The good and the bad

Not all things go according to plan. My brother got married... that was planned and good. However, after the wedding my parents, by sister and her family, Bonnie and I were all going to head down to Padre Island for some camping. Unfortunately, vows were not all that were given on Saturday, there was also a nasty virus (flu?). My brother's bride was sick, her brother and sister-in-law (who were also the photographers) and mother all were sick as well.

Bonnie and my dad woke up sick Sunday morning. My parents decided to head down to Padre Island anyway. I decided to head home. Sleeping in a tent with the flu did not sound fun to me. We made it to Kansas Sunday night, and I got sick during the night. So, Bonnie and I limped home today. Neither of us feels good, but we are happy to be home.

I just wish we had been able to go to Padre Island with the family!
  • chessman
    Sorry about the illness. Glad to see you active around here again :-)
    by chessman at 03/09/09 10:12PM
  • riptide
    feel better jared! we all passed that around at christmas. April thru May is my favorite time @ the beach.
    by riptide at 03/09/09 10:17PM
  • ktay
    I hope you both feel better soon!
    by ktay at 03/10/09 12:12AM
  • teathyme
    I'm so sorry that you are ill!

    That poor bride!!!!!!! What a way to spend your first few days as a married woman.
    by teathyme at 03/10/09 11:27AM
  • all_gods_children
    ewwww...that's awful! Especially during such a wonderful occasion! I hope you all feel better real soon!
    by all_gods_children at 03/10/09 3:01PM
  • jaimer
    I hope you are feeling 100% soon!
    by jaimer at 03/10/09 3:58PM
  • bryanharwell
    We've all had a round of sickness. I hope ya'll are doing better now.
    by bryanharwell at 03/14/09 11:50PM
  • jay
    sorry man! i hope you ARE FULLY RECOVERED
    by jay at 03/26/09 10:26AM
  • cdillman23
    Sorry for the sickies visiting you but glad you made it home safely and are feeling better now.
    by cdillman23 at 03/30/09 11:11AM
  • gkbaker
    Hope everyone's feeling better
    by gkbaker at 04/20/09 2:18PM
  • iamyourfather
    Hey, Jared. Haven't been ahold of you since FC. 12 years, yeesh, I'm getting old. This is Lucas Ward, by the way. Hope you and Bonnie are feeling better and that the last decade has been going well. Looking at the names on your friends list really takes me back a ways. Anyways, its nice to find you. I have fond memories of you and Bonnie.
    by iamyourfather at 07/21/09 5:42PM

Travelling

I am currently in Texas. I have been blessed to see my friends Josh Buckman, Scott Eversole and Renee Buckman (who is Bonnie's cousin).

I would share more, but I have a wedding to prepare for.
  • riptide
    have a great time, a lot warmer then CO ,:)
    by riptide at 03/05/09 11:22PM
  • teathyme
    I hope you have a lovely trip!
    by teathyme at 03/06/09 8:18AM
  • polaramy
    I am so sad that I didn't get to see you guys! Stinky sick little girl making me stay home with her...
    by polaramy at 03/06/09 10:28AM
  • all_gods_children
    Sounds like a great trip! :)
    by all_gods_children at 03/08/09 8:26PM

01/14/09 2:20PM

I wanted to share with you some of the things I am involved with this year:

Book of the month club - No, not things like Pride and Prejudice (that's Bonnie's department). Instead of doing a Bible in a year program, I started a Bible book of the month group. We focus on one book (or a few small books) and read that book as often as we can for a month. In addition, we get together for a casual discussion (sharing things we observed and questions we had) twice a month (we meet on the second and last Tuesday night). With read the Bible through in a year, the goal is to have read something. However, with this plan the goal is to know something. We had our first meeting last night and I thought it went wonderfully. It was great sitting in a room full of Christians who just wanted to talk about something they had been reading and thinking about from the Bible. This month we are reading First, Second and Third John. That is 7 chapters to focus on for 31 days. I highly recommend that you try this where you are at.

Photoclub - I love taking pictures, so I thought I would join with others who enjoy picture taking or want to learn more about it. We are getting together one Saturday a month to go some fun place and take pictures. Our first photo-outing is this Saturday.

Last year I tried to take one picture a day. That went great, but after my trip to Turkey and Greece (where I took 6,000 pictures), I was tired of my camera so I quit. This year I am going to make it a little more simple, and just shoot for 7 pictures a week (that way I don't have to set up everyday).

And that, is what I am doing differently this year.
  • dragonwriter
    Man, I wish we lived closer. I'd love to participate in the bible class (I guess you/we could do it online too) and learn from a developing master in photography to boot.
    by dragonwriter at 01/16/09 7:55AM
  • gkbaker
    That bible book of the month is an excellent idea
    by gkbaker at 01/19/09 7:02AM
  • create_a_way
    LOVE the book of the month club...i think I am going to try that!
    by create_a_way at 02/17/09 3:04PM
  • cdillman23
    I like the book of the month club!
    by cdillman23 at 03/04/09 11:06PM

And then there was the second study

I don't get JW's. I really just don't get them. Are they that dishonest or just that brainwashed?

We finished our examination of the word for "torment". Every time it was used in the New Testament, we agreed that it referred to pain, suffering, anguish or a struggle of some sort. Even in the book of Revelation that is what it meant, but as soon as we got to Revelation 20:10 where it refers to being tormented day and night forever and ever, it could not possibly mean pain or suffering or anything else there.

