TOMMY IS BACK HOME

Tommy and Mandy came home last night after a 10-day stay in 2 hospitals. He started out in Baylor Grapevine and was transferred to Parkland to receive special analysis. They finally released him last night (Monday night). It was really nice to see him walk through the door. This happened by God's good Grace and His answers to our prayers. Vertical is always better than horizontal.
Parkland Hospital is massive and has grown so much since the stone-age when I was a kid. We went up there on Saturday night to pick up Mandy (who had stayed by Tommy's side for the whole time). We wanted her to have a break and to be able to sleep in a real bed for a night and to get to go to Church on Sunday morning. She called us in the car and told us to meet her at the Emergency Entrance. We finally found that area. It was amazing to see that it looked just like it did in November 1963 when President Kennedy was taken there after being shot. I remember that day. I was in 7th grade at Bowie Junior High School in Irving. I was returning from lunch to my English class and there was a strange feeling in the air, but I did not know what had happened. As in any thing like this rumors abounded. I remember someone telling me that the President was not hurt, but that someone had shot the Governor (Connally) several times up close with a shotgun! What are some historical moments that you remember and where were you and what were you doing and thinking at the time??
  • sparky
    Space shuttle exploding on take-off. I was in line at the Missouri Bookstore. Ran back to the dorms to see the footage on the news.
    by sparky at 03/16/10 8:34PM
  • curmudgeon
    ^^I was with my oldest friend for both space shuttle accidents. Really strange. Working at his store when the first one blew up and having breakfast (after working a very early shift) when the second one came apart.
    by curmudgeon at 03/17/10 12:33AM
  • mropolo
    ^^I was in third grade PE
    by mropolo at 03/17/10 12:05PM

"CHAIN THOUGHTS"

I have thoughts that are trigger other related thoughts in rapid succession until my last thought is nowhere near the first. Example: The sun shines on my car mirror and into my eyes-the sun is bright-the Sun of righteousness in the Old Testament, with healing in His wings-if this IS Jesus does He have wings?-do angels fly on a regular basis in Heaven?-will I have wings there?-if I do where will I fly?-how big is Heaven?-can I just roam around up there?-what will I see?-if the streets are gold is there any "ground" there?-if so do things grow there?-how many people will be there?-will I just automatically "know" people there or will I have to ask?-will any of the Apostles think that I am as interesting as I think they will be?? SO, after a bright spot shines in my eye...I wonder what the Apostle Paul will think of me! So, do I need to be sent to the "Loony Bin" or do other folks think like this as well? Let me know what you think (if you don't get too side-tracked just thinking about it!!) Do any of you have "chain thoughts"?
  • mropolo
    chain thoughts are all I ever think : )
    by mropolo at 01/24/10 3:50PM
  • yellowrose
    For Sure!!!! Love this post!
    by yellowrose at 01/24/10 8:39PM
  • curmudgeon
    If you are a candidate for the "loony bin" then they better have a really big room because there are going to be a great number of us there with you.
    by curmudgeon at 01/25/10 11:27AM
  • snowwis
    Your question conjurs up too many thought for me to write then all down. Does that mean my chain has too many borken links?? ;-)
    I do appreciate that your thought chain is linked to heaven and look forward to you finding the answers one day.
    by snowwis at 01/26/10 10:35AM
  • laughing_eyes
    I have chain thoughts ... My coworkers have to stop me to understand the context ... because sometimes I start where our last conversation left off ;)
    by laughing_eyes at 01/31/10 2:46PM
  • yellowrose
    Thank you for the comment Ron!
    by yellowrose at 02/26/10 3:15PM

PSALMS

I try to read a Psalm each morning. Today I read Psalm 139. I was moved by the thoughts there: The Father knows what I am doing, what I am thinking, and what I'm about to say. I cannot hide from Him, He sees through the blackest night. He knit me together before I was born. And ending the thoughts with: "(23) Search me , O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! (24) And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!" --- This comforts and heightens our awareness. He is here beside me now...Does He approve of what He sees? How many evil thoughts and careless words have I produced in 60 years? We ask Him as the Psalmist did to see if I am veering off the road and to steer me back to the Way everlasting. --- I'd like to ask you all for a favorite Psalm or Proverb, and to tell us why it is special to you...
  • laughing_eyes

    Thank you for your prayers! I appreciate them so much!
    by laughing_eyes at 12/18/09 9:48PM
  • mropolo
    I tried to think of another, but mine is Psalm 23. I think it's so popular because it's so comforting. God is with you always in pastures green, in presence of enemies, or even in the valley of the shadow of death.
    by mropolo at 12/18/09 9:58PM

Optimist or Pessimist ?

