Your Opinion is Solicited

I need your help to solve a very crucial question between me and another person.

Adult Feet:

Generally attractive or unattractive?
Cute or Ugly?
Sexy or Gross?

You decide.

Be careful, though. You better side with me. There's a meal riding on the answers. Be honest. ANNNNNND, GO.

  • missysnapp
    I can't say, because that would reveal who has which opinion. Vote, Kim. VOTE!
    by missysnapp at 01/11/10 11:27AM
  • kingslh
    Unattractive
    by kingslh at 01/11/10 11:42AM
  • kimberlyharbaugh
    My feet are bony and ugly, with loooooooooooong toes and a space big enough to fit a whole other toe. When I see others feet, they ALWAYS look WAY more attractive than mine, sooooooooooo, in general, most peoples feet are attractive, cute and sexy.
    by kimberlyharbaugh at 01/11/10 12:13PM
  • scrappyhappymama
    Adult feet right after a spa pedicure= tolerably acceptable for viewing by others and flip flop wearing. Otherwise, generally unattractive IMO.
    by scrappyhappymama at 01/11/10 12:50PM
  • ed
    haha...this is a HUGE running joke for us with the Australians. None of them can get over how beautiful my feet are....they comment on it ALOT....it's creepy. The only thing we can work out is that australians where flip flops or go barefoot year round, so their feet get pretty ragged. mine were relatively protected til i moved here, so they look great in comparison....whatever. you see alot of feet here in OZ, i have to say....i'm pretty down with it.
    by ed at 01/11/10 5:58PM
  • kristiegore
    Some have cute feet and some don't. Men generally have not so cute feet though because they're hairy and hairiness grosses me out. Some girls have cute feet though, I guess.
    by kristiegore at 01/11/10 6:01PM
  • kt80
    Three questions: Are we talking about hygiene or looks? Men's feet or women's? And are you arguing with a man or woman?

    Looks: Most of men's look gross; women's are about half and half (have you ever been getting a pedicure and looked around at the other feet? Wow. I could never have that job).

    Hygiene: Gross all around. Nail fungus, plantar warts, athlete's foot, sweat (and the bacteria that loves the sweat and makes them stinky)...

    See also: Shoes on or off?


    Perspective: Women are more likely to think they are gross. But I know lots of guys with a "thing" for feet. I even know guys who are distracted by "toe cleavage" because it reminds them of the other kind of cleavage (toe cleavage is when your shoe doesn't cover all the way to the end of your toes and you can see a little bit of the crack between your big toe the next one).

    by kt80 at 01/11/10 6:22PM
  • wafflemouse
    Kid feet: cute. Lady feet: cute. Man feet: ugly, yet tolerable.
    by wafflemouse at 01/11/10 6:27PM
  • kimberlyharbaugh
    Wow, this reading is entertaining. I learned something, I have toe cleavage, maybe long toes ain't so bad. This just cracks me up.
    by kimberlyharbaugh at 01/11/10 7:00PM
  • lydiasmother
    1. unattractive
    2. ugly
    3. gross
    and 4th stinky!

    I do appreciate you being specific about it being ADULT and not childrens feet, or elderly feet.
    by lydiasmother at 01/11/10 8:45PM
  • lydiasmother
    toe cleavage? I need to see that! LOL
    by lydiasmother at 01/11/10 8:47PM
  • joyfulsong
    Do WE get the free meal if we answer right? I don't really think about feet much. I'm just thankful I have two of them that work.
    by joyfulsong at 01/11/10 10:44PM
  • joyfulsong
    Let me add this: Rom. 10:15 - "How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the gospel of peace, Who bring glad tidings of good things!" So I guess it depends on whether you are preaching the gospel or not. :)
    by joyfulsong at 01/11/10 11:39PM
  • aimeepickup
    Men's feet--- generally gross. Old people feet----generally gross with thick yellow toenails. Women's feet--- usually okay, especially if they get pedicures. Baby feet-----gorgeous. I am not grossed out by feet but neither would I want a job handling them all the time. Ha!
    by aimeepickup at 01/12/10 5:24AM
  • jkmram
    Sounds great. :o) Glad to know you are working on it, too. The kids complain a LOT about the memorizing, but I have gotten so many great benefits out of it that I want them to see that side of it. I wish I had started sooner!

