2009 in Receipts

Daniel and I have been working on taxes this week. No, we didn't get them done before Thomas arrived. Yes, we are now suffering the consequences! So we are determined to have them done before my parents arrive on Monday. I think we are almost there. The little guys gifted us with an early bedtime last night and that allowed us to get a whole lot of work done on them. Now we just need to cross check our deductions with the credit card statements, checkbook, and calendar. Nearly there!

My job has been to go through all of the receipts for the year and highlight any items that are tax deductible. This is a royal pain, especially when your husband works as a preacher and you live in a "parsonage". Anything that goes towards the furnishing/supplies for the parsonage (which is also heavily used for bible studies and entertaining) is tax deductible. Hand soap, toilet paper, lightbulbs, decorations... you name it. It's actually been kind of fun going through all of the receipts month by month. It's like a trip down memory lane (and also a reminder about the fact that we eat out too much and made a few foolish purchases).

Some of the highlights of the year... visit from the Raifs where we toured NYC... our trip to Guatemala (converting expenses from quetzalas! fun!)... Jack's febrile seizure (lots of receipts for ibuprofen!)... Bunting reunion in Tennessee (and Jack's bout with hand foot and mouth disease... poor kid was sick a LOT in the spring!)... visiting Minnesota (twice for Jack and I)... discovering little Thomas was on the way (grocery receipts show large amounts of fruit, salads, and tomato soup being consumed! Also lots more eating out as I had the sickies for a while)... all of the trips to visit our midwife (and Panera Bread receipts from lunch on the way home)... maternity clothes for me, dress clothes for Daniel... lost shoe reciepts... Halloween candy receipts (jack was such an adorable dragon!)... thanksgiving turkey and cranberries... food for Zimbabwe throughout the year...

Also reminds me how much we are blessed!

  • dawnmk23
    Glad that you are getting everything together! :0)
    by dawnmk23 at 03/13/10 9:49AM
  • nycami
    I love reading about your life, even though I get to be part of it every couple of weeks. I can't wait to see Nick and Ruth!
    by nycami at 03/13/10 11:15AM
  • quiltedmama
    My MIL (she's been a preacher's wife for most of her life) told me she always marked her receipts every week when she balanced her checkbook, and kept a running total. That way they didn't have to do any scrambling at tax time. (She is hyper-organized, putting both Flylady and Martha Stewart to shame.)
    by quiltedmama at 03/13/10 11:18AM
  • weekendsongservice
    highlights ... and then dismal reminders. my mileage to bible classes with people early in the year ... who have since cancelled. *phuh*
    by weekendsongservice at 03/13/10 11:26AM
  • mjintexas
    I've thought about keeping my receipts to see if the sales tax deduction that is standard is more or less than what I usually get a deduction for. Just seems like so much work!
    by mjintexas at 03/13/10 12:31PM
  • isabeau_danjou
    That is really cool...sort of going back through your year through receipts...love it!
    by isabeau_danjou at 03/13/10 2:08PM
  • TNShirley
    Sooooo happy Nick & Ruth are getting to come see their new Grandson....Have a wonderful time together!!!!!!
    by TNShirley at 03/13/10 2:29PM
  • sharon
    You are better at keeping receipts than I am. :)
    by sharon at 03/13/10 8:13PM
  • wifelet
    Ahhhh, preacher taxes. My least favorite part of the whole deal. :(
    by wifelet at 03/13/10 10:14PM
  • sallyanne
    Thank you! I was thrilled with her article. She is a talented young lady and her stand for godly pursuits makes me a happy woman indeed!
    by sallyanne at 03/14/10 4:48PM
  • flowerchild82
    Oh, that would stress me beyond words. I'm glad you handle it so well!
    by flowerchild82 at 03/15/10 10:04AM
  • WomensDevotional
    check me out if you get a chance... see what you think!
    by WomensDevotional at 03/18/10 2:05PM

Must-See!

You MUST go to my husband's blog and watch the video there. It is AMAZING! Gotta love OkGo! (We saw them in concert while we were dating - they opened for TMBG. Fun, fun!)