So we turned to Luke 16 and looked at Lazarus and the Rich man. Do you know why that can't be real? Because Abraham was there, and Abraham just couldn't be there. So I asked about the transfiguration, asking how it is that Moses and Elijah could be there but Abraham could not be referred to in Luke 16. His reply was that Moses and Elijah obviously were not there. It was all symbolic. So I turned to the passage (Mt. 17:3) - "And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Him". His response was that couldn't have been Moses and Elijah because the apostles recognized them. So I read it again, "Moses and Elijah appeared to them", and he said no they really didn't. When can a narrative (especially in the Gospels) be purely symbolic? If that is the case, why believe that Jesus was born? Why believe that He was tempted? Why believe that He ever spoke or even died? If narrative is symbolic then the Bible as a whole has no meaning or certainty.

So we went back to Lazarus and the rich man. He stated that Jesus did not say that they had died. So I read Luke 16:22 to him, "Now the poor man died...the rich man also died". To his credit, he didn't speak of them not dying anymore (even though he still held that they didn't really die because it is all symbolic).

When the JW first came to my door the main reason that was given for why there cannot be a hell is because God would not do that. So I asked whether Jesus was accurately describing God and justice when He described the rich man in anguish. I fear that this question went right over his head (or bounced off of a thick skull). How is it that God could never allow torment if Jesus describes the torment of the dead? Is Jesus lying to us? Is He trying to deceive us? The issue with the rich man and Lazarus is not just whether it is literal or not, it is whether it is accurate or has any practical meaning.

I was already done at this point. The moment that someone can read "Moses and Elijah appeared to them" and say that is not what happened is the moment that we have lost all possibility of rational reason or depending on the Bible. It would be one thing for an atheist to read that and deny it, but when a so-called Bible believer does that, what hope can there be?

I tried to ask him the question about whether he will still believe in the JW's after 2020 if Christ has not returned. It turns out, that while they do believe the 1920 book "Millions now living will never die" they apply their same inability to understand the simplest words to their own books as well. "Millions now living will never die" does not mean that millions who were alive when those words were written would never die. That isn't what it means, I was told. So, basically, it is a clear and concise sentence that does not mean what it says. The JW's torment me with their wrangling of words and distortions.

We had a pleasant closing conversation in which I warned him of the coming judgment. I warned him of approaching the Scriptures in this way. He said he wasn't worried, and I replied that I am. I believe that we should "work out our salvation with fear and trembling" (Phil. 2:12). We must accept the Bible for what it says even if it is saying something that we were not previously taught or something that we did not previously believe. Let us follow God and not some group of men, or our family or ourselves. "In humility receive the word implanted which is able to save your souls" (Jam. 2:21b)
  • joeduren
    I enjoy your JW post's. I don't know as much as you do about them but I've always heard they were stubborn. I actually never even had them approach me or come to the house before. All you can do is try.
    by joeduren at 12/02/08 3:59PM
  • holliback2
    i know how you feel. My dad use to have meetings with them when we were little and always complain how stubborn they are. But eventually though my dad came to be know in there group in Louisville. So are house was mark as not to come to anymore so i haven't had experience with them in a very long time.
    by holliback2 at 12/02/08 6:04PM
  • jaimer
    What I found most difficult when studying with JW's is that they use their own Translation of the Bible that skews things to support their teaching.
    by jaimer at 12/03/08 9:29AM
  • all_gods_children
    Plant the seed my Brother and pray it grows. :)
    by all_gods_children at 12/04/08 8:36PM
  • ktay
    I hope you and Bonnie feel better soon!
    by ktay at 12/08/08 12:05AM
  • create_a_way
    wow! Way to go! Right before I became a Christian, I ALMOST became a JW. I have a soft spot in my heart for them. Your reasoning is quite sound. And yes, I would very much like to see your notes. My email is in my post. Thanks JH!
    by create_a_way at 12/12/08 9:29PM
  • sjb
    I have had equally frustrating conversations with them (and LDS). I got to a point, too, where I felt like they couldn't be reasoned with. The study I had with the JWs ended with her saying, "It is so nice to see that you have such a firm belief, but we aren't really out here to study with people like you... we are reaching out to those who aren't as grounded as you are." What can you do but pray that you have done all you can. Good for you for taking it on.
    by sjb at 12/13/08 8:40PM
  • cdillman23
    I think that 2 is normally the limit on visits we have had with them.
    by cdillman23 at 12/22/08 2:02PM
  • jay
    Sorry brother. The guy I am studying with wasn't alwyas a JW, but his wife is third generation. It is easy to discuss things with him. His family though . . . that's a different story. They have "reported" me to their elders. He is questioning, they are brainwashed, and don't want to change. ANYWAY!! Merry Christmas tyou and yours amigo!
    by jay at 12/25/08 11:22AM

Zoo

I took a quick trip to the zoo today to take some pictures. The lighting wasn't very good so I was not expecting to get many good pictures. However, the animals cooperated wonderfully. The wolves actually were visible (first time I had seen them up close) and that made my day. I was pretty happy with some of the pictures I was able to get. You can see some of them by going to my flickr page linked to the left as "Photo Gallery"

Bonnie comes home tomorrow! I have missed her and look forward to getting her... I don't look forward to being at the airport however. At least I am picking her up rather than dropping her off though!
  • polaramy
    Those pictures are great - the wolf one if just gorgeous! Did you say that picture was actually taken through a window? Your zoo must have cleaner windows than ours does.
    by polaramy at 11/26/08 7:11AM
  • sarahphim
    Wow! You're pictures are fabulous!

    Yay for getting Bonnie back! :)
    by sarahphim at 11/26/08 6:01PM
  • jay
    I love the zoo! Those were some cool pics! I liked the skunk monkey skull:o). Hey my friend has been talking to me. He asks me quiestions and we just look them up in the Bible. Things seem to be going well. Lord willing, that will continue. I just thought I'd tell you thanks because I have talked to him before, but had not studied w/him on anything (in regard to JW) for at least a year. I just thought he wasn't interested. Your question came at a good time.
    by jay at 12/01/08 5:41PM