    I don't remember if I have asked you this before or not... but, why do you start from the end?
    by jkmram at 01/12/10 7:39AM
  • chooselove
    generally i would not call adult feet cute, or attractive, though i am not of the opinion that they are utterly heinous looking either. and some people do have nice feet, so i'd lean more towards the fan of feet side.

    but unless i'm remembering all wrong, i think you once told me that you love pictures of feet, so i'd guess you're a fan, too.

    either way, i'm not in the state to claim the meal the question is riding on, so....no worries if i'm wrong.
    by chooselove at 01/12/10 1:49PM
  • marmee
    Depends on the feet. Baby feet are always attractive and cute. My dh thinks I have cute feet. I happen to like his feet. This doesn't help you at all. I'll take the next question, please. :)
    by marmee at 01/12/10 2:31PM
  • ericsgal
    haha! it seems that we are very opinionated on the highly important topic of feet! hairy feet are disgusting. baby feet are kissable and pure sweetness. some women have sexy feet if they are well kept. but, if we are trying to make a generalization, i would say that feet are generally unattractive. most men have gross feet. lots of women do not keep neat feet. most old feet are not pleasant. all babies have wonderful feet. maybe you need a vinn diagram.
    by ericsgal at 01/14/10 4:17PM
  • gmfck
    HEY IT'S ME FRANKLIN-GMFCK!
    by gmfck at 02/01/10 3:19PM
  • sonic
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    by sonic at 02/01/10 6:37PM

Joy and Nostalgia

Tonight is a night of feeling things. The joy in the house was popping from room to room and child to child as Todd put up our outside white lights. The kids were running around like giddy school girls in the yard, passing him things, offering help. Even Jenna grabbed a random grocery sack and slung it over her arm, declaring "I'm helping Daddy, Mama. I help." What she doesn't know won't hurt her. We finally got smart and replaced the 6 year old lights that caused weeping and gnashing of teeth each year. Strangely enough, the new ones went up in less than an hour without any consternation. At the end of the process, Brady declared them "very, very beautiful." And Christmas has come to the Snapp house.

But on the other hand, I have the very pervasive feeling that I will soon be saluting my very ancient, very honorable, very loved grandfather one final time. He fell yesterday morning at 3 a.m. while getting up to use the restroom. That fall caused him to break his arm just below the shoulder socket in a very nasty way. And he laid there for 10 hours until another very ancient man sent someone to his room, because he hadn't shown up for breakfast or lunch. That part of the story makes me as sad as anything. That he laid there for 10 hours unable to move and not quite lucid enough to yank the cord in his bathroom that would bring him some help. He's having surgery tomorrow, which the doctors do not want to do and don't think he's up for. But the other option is to live in extreme discomfort for a long time and lose the use of that arm. This is aging. You don't make it to 94 without some stumbling, I suppose. He's ready to go. He hasn't been truly in this world since my grandmother passed nearly 2 years ago.

So for now, we will look with joy on our lights, and wait anxiously to see what the next week holds. Family comes on Monday night, which is very good.