(To get the full effect, open it up in You Tube and watch it on the full screen.)
  • crazy_mama
    AWESOME!!! LOVED it! Tomorrow I'm going to show my girls and we'll be watching it like a million times I'm sure!
    by crazy_mama at 03/02/10 10:34PM
  • holly_ann
    that was amazing! my husband's going to love that too :)
    by holly_ann at 03/03/10 12:04AM
  • jodimn
    Impressive!
    by jodimn at 03/03/10 11:24AM
  • firebolt
    I love OkGo! :D
    by firebolt at 03/03/10 8:52PM
  • crazy_mama
    My girls LOVED it! They want to watch it over and over again.
    by crazy_mama at 03/04/10 10:26PM
  • julied93
    Just read your birth story; I'm so glad everything went so well! He's precious!
    by julied93 at 03/07/10 4:47PM

say hi to Thomas Arthur.

Cute 04

21 inches 8 lbs.
this is Dan writing for Heather,
sorry it's not more detailed.
please look here for more.
  • juliamiriam
    Congrats! :) He is adorable! :)
    by juliamiriam at 02/16/10 3:21PM
  • dawnmk23
    Happy Birthday! And so happy for your new bundle of joy!
    by dawnmk23 at 02/16/10 3:58PM
  • sallyanne
    Happy Birthday Heather!!!!!
    And Happy Birth Day Thomas ;)
    by sallyanne at 02/16/10 4:27PM
  • holly_ann
    Yippee! What a cute baby!
    by holly_ann at 02/16/10 4:53PM
  • planethead
    Congratulations!
    by planethead at 02/16/10 6:44PM
  • lastoflakewood
    Congrats!
    by lastoflakewood at 02/16/10 7:08PM
  • robynbobm
    Congratulations, he is so cute with his head of hair!
    by robynbobm at 02/16/10 7:13PM
  • emilygraham
    congrats
    by emilygraham at 02/16/10 7:19PM
  • rachel
    hi Thomas Arthur!
    by rachel at 02/16/10 9:30PM
  • crystalized
    Congrats! What an adorable #2 boy!!! :-)
    by crystalized at 02/17/10 12:12AM
  • marla
    Congratulations!! :-) (And happy birthday, a little late! :-)
    by marla at 02/17/10 7:55AM
  • sweet_texan_megan
    Congratulations! He's beautiful!!!
    by sweet_texan_megan at 02/17/10 12:33PM
  • jenfc00
    Congrats he is a cutie! Love his name!
    by jenfc00 at 02/17/10 2:05PM
  • whipsmile
    oh wow!
    Congrats to all of you!!!
    by whipsmile at 02/17/10 2:36PM
  • jodimn
    Huge congrats to you! I told Andy that I was just sure you were having an Alice and according to my track record that guaranteed that you were having a boy! Jack and Thomas will be great friends. Love you.
    by jodimn at 02/17/10 4:59PM
  • raifhaus
    The sisters here all think Thomas looks much older than he is! "So big! So round!" ;)
    And they just LOVE his dark hair...
    by raifhaus at 02/17/10 7:47PM
  • thewifeofbud
    Congrats! He is perfect!
    by thewifeofbud at 02/17/10 10:03PM
  • ktcasebolt
    Congratulations!! :) He's just adorable!
    by ktcasebolt at 02/19/10 7:38PM
  • kiss_the_rain
    Awwwww!!!
    by kiss_the_rain at 02/22/10 4:02PM
  • cherri
    YAY!
    by cherri at 03/02/10 3:46PM

Snowy snow

Well, we're getting all of that snow that everyone south of us has been talking about! Pretty much everything has shut down around here, and I don't expect to have bible study tonight - although with Daniel and I living next door, we are here to walk right over in case anyone braves the storm. Daniel and Jack just went out to play in the snow before the wind picks up too much. They invited me to go, but I politely declined, saying that I didn't feel like doing very much romping these days. Mostly, I just feel like "rumping" - sitting around on mine anyways. ;) Not much to do around here. I have a few sewing projects to work on - I ALWAYS do, really, and we need to do taxes. :P Both of those things require the sleeping or absence of Jack though. I'm trying to mostly sleep when he sleeps so I can get extra rest while I can. So we're mostly just waiting for baby! It's getting hard to be patient.

Oh - here are some Jack funnies:
Jack now frequently requests his two favorite musical groups - CCR (Credence Clearwater Revival for the ignorant), and the Beatles. He also will tell you when he hears "Rock and Roll" and has become quite adept at noting when Bob Dylan goes into his later more rock-like genre as opposed to his earlier folk music. He is his Daddy's son!

