Another New Entry So Soon!

I decided I need to update again to tell everyone how Wilson is doing after his right shoulder joint replacement. He had this done at the Hospital for Special Surgery in New York City three weeks ago yesterday. This time seems to be going even more smoothly than the left shoulder joint replacement in January of 1995. One of the reasons is, of course, there have been so many medical advancements and improvements since that time. When he had this surgery, he didn't have general anesthesia. They used a nerve block to deaden that shoulder and arm. He was only put into a light sleep during the surgery. The feeling came back from the block gradually - some of the tingling remained in his fingers for about 18 hours. This joint and socket is the 2009 model - the doctor said that the 2010 model wouldn't be out until at least 2012. He said "We're not like the car companies." :)

We came home from the hospital just two days later - Sunday afternoon. Lori went with us and did all the driving - the surgery was right in Manhatten! Wilson had some simple exercises to do on his own and then he saw the physical therapist for the first time that next Thursday. Since then he has been going three times a week - Monday, Wednesday and Friday. They are already able to move his arm higher and further out to the side than the doctor expected it to move by 6 weeks after the surgery. He (and the pt) have to be very careful for the first 6 weeks because it takes that long for the rotator cuff muscles to really heal and new bone to grow around the implants - the front muscle had to be removed during the surgery to allow access for taking out the old joint and socket and installing the new ones. Because of this, Wilson still has to wear his sling. They want to be sure that he doesn't make sudden movements with that arm - for instance, if something started to fall he might automatically reach out quickly to stop it. The sling is to keep him from making sudden moves with that arm and to remind him that he is not to lift anything with it.

He won't be able to drive either for about 6 weeks so, of course, I'm taking him to his PT appointments. He is needing less and less help with dressing. I'm amazed at how well he eats with his left hand - I don't think I could do nearly as well.

We're thankful for all the prayers for both of us. Please continue to pray for his healing and that I will stay healthy so that I am able to take care of him, do my jobs and all the jobs that he normally does. Our spiritual family is wonderful and we have had many offers of help. To this point, I have been able to do what needs to be done - we're thankful there has been no more snow after his surgery because I don't think I could clean the driveway. At first, when I couldn't leave Wilson and he wasn't able to go with me, Lori picked up grocery items that we needed. Kevin got some things at Sam's Club for us.

We are looking forward to a visit with Melaine and Tilly. Melaine's parents are bringing them from Memphis and will stay with us too. Our SC kids and grandkids plan to be here part of that time and stay a few more days after. They are spending the granddaughters' spring break with us! We're so excited and are looking forward to a lot of good family time. Of course, our local kids and grandsons will be here a lot too. We'll only be missing Eddie and Alyssa - but it will be a BIG miss!

Time to make breakfast and really get my day started...
  • aleta
    Enjoyed this update and hearing that your newer model hubby is doing so well! Looks like fun is in the making with family coming in. Enjoy!
    by aleta at 03/13/10 8:14AM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    We're thankful that Mr. Wilson is doing so well and excited that you'll be visiting with your family soon.
    by 7laughinghardmans at 03/13/10 8:24AM
  • ajsb
    So glad that Wilson is doing so well....Sounds like you will have a full house and I know you will love it...Just don't wear your self out ...love ya
    by ajsb at 03/13/10 11:22AM
  • snoopy
    actually, if you will remember, you did pretty well eating with just your left hand :)
    by snoopy at 03/13/10 1:44PM
  • lyndie
    Glad to hear an update on how Uncle Wilson is doing. I'd ask you to give him a hug for us, but that might not feel too good... but please tell him we've been thinking about him and keeping him in our prayers. And I'm glad you've got the help you need. I remember how hard it was after Daniel's foot surgeries and him not being able to leave the house or move much for several weeks. It's hard and having family to pitch in helps so much!