And through it all, I think to myself: There just aren't enough hours in the day for holiday Hallmark movies. Man.
  • curlie
    HUGS
    by curlie at 12/17/09 9:39PM
  • textilet
    Aww. Thinking of you guys!
    by textilet at 12/17/09 11:27PM
  • crazy_mama
    That just breaks my heart to hear that he just laid there like that. So sad. Is this your dad's dad or your mom's?
    by crazy_mama at 12/18/09 12:00AM
  • joyfulsong
    That is so sad. He's such a good man. I'm praying for him. I fear that will happen to my dad one day since he lives alone and refuses to wear one of those medical alert things. Hopefully not. I know a woman that fell and laid in her house for a day and 1/2 before she was found. She's OK now and living in a nursing home.
    by joyfulsong at 12/18/09 9:18AM
  • lydiasmother
    I am very sorry and feel terrible that he did lay there not knowing if someone was going to come. I sure hope the surgery goes well and he will heal, will keep your family in my thoughts. Thankful for that other person that came.
    by lydiasmother at 12/18/09 11:30AM
  • rainout
    awww...your poor grandfather, hope he has less pain soon!
    by rainout at 12/18/09 11:34AM
  • kristiegore
    I love Christmas lights but we didn't put any up at our house, in fact we didn't even get a Christmas tree, I figured why spend the money and go to the trouble if we'll be in FL...I'll just enjoy my moms Christmas decorations instead.

    I'm sorry about your grandpa, it's hard to know what to pray for sometimes when they get to that point, I will be praying for him though and all of you guys.
    by kristiegore at 12/18/09 1:35PM

Here's your chance to be opinionated.

I never watched holiday movies as a kid. We watched the half hour kiddie specials, but never the full feature films that many of you rave about. I have never seen White Christmas. I only saw It's a Wonderful Life by accident as a high school student because I was sick in bed. I'm the one that told the rest of my family about it and they had never heard of it. Maybe people didn't watch as much tv back then. Not sure. Maybe we just were in a cave. Either way, I'd like to ramp up now and see some good holiday movies.

Tell me:
What's your all time favorite holiday movie and why?
Which ones would be good for family viewing (kids are small...) and which are over their heads?

I'd like to have a Top Ten MUST See list.

Thanks.

Not on the list:
The Dora episode with the Coqui Frog. I am about ready to take a shovel to my head...or Dora's.

  • maddieandiansmama
    My kids laugh at me because I can't stand most of the kiddie holiday movies - because I don't like claymation or the stop motion animation. Those little felt people bother me! They also think I am nuts because I can't stand movies with dwarfs or people wearing ape suits (Planet of the Apes). Probably more info than you really needed.

    As for favorite Christmas movies - White Christmas. I love Bing Crosby! A Charlie Brown Christmas is also a favorite.
    by maddieandiansmama at 12/16/09 8:46AM
  • textilet
    We lived in that cave, too, Missy!

    There are several versions of A Christmas Carol. I've heard the one that is out now is not really for children, but there are others more appropriate. This is a classic theme they should know about.

    As far as kiddie christmas, my very favorite was Rudolph. I related to the misfit toys, I think. We all love Charlie Brown, good music, too.

    I'm a little twisted, so I like Christmas Vacation. I also like Christmas with the Kranks and Elf and A Christmas Story. I wouldn't recommend any for young kids. The Santa Clause had some cute elements, but it is always about divorced parents - why are they always about divorced parents? White Christmas and another similar one is good, but your kids might not sit and watch it unless they enjoy random singing of old corny tunes.

    I don't think I've been much help! haha
    by textilet at 12/16/09 9:01AM
  • isabeau_danjou
    A Muppet Christmas Carol, for sure. Nightmare before Christmas (good for Christmas OR Halloween). And I have always thought of While You Were Sleeping as a Christmas movie because it is set during Christmas...but I watch that one several times a year, year round. :)
    by isabeau_danjou at 12/16/09 9:34AM
  • nthnswmn
    I'll shout out a warning regarding A Christmas Story. It has been awhile since I'd seen it and we were watching it through Netflix. Mistake! It had a lot of cursing in just the first 10 minutes. If you have the tv guardian you could pull it off. It's a funny movie.