He frequently pats my belly and says, "Baby out!" Oh if only that worked! :)

With the acquisition of more sophisticated verbal skills, Jack is now able to express his wishes and desires with much greater precision. Along with this has come the frustrating realization that he can't always have his way, no matter how wonderfully he tells us what he wants. We're working a lot on being "happy and content". The other day, he reminded me of little Maleia, praying to be a "happy 'tent". :) Anyway, he's a fun kid as always... keeps us very busy and amused!

I have chili in the crockpot for dinner. Yum! Perfect day for it.

Enjoy your snow day today if you have one!
  • marmee
    We do. I'm hibernating. It's pretty, but I don't need to romp in it either! :) Praying baby comes soon to your house! :)
    by marmee at 02/10/10 10:32AM
  • mjintexas
    Hilarious about Jack's musical knowledge!

    Hmmm... chili sounds really good, actually...
    by mjintexas at 02/10/10 10:37AM
  • wifelet
    Our snow day was yesterday - I decided to take the day off, and spent much of it lying on the couch reading! We also finished up rearranging furniture in the nursery and started hanging up little bitty clothes. :)
    by wifelet at 02/10/10 11:43AM
  • laurar209
    We're enjoying "near blizzard conditions" from the warmth and loveliness of the indoors. I thought of you this morning when I looked out into the swirling snow... and thought, "I'm so glad we (most likely) won't need an ambulance or a midwife right now!"
    by laurar209 at 02/10/10 12:07PM
  • bradford_rebekah
    It is fun to hear kids absorb their parents taste and conversation. We've been house shopping for the last few months. Kami now goes around drawing floor plans, talking about square footage, and discusses cracks or holes in the wall. Of course coming from her it doesn't always make sense.
    by bradford_rebekah at 02/10/10 12:11PM
  • littlelamb
    My Liam is a Beatles fan, too. :) Just this morning I had to run back in the house for my bag after getting the kids in the car. When I came back out I found Liam riffling through the cds. This is a major no-no (not the cds, but actually not getting in his seat and attempting to buckle up) and so he got in trouble for it. Through the tears he asked, "Put Beatles on?"

    I hope the little one waits just a few more days so your midwife can get to you easily!
    by littlelamb at 02/10/10 1:25PM
  • cbonk
    We got 6-8" but around here it's not so much the raw amount that matters as if the wind blows after it falls - and it's really blowing now! I'm sure our attendance will be really low tonight. What a cute little guy Jack is. I wish we could see him again!
    by cbonk at 02/10/10 1:35PM
  • weekendsongservice
    you can go romping in the snow next time.
    by weekendsongservice at 02/10/10 2:35PM
  • asc
    Wish I could see some snow...86F right now with a heat index of 92F! Oh well, at least we had 10-15 days or so in January in which the weather was nice! Hope everything goes well with the baby and I look forward to seeing pictures and reading about the baby SOON!
    by asc at 02/10/10 3:30PM
  • isabeau_danjou
    But how does Jack feel about Bob's brief stint as a born-again Christian and his one or two albums of gospel music (most specifically, God Gave Names to All the Animals). :)
    by isabeau_danjou at 02/10/10 9:30PM
  • robynbobm
    rumping, hehe.
    Just rain way over here!
    by robynbobm at 02/11/10 2:10AM
  • crazy_mama
    I'll have you know that I only checked pleo tonight to see if you had your new little one. I will keep checking in on you. Oh and rumping...ha ha!
    by crazy_mama at 02/11/10 2:37AM
  • raifhaus
    How much snow now????? Thinking of you!!
    Told all the ladies that you're just watching the snow keep a coming...
    by raifhaus at 02/11/10 11:11AM
  • mel_ody
    Hi Heather! Hope your little one comes soon for you! :)
    I have a question about your Maya sling below! I have been looking to make one (I'm new to sewing - got a machine for Xmas). My 2nd child is super attached to me right now and wants to be held rather than sit in her car seat or stroller when we're out and about. Anyways, I was looking on line for patterns and was curious how the Maya sits on the shoulder. Is it comfortable? And is it easy to make? The folds sounds kind of complicated. I saw a pretty simple pattern for the SlingMeMommy, but the Maya seems to be the well-known one mentioned by everyone. I was wondering if it was because it is more comfortable to wear than others.
    Yours looks beautiful by the way! :)
    by mel_ody at 02/12/10 10:13AM
  • mel_ody
    Thanks a lot for the link! I actually came across her site earlier today and I ordered the rings from the place she recommended and I think I'll go with her pleated pattern. I also have a narrow shoulder and upper body so I'm going to go with your recommendation! No pressure though! :) Anything has to be better than holding her in my arms all the time! I'm pretty excited!
    by mel_ody at 02/12/10 10:00PM

