Over the past 1.5 months we have been discussing an article I wrote entitled
1. The Vow Only Marriage. This article was brought about on the basis that what some teach concerning marriage and divorce very much reflect or really
is this doctrine. Beginning in April, Tim Haile and I began an email discussion. He read over my article and wrote a
2. Response to it. He asked me to post it here. After a week or so of discussion on his response I wrote another
3. Response.
I have recently asked Tim if he would like to continue in a different format. I will ask him 5 questions, upon answering he will give me 5 questions and so on. If he chooses to participate, I plan on continuing this for a few weeks. Then, I will leave the information we have gathered over about 2 months for your personal studies. I hope it has been beneficial. Once we do finish, a new subject will be posted for discussion. Here is the first set of questions:
1. Where can we find in the Scriptures, that if one leaves and cleaves (Gen. 2:24; Matt. 19:5; with the right intentions) at that point, they are married "before God" (ref.
Quick Answer #3)?
2. Where in the Scriptures does anyone even infer that leaving and cleaving are the sole requirements to be married "before God"?
3. I have shown in my
Response that the civil requirements to be married
DO NOT supersede God's requirements and therefore not in contradiction to Acts 5:29. That being understood, would not the obedience to the civil requirements fall under the category of God's requirements (Rom. 13; I Pet. 2; in other words, to be married before God, you must also be married "before man")?
4. Can an eligible man and woman commit (vow) to one another without a witness, without a marriage license, without officiation, move in together, and be married "before God"?
5. How do we "pick and choose" where Rom. 13 and I Pet. 2 should be applied?
(I would ask that we try to stay in defense of the Truth and not wasting time pointing fingers. I understand that the defense calls for us to point out where error is found, but not to the extent of losing sight on the subject. Just be moderate, Christ-like, and do everything with love (I Cor. 13).)