    We all enjoy The Muppet Christmas Carol. I personally love White Christmas.
    by nthnswmn at 12/16/09 9:36AM
  • joyfulsong
    We watch It's a wonderful Life every year and I cry every time when the old drunk druggist hits the little boy(George) and he begs "Please don't hit my sore ear again!" And at the end when people rally around to help George when he's in trouble. There are so many lessons to be learned from this story. I love Elf. The "How the Grinch stole Christmas" (cartoon version) is also good.
    by joyfulsong at 12/16/09 9:40AM
  • chooselove
    The Polar Express.
    & Elf.
    by chooselove at 12/16/09 10:11AM
  • jkmram
    Miracle on 34th St. (1947) I love the remastered, color version Amazon has now for $7.99.
    Anthony can't live without Dr. Seuss' How The Grinch Stole Christmas, (2000). This is Jim Carrey's version, and though I don't much like most of his films, this one is pretty funny. There is one scene you'll probably want to ff through... where the Grinch has the mayor - while sleeping - kiss his dog's rear end.
    by jkmram at 12/16/09 10:24AM
  • kt80
    The original cartoon Grinch.

    The edited-for-tv version of Christmas Story.
    by kt80 at 12/16/09 10:55AM
  • SaraJones
    The Muppet Christmas Carol--a yearly favorite, great for the whole family.
    Holiday Inn--Bing Crosby yumminess....whole family
    White Christmas--Nothing is better...whole family
    Little Women (the one w, Winona Rider)...whole family
    The Polar Express....whole family
    Elf....we watched this with the kids and did not find it problematic, but we have looser boundaries than some.
    A Christmas Story.....love it, language is an issue, but themes are terribly funny!
    It's A Wonderful Life, sweet for the whole family
    by SaraJones at 12/16/09 11:41AM
  • aimeepickup
    It's a Wonderful Life (OUR VERY VERY FAVORITE)
    How the Grinch Stole Christmas (the original cartoon)
    Home Alone (one and two)
    I personally really, really HATE a Christmas Story. I don't think there is anything funny about that bratty kid and the gross humor and bad language.
    by aimeepickup at 12/16/09 12:34PM
  • textilet
    Hmm. Now I remember why I shouldn't recommend movies or books. We certainly had the edited version of A Christmas Story or we never would have watched it or let the kids watch it.
    by textilet at 12/16/09 1:30PM
  • rainout
    Elf is funny, White Christmas and Holiday Inn are classic! I like the Grinch too. Just watched It's a Wonderful Life and it wasn't near as painful as I remembered. I thought it was like 3 hours -- maybe this was the TV version?
    by rainout at 12/16/09 2:23PM
  • kimberlyharbaugh
    Oh man, how can that be??? Growing up it was always, Holiday Inn, White Christmas, The Bishops wife (remake was The Preacher's Wife with Denzel Washington), Miracle on 34th St. with Natalie Wood, It's A Wonderful Life, Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, The Grinch and Frosty the Snowman. No peticular order. EVERY year, always those.
    by kimberlyharbaugh at 12/16/09 4:23PM
  • doodleallthe
    I have always loved the Little House on the Prairie show, and there are two Christmas episodes that always get to me. One is from the very beginning of the series (with Mr. Edwards), and another involves Laura and her horse (love this one). Ever seen these?

    by doodleallthe at 12/17/09 9:11AM
  • doodleallthe
    OK, it was the pilot and the Christmas at Plum Creek episodes.
    by doodleallthe at 12/17/09 9:26AM
  • joyfulsong
    I love the "Little Women" with Winona Ryder too.
    by joyfulsong at 12/17/09 1:38PM
  • shawnsgirl1
    Yes, seven :)
    by shawnsgirl1 at 12/17/09 3:04PM
  • ericsgal
    Elf, The Grinch (Jim Carey version), White Christmas, miracle on 34th street, and Polar Express. - my whole family enjoys all of these! We laugh the hardest in Elf. And if you want to cry, watch Little Women. We do watch these on our clear play, but I think several of them don't need it. Check out the reviews on screenit.com I know the grinch has a very brief boobie scene I'm NOT fond of that I think the clearplay doesn't cut out. Happy holiday movie watching!!!
    by ericsgal at 12/17/09 6:26PM

How Soon I Forget

I choose to forget incidents like finding the open-capped Sharpie pen and the path of destruction created by permanent ink and a wily 20-month-old. I do still remember this, as it happened Thursday, but I hope I never forget the really glorious moments. Here's a clip from almost 3 years ago. I truly had forgotten how adorable Brady's voice was at age 2. He does a bang-up British accent, too.

