confused and need input

Preface: I ask this question not to try and divide, but to understand

Last night our new deacon emailed me (and everyone at church with an email) telling us about how the curriculum of the bible classes would change. The gest is a woman at church knows 2 women at another church who have a class plan for all kids K-12 and will come teach it to our church, at the building on a Monday night.

This greatly surprised me. When I joined this type of church, they were very careful on how we use the building. Everything had to be "authorized". I'm NOT trying to stir up problems. I simply do not understand. Also, I find it a bit odd that women will teach us what to teach. Why don't our elders do that? I was told by the deacon I asked that it's "OK because there will be no 'scriptural' teaching." but to me it will be. What's more spiritual than telling kids what to study? I'd worry about ANYONE coming in as a "committee" to do this, let alone a group of women.

I don't want to be alarmist at all. I know I see problems in the church far too often and should give people the benefit of the doubt. I just want to seek feedback because I don't want to go too far the other way and just sit on the back pew and let anything go.

I have just seen this before in the mainsream church. Let a woman or outside man come in and "speak" as a guest on an off day. That happens more often then it's a Wednesday night, then Sunday. I don't want to end up like the giant "church of Christ" down the road that let a Jewish psychiatrist/author lead the church on a Sunday night when I visited.
  • crysi
    Well, I'd have to agree with you. That is a little odd and does sound wrong to me too. If you have elders, they should be shepherding the flock as we read in the New Testament. Not really sure why the committee, there's no mention of a committee in the New Testament church.
    by crysi at 02/26/10 3:06PM
  • crysi
    And yes, on the verse. We all need to remember that verse everyday of our lives.
    by crysi at 02/26/10 3:07PM
  • sutherngirl
    Hi, no I haven't heard the minister you referred too. There are so many who have left the authority of our Lord. We have to remain on guard and continue to search the scriptures and try the spirits. We only have 3 members here since my children are grown and have moved away. We hope to set up studies and reach others in the community. I checked findthechurch.com and didn't see any churches listed around Nashville. I'm from west TN. We moved in 1998 to NC and then to SC in 2001 because of my husband's work. I really miss being near other Christians.
    by sutherngirl at 03/06/10 10:17AM
  • sutherngirl
    Have you been to Broadmoor church of Christ?
    by sutherngirl at 03/07/10 7:54AM
  • sutherngirl
    What is your definition of "mainstream"?
    by sutherngirl at 03/10/10 11:13AM
  • sutherngirl
    It's a popularity contest. You are probably right that we shouldn't use the term liberal and conservative. We are either walking with God or not. Matthew 7:13-14 Jesus stated, "Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leads to destruction, and many therebe which go in thereat. Because strait is the gate and narrow is the way which leadeth to life, and few there be that find it."
    by sutherngirl at 03/11/10 6:29AM

great cover song

Linda Strawberry and Billy Corgan remake of a U.F.O. song from the Spun soundtrack.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFP_RKY4-WA&feature=related
  • phat_man
    Didn't see you at church tonight, I hope you're recovering well.
    by phat_man at 02/25/10 1:29AM

12/11/09 11:13PM

I never feel more alone than right after I go to church. Something has to change.
  • crysi
    I am so sorry. Anything I can do to help?
    by crysi at 12/12/09 7:30PM
  • tasteslikemonkey
    Thanks. I don't think so. I've spoken with the elders. They see it and say they see me really trying, but nothing helps. The marrieds just invite eachother to do things right in front of me like I'm not even there and our "singles" are... well there's no nice word for it. I'll start looking for new places when it warms a bit in Jan or Feb. It will be a chore because this was the only sound in doctrine church within an hour drive; That means I'll only be able to go Sunday mornings.
    Thanks, though.
    by tasteslikemonkey at 12/13/09 4:11PM
  • rtlittlejohn
    I'm familiar with a few preachers of the church in Nashville. In fact, Ron Mosby was the one who immersed me into Christ on June 11, 1970 when he held a gospel meeting in Aurora, IL. I don't know if Ron is still in Nashville or not. This was during the time when Gordon Pennock preached for us at Westside and his son George preached for the Eastside church in Aurora. I've known George for awhile, but I don't know if he is still preaching or not. George was in the Nashville area last I heard. Bob Davenport is on my Facebook list and is in Nashville. I'm a song leader myself, having gone to Florida College in the Dudy Walker era, and completing my Bachelor of Music degree at Western Kentucky University. I just stumbled onto this site through the Singing School group, and have completed a book yet to be published for song leaders in the church. We have too many song starters and not enough song leaders who can find their inner voice of their soul and can move a congregation to sing with their hearts. That is my problem within the church. If you see Bob Davenport, pass this information I've given you to him. He and I know each other from our FC and WKU days.
    by rtlittlejohn at 01/23/10 7:45AM
  • caty
    There are many churches in Chicago... Which one are you talking about? I got to W. 74th Street Church of Christ.
    by caty at 01/31/10 1:10PM

12/03/09 11:05AM

What is up with single women in the church? We have 3 at mine and they're all like 26-27 and the biggest witches you could ever imagine. They only talk to eachother and one married couple. They laugh, pass notes and talk in church. They refuse to sing and are just horrible. They're just the same at the bigger, much more liberal church down the road. I just don't get it. They even dress a good bit immodestly.

It just pisses me off. I'm the only relatively young single guy in the church in the whole city, yet I'm not a wild party guy so just overlooked. ugh.
  • moe
    thats not cool man
    by moe at 12/03/09 5:54PM

12/02/09 12:10AM

Prayers would be appreciated as I will soon have to talk with someone's father and/or elders about an issue. I also ask for prayers that I get invited to one of the Thursday night studies soon.
  • crysi
    Will be praying for ya =)
    by crysi at 12/02/09 8:41AM
  • moe
    my prayer is with you
    by moe at 12/02/09 3:45PM