I have a very controversial thought on this. I am a pessimist, always expect the worst. When it does happen, it was expected anyway. If it does not turn out that way then rejoice!
My philosophy is this: "Pessimists are almost ALWAYS pleasantly surprised !" Conversely Optimists are often disappointed.
I would love your feedback on this. ( You can be brutal if you like...I EXPECT it ! )
  • mapgray
    I am a little of both. Sometimes I am a pessimist but most of the time I am an optimist. My pessimist comes out when I am in a stressful situation.

    Like today...I was sure that Andrew had the flu and that all 5 of us would be laid up in bed the entire weekend. :-)

    Turns out it was probably just a virus.
    by mapgray at 09/03/09 10:16PM
  • Miso_Cute
    I'm an optimist. A naive optimist when it comes to people. I always expect the best in people. I am rarely disappointed. There is always something good in people, so for me, there can be no disappointment! Although for most situations I'm a realist and just take things as they are.
    by Miso_Cute at 09/04/09 12:09AM
  • snowwis
    Soooo...does that mean that you are optimistic that by being a pessimist you will be "almost ALWAYS pleasantly surprised !" ?? Does that sound kinda like an optimist and if not why not? Most optimists that I know of aren't too disappointed when things don't go as they wanted because they feel that it will be better next time and they go about their business in a happy frame of mind as opposed to a grumpy ol' pessimist (and no I'm not calling you a grumpy ol' pessimist). Question: Does one choose to be a pessimist or optimist; that is, is it a conscious choice?
    by snowwis at 09/04/09 2:19AM
  • graycastle
    Mr. Snowwis, I believe that you have figured me out. I saw a PBS article on this. A man got furious with traffic EVERYDAY. The question put to him was the opposite of what you say about me. He MUST be an optimist, because every day he believes that people will drive friendly, but is ALWAYS disappointed ! I never get upset in traffic because I expect it to be the same. (Am I a HAPPY pessimist???)
    To answer your question: I'm not sure, I think we just choose a comfortable route (which may be a shade of gray between the two...What Do the others here think???)
    by graycastle at 09/04/09 8:27PM
  • laughing_eyes
    I'm an optimist - i'm in a cool mood until i'm proven wrong
    I also believe in finding joy in small things - again, you're happy more often than if it takes something big to say "that's great!"
    by laughing_eyes at 09/05/09 9:29AM
  • graycastle
    I agree, the smallest things seem to mean a lot. I remember over 50 years ago when I got a metal 4 propeller airplane for Christmas. I will never forget that. It was such a "sweet" surprise. I hardly remember job promotions, new houses, and new cars (to me a car is just a box to get you from point A to point B)
    by graycastle at 09/05/09 9:43PM
  • kreg
    I'm an optimist, sometimes to a fault. But most of the time, that optimism, regardless of whether it results in disappointment, helps me get through rough times without going insane.
    by kreg at 09/10/09 10:00AM

My First Car

I thought that I might explain the picture that is in the Gallery. That is "Ronnie" Gray at the wheel. My big brother "Wally" is the power behind the car. ( For you who can remember "Leave It to Beaver" on television, I am approximately Beaver's age and I too had an older brother named Wally. I also had the strange array of friends growing up. Beaver's friend "Whitey" always got him into trouble and then "left him hanging". My Whitey was named "Tommy" and lived next door!) - Well, back to the car...It was about a 1948 model (a used car) and had pedals to make it go. Wally always had a better way, so he pushed me really fast. I got some terrible "road burn" on my "Flintstone Feet" and the pedals beat my little legs. If I remember correctly Wally got something beat as well when our Mom found out!
  • yellowrose
    That's too funny! Brotherly love....
    I love old pedal cars.
    by yellowrose at 08/05/09 12:05AM
  • mropolo
    : D
    by mropolo at 08/05/09 9:02AM
  • curmudgeon
    Older brothers can be a real source of "growing pains", but they help each of us to be what we are today. Thank you for the insight into Ronnie and the 48 speedster.
    by curmudgeon at 08/05/09 10:48AM
  • laughing_eyes
    yup
    by laughing_eyes at 08/08/09 12:29PM
  • curmudgeon
    Good one on the picture post, I laughed until I had a coughing fit. Well done! (no smack needed)
    by curmudgeon at 08/19/09 10:04PM
  • nik
    i love your family photo up there!
    by nik at 09/03/09 8:06PM
  • graycastle
    Thanks, I like it too. We took several of them at the time., but I was not in most of them, since I take a lot of the pictures.
    by graycastle at 09/03/09 8:55PM