Mmm.


  • lydiasmother
    We all need a pause button!!!! They grow to fast:( Sweet babies.
    by lydiasmother at 10/18/09 9:43PM
  • joyfulsong
    Ah-dorable! I don't remember ever seeing that one. Thanks. :)
    by joyfulsong at 10/19/09 8:51AM
  • scline
    So cute!
    by scline at 10/19/09 1:28PM
  • kristiegore
    This is how he was when I left FL and how I will always remember him...my little Brady, I miss him.
    by kristiegore at 10/19/09 4:43PM
  • kimberlyharbaugh
    Oh my, that is just too sweet. Don't you just wish you could rewind life sometimes? And Lucy, so tiny. :)
    by kimberlyharbaugh at 10/19/09 8:43PM
  • alegna
    yes, they are pretty good buds! They are 18 months apart- how close are your girls? I'm glad to hear you say it keeps getting better- the first 8 months or so were TOUGH!!
    by alegna at 10/19/09 11:08PM
  • joy_hawthorne
    I am just blown away by how fast little people grow up. Such a cute clip. Thanks for sharing!
    by joy_hawthorne at 10/19/09 11:31PM
  • tortilla
    oh he is soooo cute. gotta love those sharpies! i keep mine way up high but an occasional determined child who'd like a beating sometimes gets to one....
    by tortilla at 10/20/09 2:05AM
  • ericsgal
    ahhhhh, he is precious and so is jenna bouncing and talking in her jumper!!! ack! what in the world did you do? paint? the precious moments definitely make up for the yucky ones...i think? i'm really not sure because Saturday we had a long lost cousin come for a surprise visit and while he was here mattiejo took off her diaper, pooped, and then proceeded to smear it all over her clean sheets, her brand new handmade by my mother quilt, and herself (including IN her mouth). y u c k. hmmmm...maybe it might make me feel better to see sharpie on your walls? a sharpie video? hmmmm?
    by ericsgal at 10/20/09 4:43PM
  • crazy_mama
    Her name is Abbey Saxton. She lives in Lithia. She did Maleia and Malachi's birth pictures. She is amazing. She didn't do the retreat pictures from last year but she was supposed to do them this year. She is now a good friend of ours and we are working on her coming to church soon. She is due with her first baby next month and her and her husband are looking for a church. She is going to slow down on the photography when her daughter arrives. Anyway, we love her and love her work!
    by crazy_mama at 10/20/09 7:57PM
  • ericsgal
    of course it's lucy - i just didn't take the time to do the math...too busy cleaning up poop and such, i guess! ;-) regardless, it's very nice to know that she outgrew the nasty habit and that my child is not the only one who has ever done that. ugh!
    by ericsgal at 10/20/09 9:41PM
  • textilet
    I know, Ican't help feeling like he's coming especially for us!
    by textilet at 10/21/09 3:16PM
  • chooselove
    saddest part:

    this is all with directions (mapquest is horrid)
    AND
    an iPhone that has GPS built in.