    Enjoy your time with all the family!! Love and miss you guys!
    by lyndie at 03/13/10 2:00PM
  • video_nana
    To "snoopy" - that was my left wrist - not my right one. :)
    by video_nana at 03/13/10 2:10PM
  • lizsmith
    So glad to hear how Wilson is getting along and at such a good pace. Praying for his complete recovery. It is amazing at what they can do today medically.
    by lizsmith at 03/13/10 6:56PM
  • snoopy
    oh yeah!
    by snoopy at 03/15/10 8:58AM
  • heidiw
    Wow! Glad that all went well with Wilson! Everybody seems to be having surgeries right about now! our family just got done having two in the last two weeks! (Which made for a VERY exhausted Heidi.... Doing all of Mom's usual jobs and my own was a little daunting! But we made it!) Miss you guys! I hope all continues to mend and that you enjoy time with you family! You are greatly loved!
    by heidiw at 03/16/10 2:09PM
  • motherofall
    I'm behind on pleo. I'm very glad to find and read this report. Tell Wilson "hello," and enjoy all your company! : ) I look forward to seeing you in May for Meghan's wedding.
    by motherofall at 03/20/10 9:25PM

It's Feeling Like Spring!

This week the weather has been gorgeous! I'm heading outside again to spend time cleaning out dead stems, leaves etc. from our perennials . I spent all day Tuesday outside and got things cleaned up in the front and the south side of the house. Now I need to work on the lakeside! Yesterday was physical therapy day for Wilson and the afternoon was spent cooking for us and a friend who recently had surgery. The rain is supposed to hold off till tomorrow so I need to get as much done today as possible.

Hope everyone has a good day.
  • aleta
    From several pleonastindications (a new word), the weather sounds very pleasant in several places up north. We have jumped from cold to muggy, but this weekend is supposed to be really nice. I was wondering how your hubby was doing after his surgery.
    by aleta at 03/11/10 10:20AM
  • lyndie
    We're having such beautiful weather here, too. I'm just itching to get out and dig in the dirt!!

    How's Uncle Wilson doing with his shoulder? I imagine the therapy's pretty rough.

    Enjoy all the garden work! I'm a little envious. :)

    by lyndie at 03/11/10 11:56AM
  • motherofall
    I love to picture you working. That's the way I always picture you - working. Blessing upon you, great lady.
    by motherofall at 03/12/10 8:06AM

A Snow For True Southerners...

This last snow was certainly my kind of snow! This is especially true since Lori, Wilson and I leave tomorrow afternoon on our drive to NYC for Wilson's shoulder replacement surgery on Friday.

He has pre-surgery testing and a physical exam scheduled for first thing Thursday morning so we need to go the day before in order to be sure to be there for his appointment. His surgery is scheduled for Friday at the Hospital For Special Surgery in Manhatten. They require the pre-surgical tests and exam to be done at the hospital there - he wasn't allowed to have them done locally. We will not know the time of the surgery until Thursday afternoon.

He had his left shoulder joint completely replaced in 1995 and the right one has needed replacing for several years now. He kept putting it off because he knows how painful and long the recovery period is. If it is like last time, he will have to have physical therapy 3 times a week for months and months! The pain finally got to the point that he knew he has to have the surgery.

Please pray for our safe travel and for Wilson, the doctors, nurses etc. I'm not sure that we will have a computer with us (or have computer access if we decide to take the laptop), but we will call Kevin to update the church group. Maybe someone who is on Pleo will give an update after the surgery.

We're also praying for no snow!!

