I love hearing accolades like this! Too many want to be openly critical of their mates. I'm very happy for you both!

    I have a sweetie who makes it his job every day to make sure I'm doing well - that all is going as it should for me. I don't deserve such consideration, but he gives it freely!
    by aleta at 08/28/09 3:27PM
  • anutty
    Can't believe it was a year ago we went to Blue Bell, the Kleinwood singing, and then to hear Jerry tell you two that you could cancel your E-Harmony account!! Too funny. You were a beautiful bride! But you had to go through tremondous heartaches during your newlywed year. The devil will do what he can to discourage you, but keep your head up sweetie! You've seen what he is capable of, but remember who ALWAYS wins over the devil! i love you, tell jeremy hi, and we are expecting a visit!
    by anutty at 08/28/09 7:50PM

Surgery

Well, I think most of you probably know, but my surgery is scheduled for next Tuesday, July 14, at 10 am. I'll be in Memorial Hermann Hospital - Memorial City. I had my pre-op appointment yesterday and received my shower instructions for the night before and day of (weird, right?). :) Everything seems to be on track, so here we go. Thank you for all the prayers and shows of concern. I appreciate you all! I love you!
  • AlanL
    Still praying.
    by AlanL at 07/08/09 10:26AM
  • preacherdavetx
    We love you too Val Gal!
    by preacherdavetx at 07/08/09 10:31AM
  • ladidodd
    praying!!!
    by ladidodd at 07/08/09 11:15AM
  • bonnyswan
    shower instructions? interesting. ok, then. certainly praying for the drs. and you!
    by bonnyswan at 07/08/09 12:03PM
  • silvia
    We'll be praying for you and the doctor and staff who will operate on you now and specially your day of surgery.
    by silvia at 07/08/09 1:55PM
  • wise
    Praying things will go smoothly.
    by wise at 07/08/09 1:58PM
  • anutty
    We'll be at camp, but will pray now, and pray then, and pray in between! Hang in there girl! Hope this will be the answer to some of these problems! Love you!
    by anutty at 07/08/09 10:17PM
  • campmagicman
    You are in our prayers! Hang in there!!
    by campmagicman at 07/09/09 6:09AM
  • tangsoodotpm
    What exactly are they hoping to accomplish with the surgery?
    by tangsoodotpm at 07/09/09 9:34AM
  • sharbyheart
    Praying for peace of mind and good results as you head into the days leading up to surgery.
    by sharbyheart at 07/10/09 1:45PM
  • kirbyj2
    Prayers have been and will continue to be said. Hang in there.
    by kirbyj2 at 07/10/09 2:00PM
  • bonnyswan
    praying for you today....hope to hear from you soon!
    by bonnyswan at 07/14/09 11:30AM
  • lizzyb
    Sounds like lots of prayers going up for you! Mine will be amoung them! Love you!
    by lizzyb at 07/14/09 8:00PM
  • preacherdavetx
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

    Since you are a year older... it's time for an update!
    by preacherdavetx at 08/05/09 1:27PM
  • silvia
    Happy birthday and belated anniversary...................we missed you sunday............so that's where you were, celebrating!
    by silvia at 08/06/09 7:29PM