Prayer: I Will Ask God (Day 25)

Matthew 7:7 - 8

Today's quest is copied from the card. It's concise and logical in the thinking and I found it difficult to shorten.

Teaching: Prayer involves the whole you--a tongue that asks, eyes that seek, hands that knock. The promise that God will answer you is dependent on your having the urgent, expectant attitude that is described here. God answers the urgent pleas of the desperate not the casual or occasional requests of the self-sufficient. [There must be some emotion involved!]

Today: Test this promise. Write down the thing in your life that most merits God's attention. What are you asking Him to do? Is it in keeping with His will to give what you are asking? What reasons do you have for knocking on His door about this matter? How will you know when He has opened to you? What can you do to seek and find His fulfillment of your request? Having answered those questions, begin a daily campaign of asking, knocking and seeking to find if God's promise is true.

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I have a meaningful example of answered prayer. Years ago, when my children were small, I fervently prayed to be a better mother. My inadequacies were so evident. While praying, over a several month period, I read every child-raising book I could put my hands on, from James Dobson to Haim Ginott (if you know those authors, you know their approaches were light years apart). It was several years later when I realized that my prayer had been answered. I was still what I considered flawed, but had so much better a grasp on what it meant to be a "good parent." I took action as well, but there was no doubt God helped guide me through that quite intense research. Sometimes we have to have our eyes opened to prayers answered. An important prayer like mine does not bear fruit overnight. The picture above is my daughter and her children. I am so proud of her and her desire to be a good parent. (She and her husband now have five!)

I know this is a praying group, and I'd be very interested in examples of prayers and prayers answered.


P.S. In case you're wondering why a picture of family instead of someone praying.... I could not find any good pictures of prayer. 90% of them were either glittery or of children, and the rest were too sentimentalized, whereas I wanted an honest picture of prayer. Instead you see my answered prayer.
  • phyllisophical_mom
    LOVE LOVE LOVE this picture! (they are still that age aren't they?)
    by phyllisophical_mom at 03/17/10 1:37PM
  • mockinbird
    I seem to be doing alot more praying about my children now than when they were little. When they were young I felt (quite mistakenly I now realize) that I was in control of what they did. Of course as adults they are no longer obligated to listen to what I say and I find it hard when they do not take my wonderful, solid, flawless and clearly inspired advice. So I am finally forced to turn away from my own bloated ego and lay it all at God's feet. It's all I can do.
    by mockinbird at 03/17/10 3:17PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Wow, it's a pre-Shane picture! He's a really cool little guy. Love this picture...
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/17/10 8:17PM
  • rtlittlejohn
    Between the two, I'd take James Dobson over Haim Ginott any day!
    by rtlittlejohn at 03/18/10 1:24AM
  • anne
    Seeing our sons and their precious wives share their faith with their pajama-clad children before putting them down to bed at night, praying that their little ones will always love God, and praying for the families who are raising the children that their own children will one day marry...THOSE sights are our answered prayers.
    by anne at 03/18/10 11:56AM

Actions: I Will Love My Enemies (Day 24)

Matt 5:44-45

What a relief! After two days of wanting to crawl under the rug in shame, this one is easier for me. First of all, my "natural self" has a great tendency for love and forgiveness. Secondly, I have put into practice a habit of praying for those that hurt my feelings or slight me in some way. It's my belief that there is NO one, if you think of all aspects of their personality, that doesn't have some goodness in them. Even Hitler loved dogs, a love I share. In praying for an "enemy" I infuse my thoughts with good will and love toward them. It's astonishing how that changes my attitude permanently. I never again see them in the same way.

The card for today says: "Who is your enemy and why? If you've caused or contributed to the enmity ask his forgiveness regardless of whether he reciprocates. If the fault is not yours, show some active good will toward him today. Confront him with kindness. You've not fulfilled the charge to love your enemy by avoiding him. There is nothing passive about love -- it is an act. So choose actions that are becoming of a child of God."

Upon thinking about the above, I realized I didn't consider the notion of the people that I have perhaps wounded. I have a specific person in mind, and while this person is not exactly "an enemy," this will be hard. So much for the ease of today's assignment.


  • rtlittlejohn
    That is the biggest challenge of agape love - to love your enemies. I think that we need to put this in perspective and see that even God loved us when we were His enemies and sent Jesus to die for us.

    In that same manner is how we should love our enemies. When we love our enemies enough to tell them the truth of Jesus Christ, then we will understand the fulness of agape love.
    by rtlittlejohn at 03/15/10 3:27PM
  • sallyanne
    I honestly cannot think of one enemy--I am of the 'don't let the sun go down on your wrath' mindset to a fault. I don't like to have unresolved issues. So, I am less challenged by agape love than I am phileo love (I'm working on a blog on this topic so I won't elaborate--just to say that I'm talking about where we are called to have phileo love for those we may not have much affection for...).
    I am in full agreement that we can find some good in most anyone and I think that helps us to pray for them and, even more, to reach the lost by finding common ground and building bridges--so agape love comes easily to me...I won't get into what comes hard or I'll ruin my blog ;).
    by sallyanne at 03/15/10 7:57PM
  • tryphena
    I do have a few enemies, and I'm sure at some point I contributed to the enmity between us. I have tried to resolve those things, but it must not be God's time yet. An enemy isn't necessarily someone you hate; it might be someone who is doing things that you hate, or someone who hates what you are doing. In fact, I do love my enemies very much. I just need to remember to pray for them more.