    NOW you can Really feel sorry for me?
    by chooselove at 10/21/09 7:49PM
  • joyfulsong
    Franklin sent a chicken down the playscape slide today. :D As if they aren't tortured enough with the racoons.
    by joyfulsong at 10/25/09 9:51PM
  • joyfulsong
    "Jack and Jill went up a hill to fepa gel ob water." :D
    by joyfulsong at 10/25/09 9:58PM
  • joyfulsong
    It is getting close isn't it! We're excited too! We want another family photo. :)
    by joyfulsong at 10/26/09 2:44PM
  • chooselove
    missing you...
    by chooselove at 10/27/09 1:29PM
  • chooselove
    What is this "sleep" you speak of?
    by chooselove at 10/28/09 12:14AM
  • lydiasmother
    Hey I need to find out when Aldi brings in its produce and stuff like that---I hear that it is great tho--i have been there did not buy--but not impressed but when you are used to publix then it is a HUGE diff. but hey--I tell my self why be so narrow minded--I want to get a fruit/veggie co=op going. and then there are some co-ops that buy a side of a cow and then devide it it is to be cheaper--just ideas!
    by lydiasmother at 10/29/09 10:17PM
  • scrappyhappymama
    Ha! Yes, one of our house rules is "no Hulk Smashing the baby!"
    by scrappyhappymama at 10/30/09 3:35PM

In case you have a few extra dollars sitting around...

Here's a note from the father of Josh McBryde. If you have a few extra bucks, this is a worthy cause. If not, don't sweat it. More soon from Indian Shores, FL.

To all those concerned:

I would like to extend my greatest and deepest appreciation for your caring thoughts and prayers at the recent loss of my son. Such a great loss is eased by such love and concern. My heart is lightened by your readiness to be moved so deeply and words cannot express how thankful I am, how humbled I am by your reaching out to me.

Josh did not take to flowers so much, so in lieu of flowers and because of the unexpected nature of the circumstances, a memorial fund has been established to help offset the funeral expenses. Donations may be made at any Alarion Bank or mailed to

Alarion Bank
2510 SE Maricamp Rd
Ocala, FL 34471

Checks should be made payable to Heather McBryde. Please denote account #130001142 or "Joshua McBryde memorial Fund" in the memo. If you need additional information, please contact Dalila @ Alarion Bank (352-547-1242).

My son's widow, Heather McBryde, also extends her deepest thanks and appreciation for your thoughtfulness and concern. Her own personal address is 5340 SE 108th Place in Belleview, FL 34420.

Thank you again for your effort and prayers put forth in reaching out to us during this time. Our hearts are truly touched. Many thanks and God bless.

With Deepest Sincerity,

Randall McBryde
  • elizabethk
    We went to the service tonight. It was a very touching and well thought out. There were a lot of people there and a lot of friends and classmates of Josh's and Heather's. Randy made sure to announce at the end of the service that everyone who was in the area on Sunday was invited back to worship services. It just goes to show how sincere he really is in all he says.
    by elizabethk at 07/30/09 9:15PM
  • lydiasmother
    :( I cannot imagine how heavy thier hearts are--- to bury thier son, such a tragedy. Pray for comfort for them!
    by lydiasmother at 07/30/09 11:31PM
  • momster
    This was such a tragedy...their family has had "more" than their share of grief over the years...praying for them.
    by momster at 07/31/09 7:43AM
  • elizabethk
    No, I don't know Heather. I'm really not sure how he met Heather. I'm thinking they may have met after he got back from his tours in Iraq. One of the speakers talked about how he wrote letters home while he was gone and they talked about his love for God, family and friends. He didn't mention Heather, so I kind of thought maybe they met afterwards. But, I'm not sure. We only got to see all the family from a distance. We didn't make it to the viewing before hand. But at the service as they all walked in, they appeared to be handling it. I saw Jamie and I think I saw Brittany, but not certain. I feel like she was, but that I might havve just overlooked her...I haven't seen her in a while. Anyway, I saw some tears from them during the service, but afterwards as we were leaving they were sitting there talking to family and appeared to be managing. I wanted to speak to them, but there just really wasn't an opportunity. From the number of people that were at the service, I know the family is being well taken care of during this VERY difficult time.
    by elizabethk at 07/31/09 10:18AM
  • nzmom
    Missy - thanks for sharing this.
    by nzmom at 07/31/09 10:59AM
  • mellymc
    That really is so sad! Shane went to the services and said they were beautiful. Such a good family!
    by mellymc at 07/31/09 9:00PM