  • aleta
    I do pray that you have a safe trip and that surgery goes well for your hubby. At least he knows what to expect. Be careful and may the snow sharks stay away!
    by aleta at 02/16/10 4:02PM
  • jaydon
    Will be praying ~
    by jaydon at 02/16/10 4:07PM
  • lyndie
    I've been thinking about you guys. I hope that your travels go well (no snow) and that the surgery goes well. I dread the recovery for him, but I know he's needing it. Praying for him and for all of you!
    by lyndie at 02/16/10 6:48PM
  • lizsmith
    I pray his surgery goes well and that you have NO snow!
    by lizsmith at 02/16/10 8:52PM
  • motherofall
    Thank you for this report. I was trying to remember when his surgery would be. I will pray. Much love to all 3 of you, and I will look forward to news.
    by motherofall at 02/17/10 7:58AM
  • laurar209
    Praying and thinking of you three... particularly the man with the sore shoulder!
    by laurar209 at 02/17/10 3:54PM
  • elmaravillo
    just heard the surgery went well...we'll be praying for a swift and sure recovery.
    by elmaravillo at 02/19/10 2:31PM
  • melmibelle
    hello hello, hope you guys are going well. we should skype soon, let me know when is best for ya'll. hope wilson is going good, been praying for him. we still aren't adjusted yet, doing ok during the day, but tilly can't seem to sleep through the nights. i'm exhuasted. we are still doing well though, no sickness yet :) we go to pick up melissa and madilyn on wednesday, so excited about that.
    by melmibelle at 03/07/10 10:26PM

More Snow...

so evidently it's time for another blog! :) We haven't tried to measure, but it's very, very deep and it's still snowing. These photos were made about 3 1/2 hours ago!

Here are the photos:

  • lyndie
    That looks awfully cold. Hope you're stocked up on coffee and hot chocolate. Stay warm!
    by lyndie at 02/06/10 2:15PM
  • laurar209
    If there was such a thing as a 7th heaven here, I think I'd be on it. I love, love, LOVE this kind of weather! And I feel bad for the Bieseckers, Siplings, and Catherine... because they're missing the beauty of all this white stuff!
    by laurar209 at 02/06/10 8:14PM
  • celticgirl1787
    I love snow :).
    by celticgirl1787 at 02/08/10 5:56PM
  • lizsmith
    Good morning! Glad you found me! THE SNOW - WOW!!!! Beautiful, especially since I can just enjoy it from your photos -I REALLY like the one through the mirror through the front window - you should enter that one in a contest. And I hear you're getting more?

    Ronda and I wound up staying Friday night in Gainesville FL. We got a late start after visiting with 2 sets of friends, and it was raining, and we were tired, so. When I called to make the reservation, the guy told me he'd had a lot of calls for rooms because of the snow.

    Hope you're not one of the families without power.
    by lizsmith at 02/09/10 8:45AM
  • lizsmith
    Oops - forgot to tell you it was really nice meeting you and your family at Tom and Joy's.
    by lizsmith at 02/09/10 8:45AM
  • aleta
    Just saw your note. Thank you for reading our story and for the sweet comment. I think of you all up there often. One of my little girls misses Luke S terribly. Her mother and Sheri still stay in touch.
    by aleta at 02/09/10 11:35PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    Take it slow but you and I have toughness as our common denominator so I know you'll be fine!
    by 7laughinghardmans at 02/11/10 10:08AM
  • aleta
    Thank you!
    by aleta at 02/14/10 9:52PM
  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    :) Thank you Carolyn - your example and your teaching and your love and your patience have helped more than I can possibly describe.
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 02/16/10 11:15AM

Warmer Temperatures!

Last week we had above normal temperatures, then yesterday we had a cold rain, but now except for some "piled-up" snow, it is gone. Today and tomorrow we are supposed to have very nice temps for this time of year - yea!! For a couple of months, bring on the global warming. :)

Hope everyone has a very good week.
  • jaydon
    I agree! We have a snow/rain kind of mixture going on today. For some reason this winter has been flying by and I am okay with that.
    by jaydon at 01/18/10 10:09AM
  • lyndie
    We've got pretty weather here, too. Although... no slushy snow. The rivers are still icy...

    Enjoy your warmer temps!
    by lyndie at 01/18/10 11:15AM
  • lyndie
    Thank you for the info on storm shelters. I don't know what we'll end up with, but I'm sure hoping it's a basement. Especially after the other night. We've thought about adding a storm shelter... maybe put it under a sun room so we don't have to brave the weather to get into it.
    by lyndie at 01/23/10 5:35PM
  • mayflower
    Global warming is very real. It happens every year. May through August. ;)
    by mayflower at 01/26/10 12:21AM
  • mayflower
    And it's always followed by Global Cooling.
    by mayflower at 01/26/10 12:21AM