    Along the same lines, I remember "heaping coals of fire" upon my enemies' heads...but not for the right reasons...now I need to learn to return good for evil for the RIGHT reasons!

    Thank you for the thoughts.
    by tryphena at 03/15/10 9:26PM
  • mockinbird
    I don't know if I am naive in thinking I have no enemies, at least none that I know of. There are some people I know who have in the past offended me or hurt my feelings. I have tried not to reciprocate and just "let it slide". Life is too short to hold a grudge, and I sure don't want that on my conscience come judgement day. As all things involved in living a christian life, forgiving and forgetting is something I hope people will do to me, so I better be doing it as well.
    by mockinbird at 03/16/10 4:42PM

Attitude: I Will Not Love the World (Day 23)

1 John 2:15-17

"Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever."

The question is asked: "What in this world do you love too much? Money? Attention? Pleasure? Power? Leisure? Football?" Think about what someone who is just an acquaintance would say about your interests.





For me, these roadblocks would be sewing, my chorus, and excessive computer use. No question. The quilting and time spent on chorus functions are easily planned and scheduled. This computer sits here, a welcome diversion at all times. I find myself when at odds with "what to do next," sitting down and checking e-mail or playing a game. My mother and I play "Word Twist" all the time (and she beats me!). That's a good thing, but there's too many other games that I'm attracted to there as well, that do nothing to move me toward spirituality or, as in the case with my mother who is relatively housebound, doing a good thing.

I'm outta here.
  • phyllisophical_mom
    Okay, that was direct, short and too the point Yes.Painful.Challenging.Deni ably.Difficult.Grabbing.Eye-Opening.Right-on.Deep.

    Going to go read my four chapters for the day!
    by phyllisophical_mom at 03/13/10 2:27PM
  • anne
    Well! So far, your upside-down wallpaper wins the Goof Award! Congratulations (?).

    I have found that turning my computer off when I'm done for a while keeps me from sitting down at it "for just a minute", which invariably turns into much more than that. Games don't interest me. It's all you Interesting People that keep me on here. Setting a kitchen timer also helps.
    by anne at 03/13/10 3:57PM
  • sallyanne
    Good thoughts. Very interesting picture :)
    I try to balance my emotions/priorities/time with things other than God-centered things well--but it takes effort to be careful not to put too much emphasis on the things of this world...I read a book one time in which a woman reminded herself to focus above by thinking this...dust and ashes...that's what this will all be. It put things in perspective for her and I've always remembered that when I need to look more above!
    by sallyanne at 03/13/10 10:08PM
  • tryphena
    #1 is computer use. It is a TOOL, not a life! It can be used for good or evil, and the choice is mine.
    by tryphena at 03/15/10 8:06AM
  • anne
    You're quite welcome for The Goof Award, as well as for the laugh. My upside down birds only came in second to your upside down wallpaper because somehow wallpaper seems more permanent than a shirt. Although, after looking in my closet...
    by anne at 03/15/10 10:53AM
  • anne
    Don't know if you saw it or not since it was on your earlier post, but I had a belated comment on your "Day 22."
    by anne at 03/15/10 10:55AM
  • anne
    Tumbleweeds: One day while driving home from Abilene, TX in the midst of the worst sandstorm we've had to drive in, we were headed west on the Interstate while we met dozens and dozens of tumbleweeds headed east, all racing madly along the edge of the inside lane. I was driving, of course (thanks to Jimmy's stomach virus). Turning off the Interstate onto farm land, I finally had to stop. Couldn't see past the hood of our car, and just HOPED no one would run into the back of us.
    by anne at 03/15/10 11:01AM
  • aleta
    Oh, you're welcome! I'm thrilled that it helped toward a gift! lol! That's the coolness of pleonast - it's so random and spontaneous and sometimes very helpful. Have a great day!
    by aleta at 03/15/10 11:24AM
  • anne
    The same day as the Tumbleweed In Wal-Mart, Jimmy and I got out of our pick-up at Home Depot and as I picked up one foot to take a step, the wind blew that foot against my other leg.

    Those tumbleweeds do contribute to high walls between some farms where the "turn row" leaves dirt higher than the rows nearby, tumbleweeds catch on it, stick, catch blowing sand, drop their seeds, make more tumbleweeds which catch more blowing sand, and on and on. A friend of ours who raised hogs had dunes that shifted so much in sandstorms that the hogs could walk OVER the fences and escape. And his lost tools that had been covered over with sand were uncovered in subsequent sandstorms. And friends who bought a farm were surprised to discover they had a front sidewalk under layer after layer of blown sand...
    by anne at 03/15/10 2:28PM

Worship: I Will Give Cheerfully (Day 22)

2 Cor. 9:7

Make a quick list of expenses, then write down what you return to the Lord each week. Then look at each item on your list and think about what benefits you'll receive from each 100 years from now. "Does your giving reflect faith in God's promise that you will reap what you sow?"