Colorful Baby Projects

We've been trying to keep busy around here. It's hard not to think about the one big event looming ahead. :) FIVE MORE DAYS! (more or less)


All of my wool sweaters were accidentally shrunk in the wash two years ago. Oops. Anyway, in an effort to salvage them, I felted the sweaters, and I'm making baby pants out of them! Here's the first pair! They were SUPER easy to make actually - these are entirely made out of the sleeves and they only took me 30 minutes to cut out and sew up. I want to make sure these fit the new little one first, but I think I'm going to make a matching pair for Jack out of the body part of the sweater. Wool pants are wonderful for babies/toddlers because you can lanolize them and make them waterproof! I'm excited to start cutting out the rest of the pants!


And this is what Daniel has been doing to stay busy! He finished his quilt for Thomas/Alice yesterday afternoon and it looks FANTASTIC! I'm super impressed! He's also a really fast quilt maker! Taking out the wait time on the walking foot for the sewing machine we had to order, it only took him 1 1/2 weeks to make it.

Ok little one... we're waiting!
  • raifhaus
    Heather, those wool pants are just perfect. Now, how would you put the lanolin back into them? Really, just adorable, and so practical.
    And Daniel's quilt? Just right!! Love your ways of keeping productively and creatively busy (as if you didn't have enough to do already!!)
    by raifhaus at 02/08/10 5:44PM
  • ootda
    too cute! Another use for ruined sweaters is toss pillows!
    by ootda at 02/08/10 6:07PM
  • dawnmk23
    I love them! I was just watching Sewing With Nancy on PBS tonight, and they had some "Green" projects- all of them we made out of old wool sweaters that were felted! I missed the part about how to felt wool?
    by dawnmk23 at 02/08/10 6:48PM
  • lynny
    Love the pants!
    by lynny at 02/08/10 6:55PM
  • flowerchild82
    What a pretty quilt!
    by flowerchild82 at 02/08/10 7:45PM
  • jaydon
    Love the sweater pants. I am very impressed with the quilt - wow! I started one when my before my first granddaughter was born and she is now 8 and it is still unfinished.
    by jaydon at 02/08/10 7:52PM
  • comade
    Love the projects. Enjoy the last couple of days!!!!!!!!
    by comade at 02/08/10 7:55PM
  • weekendsongservice
    heather, these pants are the CUTEST!
    by weekendsongservice at 02/08/10 8:59PM
  • marmee
    You all are so creative! Love that quilt! I think I'd like some of those pants ... do you make them in a ladies medium? :)
    by marmee at 02/08/10 9:13PM
  • sportsfan
    Wow you married a "true" handyman!!!!
    by sportsfan at 02/08/10 9:51PM
  • ladidodd
    the pants are tooooo cute!!! and im super impressed with the quilt! :) i cant wait to find out if you have an alice or a thomas :)
    by ladidodd at 02/08/10 10:22PM
  • robynbobm
    so neat!
    by robynbobm at 02/08/10 10:27PM
  • curlie
    Those pants are really cute!
    by curlie at 02/08/10 10:28PM
  • sarahphim
    What great projects!

    You are SO close! I am so jealous. :)
    by sarahphim at 02/08/10 10:29PM
  • mountainmama
    Those are great pants! You could make a little hat to match. I can't wait to see your new little one in those fancy pants!
    by mountainmama at 02/08/10 11:46PM
  • tommyswife
    Love them both! That hubby of yours has some great talent!
    by tommyswife at 02/09/10 7:55AM
  • crazy_mama
    Impressive talents you have! Amazing. Can't wait to see who will be wearing those pants. Soon!
    by crazy_mama at 02/09/10 8:45AM
  • ewalker
    I was hoping this was THE post :) Looking forward to seeing a picture of your baby!
    by ewalker at 02/09/10 11:18AM
  • laurar209
    What lovely projects! And creative too -- the pants are just too cute and I LOVE the quilt pattern! I'll have to show you my quilt material this weekend if I see you. I've been (slowly) cutting and sewing blocks together -- nothing big yet but at least individual blocks are getting done!
    by laurar209 at 02/09/10 3:13PM
  • mjintexas
    Wow, how creative and fun!!
    by mjintexas at 02/10/10 1:11AM