This is an area that's both easy and hard for me. I tend to be one of the "head in the sand" people with money. I don't want to pay attention to it, and have to continually fight the impulse to just buy whatever I think I need. Therefore, it would be easy for me to impulsively put a whole paycheck worth into the collection plate, and then not have money for rent. That's not what God intends for us, and in His wisdom, has paired me with a wonderful husband who is very good at handling money. It's all about stewardship, whether you have a lot or little. The "hard" part is that I could just have easily spent a whole paycheck on books or something else that struck my fancy, without planning ahead as to what I would give back to God.

God wants us to plan, to give to him from a generous and aware heart. There's much said in these days that the "reaping and sowing" part means that if you give to God, you'll get MONEY back! While I agree that the Universe tends to give us back what we send out into it (read Ralph Waldo Emerson's essay on Compensation), God's idea is an abundance of joy, I believe. Our reaping bountifully is receiving in abundance the real values in life: friendship, love, safety, happiness, and an increase in hope and godliness. These are things that follow closely a giving and an abundant heart.

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If you've been reading my entries on the "30 days to a more spiritual life," you know there's been a big gap here. After the trip to California, I made one entry after I decided to pick up just where I left off. Then in cleaning off my desk, I inadvertently threw away the rest of the cards from the 22nd to the end, and had to wait till I got a replacement pack! God blesses me with great capacity for losing things.
  • sallyanne
    My husband brings in the money and gives of that same money. I try to 'give back' of myself since I am not in charge of the finances...I also try to be a good steward of the household money that we have designated.

    Good thougths above...I'm glad you got a replacement pack!
    by sallyanne at 03/11/10 12:53PM
  • joc
    Some very good thoughts. I guess that each purchase we make, we should ask ourselves if this is the very best we can do with the money God has so richly blessed us with.
    That would certainly make me pay attention why I buy the things I do, and maybe use more of our means to help the kingdom grow.
    by joc at 03/11/10 5:06PM
  • mockinbird
    OK! OK! I'll take back the Blackberry and get the one for a penny.
    by mockinbird at 03/11/10 6:28PM
  • joc
    Very good things to think on. Thanks for the comment. We had just gotten home from church last Sunday afternoon and Alexis got so excited about the wild flowers. Pictures unplanned....I just grabbed my
    camera and started snapping. Wish I had been around a few days later when her mother found her in the yard with mud everywhere, including that long curly hair. She's a fun girl!
    by joc at 03/13/10 11:56AM

Eternity: I will prepare to Meet God (Day 21)

Amos 4:12 “Therefore thus will I do to you, O Israel;
Because I will do this to you,
Prepare to meet your God, O Israel!”





Imagine you had an appointment with the president next week. What has already happened, and what will you do between now and then to prepare? Our preacher yesterday likened it to the preparation of a bride preparing for her wedding, which I think is a little easier to imagine. Most of us have seen that preparation, and how fervent and concentrated it is. He used Revelations 21 as his basis and the awareness there will be no impure souls there.

So today, as I take care of mundane tasks and small enjoyments, I will ponder on that important meeting, which is more imminent each day.

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Hebrews 12:18-29 (NKJV) "Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom which cannot be shaken, let us have grace, by which we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear. For our God is a consuming fire. "

Romans 2:5-10 "But in accordance with your hardness and your impenitent heart you are treasuring up for yourself wrath in the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God, who 'will render to each one according to his deeds': eternal life to those who by patient continuance in doing good seek for glory, honor, and immortality;.... "

Romans 14:10-12 "For it is written:
'As I live, says the Lord,
Every knee shall bow to Me,
And every tongue shall confess to God.'
then each of us shall give account of himself to God."

1 John 4:17 "Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world."

Revelation 11:18 "The nations were angry, and Your wrath has come,
And the time of the dead, that they should be judged,
And that You should reward Your servants the prophets and the saints,
And those who fear Your name, small and great,
And should destroy those who destroy the earth.”

I haven't quoted the whole passages here, as you have discovered. Instead I chose what I considered the most appropriate summary quote.
  • phyllisophical_mom
    How did your pondering go today? I liked your words with "mundane tasks and small enjoyments!" I had some of those today as well.
    I think my thinking on "preparing to meet God" is now as "daily" as it could be...it's more of a constant thing?
    Do you think that is enough...or should it be a more deeper daily thought?
    by phyllisophical_mom at 03/02/10 6:50PM
  • sallyanne
    I just caught up...missed reading these while I was away!
    by sallyanne at 03/03/10 7:03PM
  • granny
    A joy to come visit you. Beautiful thoughts. May we all prepare well!
    by granny at 03/04/10 12:18AM
  • phyllisophical_mom
    font color=purple Oh where oh where could my sister be....oh where oh where can she be?
    by phyllisophical_mom at 03/05/10 12:08PM
  • didow
    I've been way behind on reading everyone's posts. I've been missing some jewels here one your blog. Thanks for all the uplifting and motivating words.
    by didow at 03/07/10 4:37PM